In order to make children adapt to school life faster in the lower grades of primary school, parents should help their children develop good learning and living habits and lay a solid foundation for future learning, the following 18 suggestions, full of dry goods, may help you.
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Be sure to ensure your child's sleep time
Adequate sleep is very important for both adults and children, and it is the basis for a person's energetic work and study. It is recommended that primary school students sleep about 10 hours a day, so parents should arrange for their children to fall asleep before 10 p.m. Only with enough sleep will you have enough energy to study.
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Breakfast should not only be full, but also good
Some parents do not use breakfast in the morning, get up and rush to work, which is unscientific, and do not use breakfast for a long time, which not only affects work, but also affects health. Children who do not use breakfast tend to appear listless or restless after the second lesson. Because of hunger, he often overeats at noon. Therefore, the child's breakfast must be full, and if there is a condition, the pattern should also be changed so that the child can eat well.
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Make sure your child drinks enough water each day
Primary school students are lively and active, physical consumption is large, and ensuring the amount of water children drinks is directly related to health. Parents should remind their children to drink water, and it is best to bring their own water cups when going to school, at least one cup of water in the morning, afternoon, and evening.
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Guide your child to develop the habit of resting on time
After school, it is more important than resting on time than at home. Because the school is mainly based on collective activities, when to go to class and when to leave class, there are unified arrangements, if there is no concept of time, it will affect the unified action. Therefore, parents should understand the time schedule of the school, timely supervise the children to go to school or complete the homework assigned by the teacher, so that the children can gradually establish the concept of time.
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Teach your child to use less erasers
The role of the eraser is to erase the correction after writing errors. It should be said that there is no big mistake with an eraser. But why teach children to use less erasers? The reason is that students in the lower grades of primary school have just entered the learning stage, and the use of erasers less is to cultivate children's serious and careful habits, from this point of view, the significance of using less erasers is far greater than using erasers. Some schools clearly stipulate that "no eraser" is intended to cultivate students' seriousness and care.
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Intentionally cultivate children's self-care ability
After the child goes to school, it means that he will be independent in many things, such as going to and from school on time, going to class on time, writing homework on time, participating in activities on time, being able to organize his school supplies, being able to socialize with children, and so on. Parents can help with these things, but never replace them. If you are too spoiled, everything is replaced by the parents, which is superficially love, but in fact it is harmful. Some parents sort out the school bags instead of their children, some parents pick up and drop off their children's backpacks, and some parents even eat eggs and peel them on their behalf, which is very harmful. True love is to cultivate the child's self-care ability, not only to take care of themselves in learning, but also in life, which is beneficial to the child's life.
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Make sure your child is dressed neatly and not overly complicated
Don't wear too complicated, for young children, complex wearing will cause them a burden. At the same time, parents should never compare with each other, than the brand, than the price, meaningless, the most important thing is clean, tidy and decent.
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Pay attention to cultivating children's expression skills
Expressing one's will is an important ability to communicate with each other and show oneself, whether it is learning now or working in the future, it is very important for children. In cultivating their children's expression ability, parents should first encourage their children to dare to speak, even if they say it wrong, it does not matter, dare to say that it is the first barrier to expression ability. The second is to guide the child to speak, will say that it is the basic requirement of expression ability, that is, to express their will according to the child's thinking, so that it is true and credible.
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Tell your child to go to the bathroom when it's time to go to the bathroom
Students often forget to go to the toilet because they play, or they are afraid to go to the toilet because they prefer to hold their urine for fear of criticism. Holding urine will have an impact on the child's health, parents should tell their children to go to the toilet when they should go to the toilet, I believe the teacher will understand.
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If your child is sick, you must see a doctor first
Because students are still young, their resistance is still very weak, and they have just gone to school, the environment and life have undergone considerable changes, so there are often some physical adaptations. In this case, parents should never be despised, serious discomfort, must see a doctor first, need to rest should follow the doctor's advice to rest properly, never because of fear of missing the class and aggravate the disease.
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Pay attention to protect your child's vision
After school, it means spending more and more time with the eyes. How can I protect my child's vision?
[1] When reading a book, the light must be sufficient, do not read in dim conditions;
[2] When reading, the posture must be correct, the sitting posture should be straight, the distance between the eyes and the book should be about one foot (30 cm), do not lie on the bed to read;
[3] The time to watch TV and surf the Internet cannot be too long, and it is best to control it in about an hour;
[4] Insisting on and conscientiously doing eye exercises, using a period of behind the eyes, or closing the eyes to recuperate, or standing far away, is also beneficial to eye health;
[5] When writing homework, the body should sit up straight, and tell the child to remember a recipe: "one foot and one inch and one fist", that is, the distance between the eyes and the homework book is one foot, the fingertip of the pen is one inch away from the tip of the pen, and the distance between the front chest and the table is a fist.
