Nine figures take you to read the "Family Education Promotion Law"
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Purpose
Carry forward the fine tradition of the Chinese nation in attaching importance to family education, guide the whole society to pay attention to family, tutoring, and family style, enhance family happiness and social harmony, and cultivate socialist builders and successors who can develop morally, intellectually, physically, and morally.
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What is homeschooling
Refers to the cultivation, guidance, and influence of parents or other guardians on minors' moral character, physical fitness, life skills, cultural accomplishment, behavior habits, and other aspects of their implementation in order to promote their all-round and healthy growth.
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Family responsibilities
The six major contents of home education:
(1) Cultivating feelings of family and country: Educate minors to love the party, the country, the people, the collective, and socialism, establish the concept of safeguarding national unity, forge a solid sense of the Chinese national community, and cultivate feelings of family and country;
(2) Cultivate good moral character: Educate minors to revere virtue and benevolence, respect the elderly and love children, love the family, be diligent and thrifty, unite and help each other, be honest and fraternal, abide by discipline and the law, and cultivate their good social morality, family virtues, personal moral awareness, and awareness of the rule of law;
(3) Help minors establish a correct view of becoming a talent: Guide them to cultivate a wide range of interests, healthy aesthetic pursuits, and good study habits, and enhance the spirit of scientific exploration, awareness and ability to innovate;
(4) Promote healthy physical and mental development: Ensure that minors have balanced nutrition, scientific exercise, adequate sleep, and physical and mental pleasure, guide them to develop good living habits and behavioral habits, and promote their healthy physical and mental development;
(5) Pay attention to minors' mental health, and strengthen their awareness and ability to protect themselves: Teach them to cherish life, educate them on safety knowledge in areas such as transportation, healthy access to the Internet, bullying prevention, drowning prevention, fraud prevention, abduction prevention, and sexual assault prevention, to help them master safety knowledge and skills, and enhance their awareness and ability to protect themselves;
(6) Help minors establish a correct concept of labor: participate in labor within their ability, improve their ability to take care of themselves and live independently, and cultivate excellent character of bearing hardships and standing hard work and good habits of loving labor.
In the new year, how to be a better parent? The following is hoped to bring some inspiration to parents.
Without the cooperation of parents, the efforts of teachers will be greatly reduced
A child's growth process is inseparable from school education, but school education without the support of parents is difficult to succeed, so it is said that school and family are inseparable partners.
Parents are the child's first teacher, and the teacher is also shouldering the responsibility of teaching and educating people, teachers and parents are teammates on the same line, all for the child's healthy growth. Therefore, parents and teachers need to trust and cooperate, and walk side by side and together on the road of children's growth.
When a child makes a mistake, the parent's handling is important
Education scholar Yin Jianli said: A childhood that lacks trial and error is terrifying.
It is not terrible for children to make mistakes, what is terrible is the way parents treat their children to make mistakes, which will be the hidden sadness in life. If children do not tolerate and accept after making mistakes, only criticism and accusation, it will be more difficult for them to be honest about their mistakes in the future, and they are more inclined to conceal their mistakes. This will make the child always in a panic, gradually become timid and inferior, trembling, and watching the parents' faces.
Similarly, when children make mistakes, excessive pampering and indulgence by parents will harm children. Do not use age, chance and other excuses to help children escape mistakes, children need to be correctly guided, but also need to grow up in mistakes. Indulging in children's small mistakes, accumulating over time, will slowly condense into tomorrow's big mistakes, and may even cause an irreparable situation.
The effective companionship of parents is the greatest support for children's learning
Although the main body of learning is the child, the parent is the best helper for the child on the road to learning. In the process of children's learning, the companionship of parents is particularly important, in this period, please parents do not say "no time, to work", no matter how busy please take a little time to care about the child's learning progress.
The effective companionship of parents is the greatest support for children's learning. The good environment created by parents for their children and the academic investment for their children refer more to the companionship and encouragement of parents in the growth of their children.
The level of test scores is accidental. When the child gets a high score and celebrates happily, parents should also avoid the child's complacency, and when the child accidentally loses, accompany him to accept the results, check the defects and fill in the gaps, at this time, the lessons and anger will only increase the pressure of the child, so that you and the child become more and more distant.
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Education is not surrender
More important than family education is dialogue, understanding, and using the "authority" of parents to direct children, which will only make children gradually away from you.
When parents and children argue about something, parents always ask their children to act according to their own wishes, and even use threats to force children to change their minds. "I'm all here for your own good", "I've eaten more salt than you've eaten, and I can't hear my fault", "I gave birth to you, you have to listen to me"... These seemingly reasonable but not very reasonable statements are the most offensive to children.
Parents should completely abandon the parental shelf that is high up and preachy, and become condescending to get along with their children on an equal footing, so that children can become willing to confide in their parents and change from "working against each other" with their parents to happy cooperation.
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In addition to learning, parents should also pay attention to these aspects of their children
First, physical and mental health, in adolescence, especially after high school children are very emotional, negative emotions are also very much. Parents should help their children deal with negative emotions in a timely manner and actively guide them in a good direction. Also remember to encourage your child to participate in sports, walking, playing ball, dancing... It can relieve children's stress while also having good physical fitness.
Second, integrity and diligence, grades do not represent everything, and excellent character is what benefits children for life. Cultivate children to be a hard-working person, so that every step is walked steadily and meaningfully.
Third, the ability to be independent, independence, is the most powerful soft power in a child's life. Children should not be flowers hiding in the greenhouse, they should be like plants in the wild, to experience the death of diseases and insects, wind and rain. Only after experiencing the test of severe cold and heat can it grow into a towering tree. Only when parents let go, children will grow independent wings and roam the clouds.
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There are no perfect parents, so you don't have to blame yourself
Please believe that your uniqueness has its own value, and the energy you exude allows everyone in the family to find the lifestyle that suits them best.
Instead of trying to be a perfect parent, the role model you should set for your child is: the courage to face imperfections in life.
There are no perfect parents, only growing parents. In the process of educating children, in fact, it is also the process of parents learning to be parents, do not blame yourself, for children, you are the best parent.
Produced by the electronic education group of Yuhuan Experimental School
Written | Wang Fenfen
Ye Lijing, | of the Faculty of Audit
Responsible Editor丨Experimental Youth League Committee (Publicity Department)
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