The long river of history is running endlessly, there are calm waves, there are also waves, let Xiaobian take you into history and understand history.
Today's young people generally marry late, and it is normal to be around 30 years old, but it is often difficult for elders to understand this. In their time, as long as they reached the legal age of marriage, the family began to kiss each other, and it did not take long to do things. From their point of view, it is "marriage is not active, there is a problem with the brain".
In fact, do not blame the elders to worry, China has always been "men when married to women when married" occupies the commanding heights of public opinion, in ancient China, due to frequent wars and other reasons, a large number of people are needed, and when they are old, they do not marry and have children, that is, blatantly contradictory, and they are to be severely punished. Today, Brother Tiger will come to say a word for the elders and take stock of the ancient "hardcore" forced marriage routine.
As early as the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, various princely states had regulations that as long as a woman reached the age of 15, she must marry, otherwise the state would come forward to "help" you find a man.
In the Han Dynasty, due to relative stability and less war, the marriage age of women was relaxed to 23 years old, and if they were not married at the age of 23, the local government would send officials to urge marriage one-on-one, and if they did not get it done, the officials would be dismissed on the spot. In order to keep their black gauze hats, officials can think of any way to urge marriage, and everyone can use their imagination.
The Three Kingdoms and the Two Jin Dynasties, the Southern and Northern Dynasties, have reached a time of chaos again. Cao Cao stipulated at that time that women must marry before the age of 16, otherwise they would be "charged with the army"; In the Jin Dynasty, if a woman did not marry before the age of 20, she had to spank her ass with a whip 30 times, and then increased by 30 times a year until she married. During the Sui Dynasty, if a woman was still single at the age of 20, her parents would be imprisoned, when to marry, and when to be released.
Looking at these forced marriage routines, they are basically aimed at older young women, which has to be said to be a limitation of ancient times. Although it is now the 21st century, for the parents of leftover men and women, why not be in another kind of "cage"?
Finally lyrical, born as a human being, love is important, but more importantly, how to complete this life interestingly. The probability of human beings encountering love is not high, but there is always one, just like Liang Zhu, and it will be like you and me.
Well, today's sharing ends here, and we'll see you next time