Good feelings are generally proactive and clear.
At the end of each year, there are many people who marry.
Just yesterday, my college roommate sent me a WeChat message saying that she was going to have a wedding on the 28th of this month and asked if I had time to go back.
Lately, there have been so many chores at work that I can't get out of my body, so I politely refuse. The wedding was not attended, but as a form of congratulations, I sent her a red envelope in advance as a share of the money.
When the topic opened, it was natural to talk about her marriage.
If I remember correctly, she was probably the first person in our dorm room to get married.
But in the impression, she had not been in love for four years in college.
I can't help but wonder when she got off her bill and got married so soon.
Hearing my doubts, she smiled and said that in fact, they met at work after graduation, and they had not been together for a long time.
"It just feels right, and the time is ripe, so I'll get married."
I couldn't help but wonder how they had started this relationship in such a short period of time.
Because in memory, this roommate was a particularly shy and shy person. To be precise, she is a person with severe social fears.
When I used to be in school, I would go to the bathroom and have breakfast and lunch, and she would pull us along.
She laughed:
"You may not believe it when you say it, but I took the initiative to confess it first!" Hahahahaha~
But after we were together, he was much more proactive than me.
Isn't that what love is all about, when you don't take the initiative, I take the initiative. When I'm not active, you take the initiative.
Take the initiative of each other, cherish each other, understand and grow each other. ”
Indeed, feelings are a matter of two people, and it is interesting to take the initiative of each other.
Don't care who takes the initiative more and who pays more.
As long as both parties are working hard and moving toward each other, the relationship can continue in a balanced state.
Someone said:
"Good feelings are generally proactive and clear."
This reminds me of the love story of Zixia fairy Zhu Yin and her husband Huang Guanzhong.
Some time ago, Huang Guanzhong became popular on the silver screen again because he participated in the variety show "Brother Who Cut Through Thorns".
His love experience with Zhu Yin was also pulled out by netizens again.
It is said that when Zhu Yin and Huang Guanzhong met, she was in the empty window period of the previous relationship.
Huang Guanzhong, a new upstairs neighbor who had moved to her house, often leaked water into the ceiling of her house and once burned out the newly installed lights in the kitchen.
Mother Zhu, troubled by the new neighbor, angrily knocked on his door and found that the person who opened the door was Huang Guanzhong.
As soon as they came and went, the two families gradually became acquainted.
Once, Huang Guanzhong's dog was lost and was picked up by Zhu Yin. She personally returned the dog, and he took the opportunity to ask her out to go out with her to watch pet shows, go shopping, and watch movies.
Zhu Yin, usually when Mother Zhu cooks soup, she will knock on the door of Huang Guanzhong's house for her mother and invite him to the house to drink soup together.
Between you and me, the feelings of the two people quickly heated up.
Later, when Zhu Yin recalled the experience, she said:
"The first time I saw him at his house, I saw that I liked something he liked, and it felt as if we had common interests and preferences."
Because both sides are proactive and frank, when the media first photographed the two people going out alone, they officially announced their relationship.
After that, no matter where they went, as long as it was two people together, they always held hands and clasped their fingers.
The best way to love is probably that the two parties who love each other move in the same direction and move forward together.
As I approached you, you rushed toward me. We each took fifty steps and went to each other.
Instead of me taking ninety-nine steps, you're still standing still.
Only when both people take the initiative can the story begin and happen.
When you really like and love someone, you can't help but want to be close to him.
Want to understand his temperament, want to know his habits and hobbies.
I want to see him every day and talk to him.
After saying goodnight, I was reluctant to put down my mobile phone and say a few more words.
Go to a place, meet a person, eat a thing, will be the first time to think of ta. I want to share it with him, I want him to be around at the moment.
Before I met him, I probably didn't know a lot of things and didn't bother to learn. After meeting ta, many things are self-taught, and those who don't understand take the initiative to learn.
Taking the initiative for love is probably a skill that everyone is born with.
So, if you have someone you like now, feel that you are really excited about him, and it is like not seeing him for a day.
Then you might as well be bold, take the initiative, get close to him, get to know him.
Generous to pay for their own heartbeat, frankly exposing love to the sun.
Maybe he's waiting for you to take the first step.
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Author: Jiang Classmate & Xin He, 97 years of sagittarius female, love to eat hot pot, I have wine, waiting for you to come to me nagging. Public number: Jiang classmate with a story (ID: meiya54264), please contact the background for reprinting.
Lucky to meet, just in time.