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Wang Lihong's marriage with Li Lianglei is still continuing, and with the escalation of their war, another voice has appeared on the Internet, which is questioning Li Lianglei:
"Anyway, a slap can't make a sound, both people are at fault, the king is scum"
"After all, there are still three children, and when I see this later, the psychological shadow is not good."
"The two people have made trouble to this step, to put it bluntly, it is that the money is not in place"
What do I think is ridiculous? Even if the money is not in place, what is wrong, is the money not what Li Lianglei deserves? Li Lianglei had already signed a prenuptial agreement when she married Wang Lihong, and Wang Lihong's premarital money had nothing to do with her. But what about after marriage? The income after marriage is the joint property of the two of them. Wang Lihong transferred the common property in marriage is a fact, the house is in his own name, the car is in his mother's name, Li Lianglei is also forced to be helpless, only on the Internet with Wang Lihong fish dead net broken.
But if Wang Lihong is a little more generous and cares that Li Lianglei is the mother of three children, they will not make a fuss to this point today.
Li Lianglei is now so contentious, but also for her three children, the future three children are mainly taken care of by her, we look at their Weibo, Li Lianglei has been emphasizing a point: she does not want any changes in the quality of life of the children after the divorce, do not want the quality of life of the children to be affected because of their husband and wife relationship. She's thinking about the kids.
And Wang Lihong did too much, Li Lianglei asked them to live together in the real estate left for her and the child, but Lihong just let them borrow, borrow until the child is 18 years old, and later have to return to him. So let me ask, what do you think of Li Lianglei? People help you raise three children, take them to the age of 18, and then even the house you live in has to be taken back, who is not close to humanity?
Anyway, Wang Lihong wants Li Lianglei to take the child to raise the child and wants her to serve him, but he does not want to give out a penny, where is such a thing under the heavens.
Although a small number of netizens are now questioning Li Lianglei, then I will talk about this article: Why do I stand on Li Lianglei, a mother with three children?
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First: Even if the two people have not negotiated their property, the money is deserved by Li
Before marriage, let us not say for the time being, after marriage, the joint property of two people is what Li deserves. And I just said that Lee is now fighting for property for the sake of his three children. Women want money mostly to spend money on their children, but also to give themselves a guarantee for their future life, I don't know why the king is so cut the door, even the money spent on their children is also cut.
In fact, men like Wang are quite common in real life, and some divorced men are like this, wanting to "squeeze" women to help with children, but they don't want to give out a penny. In life, I have seen more stay-at-home mothers hurt by their cheating husbands, and as a result, they are divorced because they are in a weak position, and they can't end up with anything. Men don't think about their interests, they only think about how to "squeeze" their surplus value, and only think about how to use "you are the mother of the child" to morally kidnap her to serve themselves.
So who will protect their interests?
Why can Li Lianglei get so many women's resonance this time?
Because Li Lianglei is a full-time mother with three children in a lonely struggle. Compared with Wang Lihong and the team behind her, Li Lianglei is in a weak position, she only has herself, and she also relies on herself. However, Li Lianglei relied on the strength of one person to beat Wang Lihong to "piece of armor without leaving", should not praise Li Lianglei.
Li Lianglei is fighting for the interests of himself and his three children, and Wang Lihong is completely for himself, because he does not want to pay, he feels that if he pays, he will let Li Lianglei take advantage.
There are really quite a few divorced men like him in life.
Obviously, he did something wrong but did not dare to take responsibility, and did not care that the child had to divorce, and as a result, the child's mother was forced to have no way out, only to expose the pole. But he still doesn't want to spend money, because in his opinion, what you do is taken for granted, he belongs to the cheap and selling well, and he has no respect for you from beginning to end.
This matter is placed on ordinary women, they can not protect themselves, married for a few years and have children to pay, and finally they are cleaned out of the house. In reality, such examples abound. But Li Lianglei is different, she is a Kochi woman, she knows how to protect her own interests, she emphasizes that housewives should not be looked down upon because of different division of labor roles. Li Lianglei's cognition in this regard has also resonated with many women.
Therefore, this is not only their own business, but also the matter that the stay-at-home mother has not been understood and respected.
Li Lianglei has raised this matter to a height, when she wrote a thousand-word long article to accuse Wang Lihong, we can't see her complaints about marriage, we can't see her resentment towards Wang Lihong, a scumbag, but instead narrating the facts, and even sharing her own experience to let everyone see Wang Lihong, the scumbag, is also a reminder for some women to make plans for their future, and there are some reflections on the present.
Take a good look at the words written by Li Lianglei in the above picture, she has already raised this matter to a high level, and Wang Lihong is not at the same level as her at all. This is not a question of whether the literary style is good or not, but a question of difference in recognition.
Just by virtue of this, I also stand li lianglei and admire her very much.
Second: Li Lianglei is a mother of three children, compared to Wang Lihong, who has more credibility
Li Lianglei is a mother of three children, and I don't believe that a woman can force a man and then let herself achieve the purpose of pregnancy. If a man really doesn't want to have children, you can do a good job of safety measures, rather than after the woman is pregnant, to say "you go and beat it up".
