"What would you do if your husband gave you 20,000 pocket money a month, but didn't love you and didn't come home?"
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The protagonist of today's story asked such a question to our fans. After Sang Tian (pseudonym) gave birth to a child, she became a full-time mother, and her husband gradually lost the common topic.
The daily silent dinner table, the occasional two sentences are also about children.
Sangtian held the child for a while, plus doing housework, waist pain, pain so much that I couldn't sleep at night. Tell him, but reply" You have nothing to do at home during the day, how do you not move, look down at your phone to see it." Then he didn't bother to talk back, turned over and went back to sleep.
Fortunately, he was quite generous to her and her children, spending twenty thousand yuan of pocket money every month, including family expenses, children and his own expenses.
Sangtian's husband works as an executive in an agency and earns a good annual income. She does not have to go to work, the children grow up and do not need to pay special attention, in the eyes of her sisters, her daily life is to buy, buy, play. When others are still worried about the cost of children entering the kindergarten, there is still time to go to the beauty salon to relax. But with high-grade skin care products in her hand, she couldn't be happier.
Once, having dinner with her girlfriend, her husband came to pick her up. At the dinner table, the two laughed while fighting, from the topic of children to what to buy at the supermarket when they went home. These small things in life, the fireworks of marriage, Kuwata is envious, and she turns her dissatisfaction into anger towards her husband.
Specifically, when he took off his clothes and did not hang on the hanger, but on the sofa she had just glued to; and on WeChat, he asked him to bring back a bottle of kitchen cleaner in advance, and when he entered the house and said in a daze that he did not remember. Eventually, SangTian yelled at him, and a small matter caused the two to quarrel.
The two communicated less and less. Once, the husband said that he would not go back to eat at night and had a socializing, but Sang Tian saw him eating alone in the restaurant at the door. She couldn't say the taste of that moment, but her heart was particularly cold, and she didn't poke him, turned around and went upstairs.
She remembered when she first met her husband, the two had just graduated, she accompanied him to work hard, at that time neither of them had any money, he secretly saved some money every month, and waited until her birthday to send the Hermes crocodile handbag that was particularly popular that year, which she had always wanted. SangTian still remembers the joy and emotion of receiving gifts, which were also her first luxury.
Later, when she got married and had children, she no longer worried about these things, but the words became less and less, and she turned her reluctance into noise. At the end of the day, she didn't know what marriage meant or what it brought.
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When Xiao Tan married her husband, the conditions were general, the house where she lived, 80 square meters was not large, and the woman's parents also helped to take a part.
The baby's stroller, crawling mat, are sent by relatives, every time he wants to buy a new one, Xiao Tan always says that it is OK.
Every morning, he would get up early to prepare breakfast for the family. After eating, he sent the child to the kindergarten downstairs, he first sent her to the unit, and then drove his used car to work.
Although the mortgage, the cost of the child's upcoming primary school, and the small illness and disaster of the elderly on both sides, are all pressures. At night, after the child sleeps, the two will sit at the table to calculate the money, how to distribute, he will set aside a few hundred from his own part, let Xiao Tan buy what he likes. Xiao Tan agreed while transferring the money to the two men's accounts.
"Now life is solid and happy, send children together during the day, go to work, come back from work I cook, he plays with the child for a while, after eating I will accompany the child, do housework, he is busy with work, the child sleeps after I study, plan to test, he helps me cut the fruit, play will be mobile phone waiting for me to fall asleep." Life is hard, maybe that's what it means to start a family with a loved one. Xiao Tan told.
Two lives of two people, some people envy, some people do not understand. No matter what kind of life is your own choice, you can't judge good or bad. Now back to the original question: "What would you do if your husband gave you 20,000 pocket money a month, but didn't love you and didn't come home?" ”
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Source: Jilin Mommy Baby Network
Reporter: Chen Xutong Producer: Baby Uncle