If your wife divorces you, there must be something in you that your wife can't tolerate. You broke her heart, so that she no longer had nostalgia for you, to make up her mind. In the face of this attitude of your wife, you must take out ten times, a hundred times the effort to make the other party dispel the idea of divorce and continue to live with you.
So, in life, if your wife insists on divorcing you, what should you do?
First, admit mistakes, and then admit mistakes. You have to honestly admit your mistake and apologize to your wife.
The other party is not willing to live with you anymore, there must be a lot of problems in you, so you must understand what the other party is tired of you. Then they deny you and want to remove you from their married life. Is it that you have all kinds of bad habits; or do you ignore your home and go to Internet cafes and bars all day long; or you don't want to be enterprising, don't go to work all day, and rely on her to support you; or you always abuse her and punch and kick her. In the face of such a husband, she naturally does not want to live with you anymore.
Second, misidentification is only the first step, you must allow yourself to effectively correct it with actions, and you must have an immediate effect.
Some men also admit their mistakes on weekdays, but often the wives change their minds, and the men immediately reveal their original form, how to do it. Therefore, men really admit their mistakes and really do not change. But a woman's patience is always limited, and once she crosses the line, she can't bear it, and naturally doesn't want to give men another chance to reconcile with him. Therefore, at this time, the most important thing for men to do is to increase the trust of their wives, and to tell their wives with actions that you are reluctant and nostalgic for her, and the feelings between you are not over.
Third, let the child be the lubricating oil, alleviate the contradiction between the husband and wife, and let the child say good things for you.
Parents all over the world love their children. And children are the last to want their parents to divorce. Therefore, you should be doubly kind to your child on weekdays, take her to play, buy her good food, and always accompany her. In this way, you let the child stay together for a long time, and she is very attached to you, and she will naturally show all kinds of attachment to you in front of her mother. And many of the warm pictures of you with your children will also melt your wife's somewhat cold heart. Thus giving you another chance.
Fourth, if the wife has an affair, she can directly find the other party's favorite person and let the other party let go.
If the wife really has an affair, there is a man she admires. Then you may as well talk to the other party. Tell the other party about your feelings for your wife, and let the other party know that you will not give up for reconciliation with your wife, for the sake of children, and for the maintenance of marriage, hoping that the other party can quit. And let the other party feel the firmness that you will not give up, let the other party see your sincerity for emotions. Come to think of it, the other party will carefully consider. It may also be that he will also have all kinds of resistance from himself and the people around him, and your strong needle can make him give up this relationship with your wife. After all, emotions come, sometimes people are difficult to treat rationally, once someone says it, there will be a feeling of waking up the dream person, and then let the other party wake up. Therefore, the duel between men and men is easy to solve the problem very rationally.
Fifth, in marriage, be considerate in all aspects, care for each other, and let her begin to have various nostalgia for your marriage.
To get a divorce is nothing more than to be completely disappointed in you as a person and have no expectations for the future marriage you have together. And in life, if you start to show all kinds of care and love for your wife, she will naturally feel the warmth of the family and feel your love for her. Nature will be willing to stay around a familiar environment, a familiar taste, a familiar man. So, don't underestimate your concern for your wife. Sometimes, it is precisely these subtle concerns that make women fall in love with you again and are willing to grow old with you.
If your wife really wants to divorce you, you must reflect on yourself well and know how to correct your mistakes. Let yourself be more concerned about caring for your wife in marriage, understand the reasons why she is dissatisfied with you, so as to prove your nostalgia and reluctance to the marriage with your own actions, so that she will change her mind and be willing to live with you again.