Scum is not scum! If you really don't want so many children, wear a T, or a ligature, why don't you do anything?
Li Lianglei gave birth to her first child in 2014, a second child in 2016, a third child in 2018, and then a third child not long after giving birth, the man did not want her, and began to talk about divorce with her. They've been talking about divorce for two years, which means that the breastfeeding period of the third child has not yet passed, and the man who has achieved his goal wants to sweep you out of the house.
In recent years, Li Lianglei has been delayed for a long time just because she is pregnant and has given birth to a child, breastfeeding and baby. Wang Lihong can do whatever he wants, he can also engage in his own career, throw three children to Li Lianglei, and then leave home for several months, he can fly when he wants, but can She do it? She has children to hold, what can she do?
I suggest that you go to see Li Lianglei's past Weibo, she is more of a child-oriented Xiannei help: take the child to do handicrafts, take the child to make snacks, accompany the child to draw and play music, take the child out on a trip, the child is sick She accompanies the child, gives the child a variety of festivals, etc., Li Lianglei sunbathes a lot of daily life. I admire her, in the case of her own pregnancy, but also have to be so careful to accompany the child, so skillful.
It's just a pity that you are a good mother and a good wife, and you give everything, but the man is still not satisfied, and in the final analysis, he is still too greedy.
Li Lianglei said that in addition to the two years of talking about divorce, and then the marriage relationship is not very optimistic, but before they were happy, some happiness is true, but the husband and wife did not quarrel, the two people must also have a run-in. But when it came to Wang Lihong, it became a hellish married life.
If you are really under "fear and blackmail and threats", how can you get pregnant and give birth to children one after another?
Besides, you Wang Lihong often fly around because of work, who can blackmail and threaten you? Li Lianglei also wants to cooperate with your performance and you show love to stage a good couple, this is to maintain your image, and what does it have to do with her? She is a vegetarian, who can threaten whom?
Therefore, Wang Lihong finally spoke up, but his voice was equivalent to hammering himself, and it was difficult to justify himself.
You are married is almost like single, you can do whatever you want, but a woman has to take care of the child because she is pregnant and has a child, she can only stay at home and wait for you to come back, what do you want to do She can interfere? Whatever she wants to do is not all entangled with the children, where there is still self. Even in terms of time, Li Lianglei is also more convincing to the public.
How sad is Li Lianglei, her husband is irresponsible, in order to maintain the good image of her father in front of her children, she also has to take her children to make birthday gifts for this father, surprise him, and Father's Day also takes children to make gifts. However, Wang Lihong, in turn, slandered the mother of the child, and who in the end is high and low, has his own judgment.
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Why do I stand for three-child mother Li Lianglei?
Because she is weak, weak, and the burden of three "drag oil bottles", but she is so difficult but still facing the difficulties. Do you think she wants to tear up the family affairs and let the people of the world laugh? It wasn't because he was forced to do nothing, it wasn't because the child's father was too ruthless. That is to say, Wang Lihong is a bit famous, she can also use public opinion to take legitimate measures to resist, if it is an ordinary woman, she does not even have the opportunity to resist, and she does not even have the time to speak out to defend her legitimate interests.
Li Lianglei is for herself and her three children.
Don't take any "will it affect the child" to kidnap Li Lianglei, the child's father has not considered their interests, if Li Lianglei does not argue, what can the child have. Some men are very ruthless to children, because in their eyes, it seems that children can be regenerated, it doesn't matter. Do they really treat their children as their own?
Li Lianglei's move is also to let more full-time mothers understand their situation, a Kochi woman is so difficult, not to mention us ordinary people in real life? Women must read more books, maintain a clear mind and cognition, you must love yourself first, do not sacrifice all your own. You have always given everything for your family and children, but who respects you and considers your interests? In the end, he was looked down upon because he "didn't make money", but it was really sad.
Everything has been paid, a good wife and a good mother have helped, but in the end they are still abandoned?
What about Li Lianglei having a Japanese name? Does this have anything to do with their divorce? What about Li Lianglei even if she is a pseudo-Kochi woman? But the efforts in her marriage are not facts, and then her "pseudo-Kochi" who has created a gold for herself. Not to mention that Li Lianglei is not a pseudo-Kochi woman. Therefore, those who question Li Lianglei still don't talk, let Wang Lihong reflect on himself, why he is full of loopholes, it is difficult to justify himself. This is not a question of whether the literary style is good or not, but a fact in front of us.
Finally, I end with a sentence said by Li Lianglei:
"I think our generation needs to think about issues together. Many of the housewives around me do not have their own savings or income, and they usually feel embarrassed to use the money earned by my husband, and I will look at my husband's face with the money, and I will never dare to say that I want to take care of my parents. If women talk about money, they will be condemned by our society as a city servant or question whether they are gold worshippers, but just the money of boys. Women who have long been family-oriented and have not worked outside the home are usually overwhelmed if they have done nothing wrong but are forced to divorce because the man has no legitimate reason. So girls, we must take precautions. ”
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.