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Author: Seven Seven
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Forget which article you read, one of the happiest things in the world is that the person you like, he just happens to like himself. When the two of you like each other, you are in love, and when two hearts collide with each other, it is a surprise of love, and it is a spark of love that rubs out, that is, a feeling of happiness and happiness.
Yes, I deeply believe that now in the vast sea of people, we can have the privilege of meeting a person who can make us move, make ourselves willing to pay for it, willing to give everything, and even be willing to accompany him for a lifetime.
However, feelings are never something we can say ourselves, and the people we love in our hearts do not necessarily love us. How to say it, if the person you like, but also just like you, your like can naturally get the response you want, the other party will not only accept your love, but also will give back to your good feelings, then your feelings are two-way to go, the heart is ecstatic, and extremely excited.
But if the people you like, do not like you, your likes naturally do not get any response, the other party will not only be indifferent to you, but also show no interest, then your feelings can only be one-way, the heart is disappointed, the heart is like ashes, even if there is more love, more enthusiasm, will be poured out by the other party's indifference.
After all, feelings should be both sides, a person's love is not fruitful, and the really beautiful and sweet love, are from two people look at each other, two hearts collide with each other, to tell the truth, if you like the person, ta do not like you, do not have a good feeling for you, then what love do you two talk about?
Especially in feelings, when a person likes another person, he may not necessarily directly say the phrase "I like you" to the other party, but will show it through some behaviors of two people getting along and interacting, such as taking the initiative to approach each other, caring about each other, chatting and joking with each other, and pampering and protecting each other.
Although sometimes, when you have a crush on a person, the other party does not know that you like ta, there will be some hardship and heartache, but once the other party responds to you, you can feel that the other party is also interested in themselves, it is a long-awaited sweetness!
So in the end, in the process of interpersonal communication, whether two people like each other, in fact, look at these details to know the answer!
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When you take the initiative to contact him, will he reply to you at the first time, and will he pay special attention to your emotions and attitudes?
In the relationship, when a person really likes you, then ta will definitely look at you when they talk and chat with you in daily life, often inject your eyes, and no matter what you do or say, he will be very angry with you, always paying attention to your words and deeds, every move, especially in his heart will be very concerned about your emotions and attitudes.
Whenever you take the initiative to contact each other and chat with each other, you can find that the other party will never refuse to chat with yourself, and in the chat process of two people, the other party will not only not casually perfunctory you, but also will often reply to your message in the first second, and even the circle of friends and dynamics you usually send will always give you likes and comments.
You should know that there are many kinds of chats in intersex interactions, and the performance of likes or dislikes is completely different.
For example, when some people chat with you, they are often very perfunctory, whenever you take the initiative to contact each other, find each other to chat and talk, when you send a large paragraph to each other, the other party always replies to you a word or two without the following.
Even sometimes, when you send a message to ta, the other party is not willing to pay attention to you, unwilling to reply to you, of course, there is a more reluctant chat, especially the kind of two people have work between the exchanges, each other is a cooperative relationship, involving some work above have to talk about the content, need to sell products to each other or the other company, increase their own performance and so on.
There are also people, when the two of you are chatting and talking, ta has rarely answered your questions positively, always uses a variety of memes to deal with you perfunctorily, and even simply ignores your love and does not reply to any of your messages, so it can be seen that he does not like you, or is not interested in you, there is no half meaning.
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When he encounters something, does he think of you for the first time, or does he have a sense of dependence on you in his heart?
In fact, liking a person, not only will have a good feeling for ta, but also will have a sense of dependence on ta, after all, in the relationship, loving a person is willing to do something for ta, willing to help ta solve any difficulties or setbacks, just hope that ta can be so happy and happy.
And whenever he encounters something, he will always think of you for the first time, indicating that he has developed a sense of dependence on you in his heart. And he will never refuse to share with you some things about himself, things he encounters in life or work, especially women are willing to take the initiative to share some of their own things with men, which is enough to show that he has a sense of dependence on you in his heart, and regards you as his closest and most trusted person, and will be willing to talk to you about anything.
After all, sometimes, feelings are not at all reasonable, love a person is also no reason to talk, you will think of ta, read ta, will also trust ta, have a sense of dependence on ta, and even can't help but always want to say to each other, they encounter problems in life or work, some happy or unhappy things happen around them, anyway, to ta, there will be a desire to talk, they just can't hide any secrets and hearts.
But if the other party always says something irrelevant to you, always likes to chat with you vaguely, as long as it involves his private life, he will not tell you, even if he chats with you about some things at home or work, he will suddenly talk to you halfway through the conversation.
Then he definitely doesn't like you, doesn't care about you, has no interest in you, and has never thought of being with you.
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Wouldn't he be jealous of you easily?
Some people say that jealousy is the most obvious and direct performance of liking a person and caring about a person.
Think about it, after all, the feelings of men and women are selfish, especially like women who are more "careful-eyed" creatures, once women really like men, then women will treat men as their own private property, unwilling to let others touch.
This is the same for both men and women, and female friends tend to behave more sensitive and suspicious, and the forms of jealousy are also diverse, such as the other party suddenly sulking without warning, ignoring your attitude, and even chatting with you is always prickly.
And you know, the easier it is to be jealous of a person, the greater the jealousy of this person, then the more you care about the other party, the more you like each other. After all, to tell the truth, no one will be jealous because of a person who has no meaning to himself and has no half a position in his heart, and often behind a person's jealousy, he can reflect his possessiveness and care for him.
Keigo Higashino wrote such a sentence in "A Man Listens": Crush, knowing that it is meaningless, but can not not cling to things, everyone has such a existence. In fact, I occasionally peek at you twice in the gap between conversations, and I really want you to know that the joke that was made at that moment was said to like you.
In fact, in the relationship, two people who like each other and have secret feelings for each other are more likely to feel each other's intentions, but sometimes, they are embarrassed to break the layer of window paper.
Especially when you learn that the person you like also happens to like you, the sense of satisfaction and happiness that surges up in your heart is self-evident, and it will make your whole body boil with blood and excitement.
Speaking of which, people are precious in this life, since the person you like in your heart just happens to like yourself, then you should no longer hesitate, like it, boldly pursue each other, and turn the person you like into your own person, which is the most beautiful happiness.
Life is short, don't leave regrets for yourself, and definitely don't be embarrassed to express your feelings to the other party because you are shy and ugly, so as to miss the person you like. Once you like it, you must work hard, and once you like it, you must grasp it well, otherwise missing it is a lifetime of regret.
Finally, may the people you like also happen to like you; may all the lovers in the world be able to eventually become dependents; may all the relatives in the world be able to go to the white head together!
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