What I hate most about what others say to their children:
One. If you're not very good, your mother won't want you.
This sentence is really the most hated sentence that others say to their children, there is no one. If someone says this to a child, I don't know how the mothers will react, but every time I hear it, I am furious.
While this may be a joke, children are still young, and such words can make them afraid, scared, or even insecure.
Therefore, I think that jokes should also be measured, and the psychological harm caused by such a sentence may not be made up for by how many sentences in the future.
Two. Give your brother to raise, so that your mother will only hurt you.
In fact, giving birth to a second child will originally cause some unfairness in the psychology of the boss, and the child has no ability to judge right and wrong, which will make him misunderstand. Therefore, for families with a second child, we must pay more attention to the psychological concern of children.
Three. Children don't have to be too clean, not dry, not clean, eat no disease.
The child's body is originally very delicate, so in daily life, we must pay more attention to hygiene problems, wash our hands frequently, cut our nails frequently, you know, there is a saying called "disease from the mouth".
Four. How can you be so fat /you eat too much.
During the development period, the child's food intake will become significantly larger, which is reflected in the long body. Talking to the child in this way is very likely to hurt the child's self-esteem.
What if the child is not able to eat well because of this sentence and ends up stunting. So please don't say such things to your child.
Five. Just eat a little bit and nothing will go wrong.
People who give other people's children to eat like this are really annoyed, sometimes they stipulate what they can't eat, and when they stipulate that they can't eat, they naturally have reasons why they can't eat.