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Watch TV selectively
Watching TV without moderation, for fear of affecting learning and not allowing you to watch TV, these two extremes are not advisable. The right thing to do is to watch TV selectively, such as watching children's programs, animation programs, animal worlds, people and nature for the characteristics of first-grade children, which is of great benefit to increasing their knowledge and broadening their horizons. However, each viewing time should not be too long, so as not to hurt the eyes.
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Give your child the necessary guidance in learning
Strictly speaking, especially in the first grade, students cannot learn, and they are in the starting stage of learning, and it is necessary for parents to give guidance. However, there are a few points to be aware of when guiding:
[1] Guidance should not become supervision, and do not sit next to the child and talk endlessly, which not only affects learning, but also makes the child prone to rebellious psychology;
[2] Guidance should not become a substitute, some parents for the child's homework will not directly tell the answer, a long time will breed the child's dependence on the idea;
[3] Guidance is to tell the method, tell the child why to think, why to find answers and solve the problem;
[4] Guidance is encouragement, encouraging children not only to do it correctly, but also to do it quickly, so that they can cope with a variety of exams.
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Attach importance to the cultivation of safety awareness
First-graders are most likely to be harmed in some of the following ways:
[1] Crowded and fallen or even stampede when entering and leaving the classroom, going up and down the stairs;
[2] Out of curiosity, contact the power switch gate;
[3] Do not pay attention to vehicles when crossing the road;
[4] Crowds and quarrels;
[5] Contact with strangers;
[6] Adventures such as climbing, splashing in the water, and playing with fire.
In each of the above points, parents should tell their children what they should do and what they should not do.
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Encourage children to interact more and be able to communicate
To communicate is the basic need of people, will communicate is the basic condition for survival, whether it is for adults or children, communication is very important. In the process of encouraging their children to interact more and communicate, parents should especially do the following three points:
First, educating children to respect others is the premise of communication, only by respecting others can they be respected by others, and there is a basis for communication;
Second, teach children to boldly express their own ideas when interacting with others, let people understand their own ideas, and at the same time, humbly listen to the opinions of others, so that they can improve themselves in communication;
Third, teach children to be honest, how to think, how to say, how to do, so that others feel honest and trustworthy, this person can be handed over.
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Pay attention to your child's mental health
Human health includes two aspects, one is the health of various organs, and the other is mental health, that is, no matter what situation is encountered, the mentality is calm, normal, and can be calmly coped with. First-grade primary school students have little experience in life, especially when they encounter setbacks, they will have a variety of psychological reactions, such as impatience, excessive tension, self-abandonment, reverse confrontation and so on. When encountering these phenomena, parents should kindly ask about the situation, help the child release psychological pressure for the reasons, let him be liberated from incomprehension and bitterness, at this time the comfort, counseling is more important than anything, do not complain about the world, and add annoyance to the child's heart, which will only aggravate the child's psychological pressure.
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Encourage children to communicate more with teachers and communicate more
For a variety of reasons, most students, especially first-grade primary school students, are afraid to communicate directly with teachers, which is a problem that both schools and parents should strive to solve. Parents should encourage their children to dare to communicate with the teacher, tell the teacher their ideas, especially the places that they do not understand in class, and believe that the teacher will help the child solve the difficulties. At the same time, it is necessary to tell children to understand the hard work of the teacher, respect the teacher's labor, obey the teacher's arrangement, and the harmonious teacher-student relationship is an important factor to ensure the healthy growth of the child.
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Attach importance to maintaining the authority of teachers
The teacher is sacred in the minds of the students, especially in the minds of the first-grade students, and it is even better to listen to the teacher than to listen to the parents, sometimes the parents can not listen, but the teacher's words are absolutely obedient. It should be said that this is correct and normal. However, different reactions may occur in the following two cases.
First, when the student violates the discipline and is criticized by the teacher, and the criticism methods and methods are not understood and accepted by the students, the child will be dissatisfied, show low mood, and even complain and resent the teacher.
Second, when students see that some of the teacher's behavior is inappropriate, such as cold expression, unfair treatment, grumpy temper, training and punishing, etc., they will also have doubts about the teacher and dilute the teacher's lofty image in the child's mind. In this case, parents should neither simply deny the teacher, nor simply suppress the child, but calmly analyze and treat it properly. To tell the child that making mistakes is their own business, they must correct themselves, can not because of improper ways and methods to blame the teacher, this is not good for themselves; the way and method is not appropriate is the teacher's business, I believe that the teacher will accept the lesson in practice, improve the practice. As for some of the teacher's misbehaving behavior, tell the child that the teacher is also a person, there are also joys and sorrows, there are also seven emotions and six desires, and you can't think that others are dirty because there is a black spot.