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Have you ever posted a baby in the circle of friends?
Your baby, do you know that you are in the circle of friends to post him?
In the eyes of parents, no matter what the child looks like or what he does, the child is his favorite. The circle of friends has become a channel for many parents to share their children. Even in the circle of friends of many mothers, there are only children.
However, when the child is older, and then send the child to the circle of friends, as a parent, should you respect the child's opinion?
01 Bao Mom: "If I can start again, I will not post in the circle of friends again"
Kiki's mother has always been a full-time mother, and she revolves around her children and husband on weekdays. Children go to school, husbands go to work, usually Kiki's mother has nothing to do, so she has developed the habit of taking pictures to record her life, and she also likes to send a circle of friends.
Kiki is now in the fourth grade, earlier, Kiki did not let her mother post things related to herself in the circle of friends, and her mother did not care too much, thinking that the child did not know anyway, so she continued to shoot and continue to send.
Once, a relative came to Visit Kiki's house, saw that Kiki was not serious about doing her homework, and looked around, so the relative said to Kiki: "I didn't write my homework a few days ago, I was just told by your mother, why don't you take it seriously?" Write quickly, don't show your mother to see it again. ”
Kiki was not happy after listening, and at night, when her mother took a bath, she secretly picked up her mother's mobile phone, and sure enough, she saw a lot of photos of herself in her mother's circle of friends.
About the homework, my mother wrote in the circle of friends: Grow up, really unconscious, write a homework, you have to teach several times to finish! Then there was a photo of Kiki doing her homework in a daze.
Kiki felt that she didn't have any privacy, and everything was exposed to others. Angry, she ran away from home at night.
Mom came out of the shower and didn't find Kiki, so she quickly called her father, who was still working overtime. After looking for more than 1 hour, I was told by my grandparents that Kiki went to her grandparents' house at night!
Thankfully, there was no danger.
After knowing the ins and outs of the matter, the mother realized that her behavior was actually an invasion of the child's privacy and even hurt the child's self-esteem. Obviously, they are the closest mother and daughter, and now they are like enemies. Kiki's mother said, "If I can do it all over again, I won't be in the circle of friends anymore!" ”
02 Parents sunbathing, remember "4 not sunbathing"
To tell the truth, as a mother, Guo Ma also has a time to shaiva. However, the baby is also exquisite, some cases, parents can record themselves, but must not be sunburned, serious, will have a negative impact on the child's psychology, safety and other aspects.
"There is key information" is not sunburned
Guo Mama saw a parent's award and achievements before, and this ID number was directly posted.
When you are basking in the baby, there is no need to post key information such as the child's real name, the specific school where you are located, and the ID card number. After all, there may be unfamiliar strangers in the mobile phone, and if someone makes a fuss about this information, it will pose a threat to the safety of the child.
"Baby does not agree" does not dry
Guo Ma's cousin is 26 years old and has no object, and her father has always felt that his girlfriend is good everywhere, so he often basks on his girlfriend. However, the cousin was very unhappy, because every photo her father posted was secretly taken, the angle was tricky, and the person who took it was not good.
My cousin said bluntly: If I can't find a good partner, it must be my father's reason!
When I was a child, the doll was still good at swing control, not only taking pictures to cooperate, these sent circles of friends, the child is directly do not understand, do not pay attention.
But when the baby grows up, not all children are willing to "live" in the circle of friends of their parents. If the child does not want the parents to post themselves, or some photos the child does not like, then respect the child's opinion, do not post!
"Unveiling the baby short" does not dry
Sun children are cute, sun children awards, etc., these positive sunbathing dolls, is more common, even if the baby is not happy, it will not be bad.
However, if parents always go to expose the shortness of the baby, saying that the baby is not serious about doing homework, not smart, and taking the countdown, etc., a series of countdowns in public places, in fact, for the child, it is a little bit of self-esteem.
Children's self-esteem is frustrated and they become inferior.
So, there are some words that we just have to say behind closed doors.
"Involves body privacy" does not sunbath
When the child is still young, the parents will not think too much about the baby, and sometimes even the photos of the baby bathing are posted, and they do not code.
Although the child is small and has no sense of privacy, the child's privacy should be protected from an early age!
03 Shaiva, also "moderate"
Guo Mama has seen a lot of Bao Ma Xiewa, that is called a start, a day to send a 10 8, even if it is less. Such a frequency, even if the child is cute, can't help but want to black out.
The frequent drying of the baby itself is a certain problem, indicating that the mother has spent all her time on the child, and there is no time of her own.
Therefore, whether it is from the perspective of baby privacy or from the perspective of Bao Mom's own development, it is not recommended to frequently sunbathe. I really want to dry, moderate.
Pistachio Mom message
Children are the beloved hearts of parents, but to love children, we must also know how to respect children and protect children!
Topic Discussion: Do you usually like to shaiva? Your baby, do you agree with your sunbathing?
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