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"Aunt, my boyfriend and I originally decided to get married this year, but my parents disagreed, saying that the distance was too far, not knowing the roots, and marrying in the past would be wronged." 」
"The boyfriend is very good to me, I am very hesitant now, afraid that I will miss a good man, and I will never meet such a boy again, but what my parents say is not unreasonable." 」
"What should I do? Do you want to marry him? ”
It's not the first time I've received such a message backstage, and I usually reply: Don't compromise yourself because of your parents, and don't blindly marry someone because of impulse.
You need to think through and make trade-offs.
But few girls can be thoughtful, they have a balance in their heads, with love and reality on the other.
Nervous, tangled, unable to make a decision.
No one can be sure that the person he meets at this time is the true destiny, after all, the cases of pre-marriage love and post-marriage indifference are not uncommon.
If you marry for the sake of current love, you find that your parents are right.
Grievances, sadness, and bitterness can not be said, the path they choose, they can't complain about others.
If you give up your boyfriend in order to listen to your parents, you find that the boy is indeed the most suitable one for you.
And regret missing happiness.
It's hard to gamble, and a gamble is a lifetime.
02
We have too much uncertainty about the present and the future.
I am not sure whether the lover around me is worthy of trust, and I am not sure whether the person engaged to the engagement has two hearts.
In fact, it is not difficult to share hardships, and it is not bitter to struggle together.
No one tells you how long you have to spend together, but the bitter thing is that no one gives you a time limit for only one meal a day.
That's why I feel wasted, disappointed, and tormented by uncertainty.
We need an answer that we know in advance.
Who can give this answer?
Lovers can't.
Lovers are also confused, so they say cherish the present and live today.
Day by day, just when you think the relationship is very stable, they say, "I'm sorry, I don't plan to get married at the moment." ”
Friends can't.
Friends are also dizzy, they can't empathize, they can't help people in the fog.
"Huh? Is it? ”
"Oh, I don't know."
A word of painless persuasion cannot save the impatient helper.
03
Isolated and helpless, we have no way to ask for help, we begin to believe that love is vague and elusive, and then we make decisions based on intuition.
This is undoubtedly a bet on your own happiness, good luck, bad luck, a lifetime of suffering.
No need, really no need.
You still need someone who can really see the future to remind you and guide you.
As long as you know which direction is right and which person is suitable, everything will be solved, and you will not take one step at a time, one wrong step at a time.
A friend of mine, a few years ago, was in the low period of lost love, and by chance, she met a calculator who could guide her.
At that time, she was immersed in the pain of lost love every day, did not eat, was crying, and gave up on herself for a while.
The family couldn't see it, so they held the attitude of trying it out and took her to experience the first fortune telling in her life.
It sounds evil, but I have to believe it.
The master said to her through the region of birth, after calculating: In terms of marriage, your other half is in good condition, so you don't have to be too attached to your ex, and the other party is a pig or a dog, and the family is the eldest son, and they can almost be together in 2016.
Later, she forgot about this matter, met her current husband, free love, and when they met their parents, they learned that their husband belonged to pigs and had a younger brother.
She suddenly remembered that this was what the master had told her.
During the future relationship, the ex-boyfriend reunited with her and gave her a lot of expensive gifts. Even if she still has residual feelings, she is still with her husband with an iron heart.
After the two got married, the husband started a business very fruitfully, which was in response to the master's saying that "the other half is in good condition.".
If you had agreed to your ex-boyfriend's pursuit earlier, you would have gone down another wrong path.
Think again a few years ago, lost love, poor work, and nothing. Look at the present, husband and wife love, family is happy, can only sigh: fate.
What I want to tell you is that changing your destiny is not only your own efforts, but also doing the right thing at the right time.
But no one knows what the right time is and what the right thing is, so the guidance of the master is needed.
If you measure the marriage relationship, you can see the current emotional situation, the general situation of the other half in the future, the family conditions, which zodiac signs are easy to appear, which year they meet, which year they get married.
Friends who want to measure their career fortune can also measure them one by one. Finally, good luck to all of you.