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After the husband and wife quarrel, the two people should have calmed down and thought about their own shortcomings, and understanding each other's anger and resentment will naturally dissipate.
In this case, but the kind of two people who are very affectionate, if you say that as a wife, your WeChat is blocked, your phone is set to a blacklist, when you go home, there is no food in the pot and pan. Cold pan cold
Stove, make you feel very desolate. When the family returns, throw the small bag into their own room, and then lock the door in their bedroom and pull the key away, giving you no chance to apologize face to face, which is a kind of cold violence.
We refer to cold violence for short, in fact, this kind of emotional world without love and care makes the other party really feel cold, in fact, sometimes couples do not want to be so determined about their emotions. Sometimes you should think about the benefits of the other party, maybe your resentment will disappear a little, sometimes think about it, maybe you will not have so much imbalance, so sometimes when your wife does not care about you, you have to reflect on yourself. Otherwise you will be very sad in the face of his coldness, but if you feel that you are sorry for your wife when you reflect on it, then you will reduce your complaints about your wife.
The phone is black
List, WeChat block you. Life is more about you do not ask, is such an attitude often make people feel as if the world has forgotten, the mood will not be good, so when the wife does not care about you, it shows that people do not care about this relationship, you should also prepare well, it may not be long before people will divorce. Therefore, when the wife does not care about you, you must try your best to save it, and if you can't save it, then the gods will not be able to do it.
Leaves don't turn yellow by the day, and people's hearts don't get cooler by the day. If the wife no longer cares, she must be cold to the person in front of her, the home she is in.
And these, are not a day suddenly happened, love is like a child's toy car, just bought back, everything is brand new, body color, parts, wheels are complete, all day long bouncing cheerfully, just like when we first saw us.
When one day you are familiar with everything about this car, slowly it becomes uninteresting, and you no longer cherish this car, hitting the wall, hitting the stool foot, hitting the corner of the table...
Gradually, the car became unsightly, the paint on the body fell off, the windows were broken, the parts were missing, and so on.
Then the car did not listen to the command, at this time even more disliked, simply grabbed it, fell the ground...
The body was torn apart, the wheels were rolling everywhere, and the debris on the ground looked like love.
If the wife maintains this car every day, every day maintenance, every day cleaning, the car is always as new as ever, it is because she is still full of expectations for this car, hoping that the car can always be as new as ever to the end of life.
But no matter how hard you try to care for it, it is not as good as the husband's indifference, or it is more lethal not to pity, the husband plays casually, the car can lack a window, less wheels, so what is the meaning of the wife's hard care.
It is not so much that the heart is cold and no longer cares, but that not breaking it with one's own hands is already the greatest decency for each other.
It is difficult to break the mirror and reunite, life is only a few decades in the world, it is not easy to get a true love, and it is not easy to live up to the other party's sincerity.
It means that you have no weight in his heart anymore, or that the weight is slowly becoming very light.
What is the situation that makes a wife like this? If it is a couple who have been in a good relationship, then men need to wake up to themselves, and most of the problems are still in men.
There is no unprovoked love in the world, there is no unprovoked hatred, and when you enter marriage, you must have had the love you think you have, and not caring about it actually means that love has been exhausted.
01 Men's indifference is fatal
Women's discipline is a kind of concern, such as when they have not come home very late, the phone calls are urged one after another, such as asking men not to smoke too much, such as making men play games not to play too crazy and go to bed early...
There are actually many such and such things in life, and men think it is very annoying, impatient to respond or directly cold face.
To be fair, men themselves have these situations of inability to self-discipline, in the end, it is also a manifestation of immaturity, a man who is more responsible for the family, many do not need his wife to such a heart.
Women's worries are already quite tired, if men have not yet responded and improved well, over time, women's hearts will change, which is not surprising, no one is willing to tirelessly direct and perform this emotional drama.
02 Women discover that what was originally thought to be love was just the fault of youthful ignorance
Many marriage problems are the scourge of youth and ignorance, when young, love a person has a cavity of emotion, never consider whether the other party's personality and three views are appropriate, whether the shortcomings can be accepted, and wait until you get up to live, only to find out how this man looks unpleasant.
At this time, love has gradually drifted away, all care, but because of love, love is gone, it does not matter whether to care or not to care.
epilogue
If it is the first case, then the man should be aware of his own problems, reflect more on himself, a cold heart to warm back, to make a hard effort.
In the second case, it's much harder to fix the relationship than the first, and to find the problem, you need to be willing to work on each other.
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