For a family, after the husband and wife have been married for many years, the so-called love or feelings, even if it is good before, will return to plain. It is inevitable that the two husband and wife will stumble, and no matter how much you once loved each other, it will fade after many years. For the second half of life, living is your two common children, children are a family bond, many families are children, if there is no child may have long been separated, if you have one to repay the child, is the greatest happiness, what kind of child, is to repay the child, there are 3 characteristics, if your child occupies one, then you are happy.
1. The child's academic performance in school is very ordinary, middle school, very average. Don't blame him too much, for children who are particularly good at learning, they will quickly leave you, and they will definitely go away from home or go farther away. Children who study very ordinary may not have such a high degree and their academic performance is not satisfactory. But he knows the cold and knows the heat, will accompany you, on call, so that you can enjoy the joy of being a parent, for such happiness is not what money can buy, do not always feel that children are not out of the ordinary, as long as they have good character, kindness and strength, although they can not be rich and noble, a lifetime will be peaceful.
2. Obedient children, never provoke trouble, they are particularly obedient, empathetic, can understand the parents of the difficult, especially understand the parents' love for him. For such a child, it is the blessing that you have cultivated in your previous life, and the one who has come to repay you in this life. From childhood to adulthood, children hardly have to worry about the parents. If you have a very obedient child, then it is the blessing that you have done in your previous life and accumulated virtue, and you have cultivated in your previous life. For a well-behaved child, you really have to be a hundred times happier than others, then you should be satisfied, you can steal pleasure.
3. A child who knows gratitude. The lamb knows to kneel, and the crow asks for regurgitation. A child who knows how to be grateful is to form a good relationship with his parents in the previous life, and then come to you to repay the favor, he knows to care for and love his parents, he is willing to pay for you, and the life of his parents is his life. No matter how bitter and tired he is, he will not let his parents worry about themselves, he understands that his parents' kindness is greater than the sky, his parents' kindness cannot be repaid in a lifetime, and when he grows up, he will not make any demands from his parents, especially to understand the difficulties of his parents' life.
If your children make up one of them, then you are happy people. Although the children of many families seem to have a career, they have no return to their parents, and how many children will only ask their parents for it, just like the previous life owes him, endlessly letting their parents pay. How many children are particularly disobedient, always causing trouble outside, letting parents sleep steadily and live a life of fear. Many children don't expect them to repay the favor, they should be secretly glad that they can not come to nibble on the old, and talk about what is repaid, which is the evil fate of the previous life.
Are you happy? To be honest, it's unfortunate for most families, wait for the comments section to see the results.