Nowadays, many parents will think of a good name for their children in advance before they are born, so as to avoid the busyness of their children after birth.
After all, naming a name is not a simple matter, and it often takes a lot of time and energy from parents.
A father surnamed Cao was deeply touched by this, and in order to name his newborn daughter, he and his wife pondered together for several days, but they couldn't think of a name suitable for their daughter.
Because the surname is rare, and it is relatively difficult to choose a name, especially for a girl.
In a hurry, the wife offered to let her daughter take her surname, but after the father told her parents about this idea, the two old men did not particularly agree.
Of course, Mr. Cao's wife also understood the old man's considerations, so she advised her husband to think again, and maybe suddenly he could think of a good name.
But Mr. Cao was obviously exhausted, and he proposed not to spend money to find someone to name the child.
However, the wife did not agree, because the wife still hoped that she or her husband would name the child, so that the child's name would be more meaningful.
Finally, while everyone was meditating, Grandpa suddenly patted his thigh and simply told the child to worry.
Mr. Cao doesn't seem to be very satisfied with the name, why should the child worry about it?
After some explanation from Grandpa, Mr. Cao and his family seemed to think it made sense, so they gladly accepted it.
Grandpa said that if a person does not even have the things he wants to worry about, then in addition to the four major emptiness, it should be that life has lost its meaning.
From a certain point of view, worrying is a blessing, indicating that children have a career and a family, and have everything that makes them strive and pursue.
Why are parents so careful when naming their children?
1. The name accompanies the child throughout his life
Although many people around us have used names, that is to say, they have changed their names because of something at a certain time.
But under normal circumstances, names will basically grow with us all the time, and one name for a lifetime has become the norm.
Although the name is only a code name, parents still hope that the name that accompanies the child's life can be better and more connotative.
Therefore, they will gather the strength of the whole family and try their best to give the child a good name.
2. Represents the parents' expectations of their children
Every parent has expectations for their children, but the content of expectations is not the same.
Some parents hope that their children can become dragons and phoenixes, some parents hope that their children can be safe and healthy, and some parents hope that their children can be happy and happy...
These parents sometimes express it by naming their children, in order to let their children really understand their parents and experience their parents' hardships when they grow up.
Parents tend to be extra cautious when it comes to their names, giving their children a name that is full of their expectations.
How can I give my child a good name?
1, easy to read and write
Our names are actually the code names of our own populations.
When others call us names, at least let others be able to read it easily, if the name is too difficult to recognize, then it will naturally bring inconvenience to others and children invisibly.
At the same time, a good name should be easy to write. Some psychologists have found that names that are catchy to read and simple and generous to write tend to make people have better social skills.
2. Avoid duplicate names
Unlike parents who rack their brains to make their children's names different, some parents are too casual in naming their children.
It's easy to have the consequence that duplicate names happen in schools and even after children enter society.
At this time, in order to distinguish between children and others, everyone will give the child some nicknames, or add large, small and other titles in front of the child.
Of course, this is something that children are unwilling to accept, after all, no one wants their name to become the object of ridicule by others.
Although the name cannot determine the child's life, parents should pay more attention when naming their children and try to give their children a good name, after all, the name will always accompany the child.