Zhang Ailing once said:
I thought love could fill the regrets of life. However, what creates more regrets is love.
Perhaps, in this world, there is really no love that will never tire.
When two people, after the initial stay is polished and smoothed, it either becomes a pebble by the river, which can be said to be lost, or it evolves into a dazzling gem and wants to treasure it.
When a woman loves you deeply, she will be full of you, and her every word and deed will surround you. She will become a little woman who loves to worry and nag, and she will become a grinding essence that is hot and cold to you and makes you elusive.
However, if she does not love, what you feel will be the poles of the world, because she will take back her love, all, her attitude towards you, will only be cold, bored, tired, she will not want to deal with you, just want to stay away from you.
There will be a hint of indifference in her words, so when a woman always talks to you like this, in fact, she just doesn't want to be with you, you must know.
Always love to answer you and don't reply to your messages
When she once loved you deeply becomes the current desire to leave you, most of the time you will feel her indifference again and again.
It is said that the person who loves you, the message will return in seconds, even if you are busy at the moment, will also reply to you a message. However, if she sees it and does not return, after finishing the work at hand, she still can't remember the messages you sent her, most likely, she just doesn't want to deal with you.
Perhaps, once she, whenever she saw the news you sent, she would be overjoyed, chat with you non-stop, and stick to you, sharing her daily life with you all the time.
At the moment, she does not open any messages you send, you call the phone, she is also a few words, or directly said: busy, later.
If a woman does not love, it is perfunctory to men, you can see her and her sisters shopping, clubbing, do not want to have any interaction with you, you will see her send a circle of friends, give others likes, comments, but do not pay any attention to your message.
If love is gone, if you don't reply to the message, it's the beginning.
So, at this time, you have to think carefully about the reason, if there is no third person between you, then her love, most of it is in your relationship, a little polished.
Recall whether you were too snubbed by her in your daily life, or brought her hurt and made her completely disappointed in you.
If so, then have a good talk with her, repair it seriously, and warm her heart again.
Two people can meet, it is fate, can come together, is deep affection. Don't let a relationship be easily lost.
There are always all kinds of dissatisfaction with you, and they are picky and choose from you
In the feelings, the most feared thing is that one wants to live a life, while the other has another heart.
Sometimes, two people are separated not by the reality of the triviality of defeat, but just one person does not know how to cherish, do not know how to love.
Women don't love anymore and will be realistic.
She will weigh her future, if in you, can not find what she wants, can not get what she longs, then most likely, she will feel that you are not so important to her.
She will pick and choose from you, even if you coax her and serve her lowly, she will still give you a cold word, and all kinds of dissatisfaction with you.
Even find an excuse to quarrel with you, ignore you, look down on you, talk coldly to you, say that you are useless, incompetent, can not make money, look at people's husbands... Wait a minute
In fact, most women are emotional about love.
She loves you, even if you have no money, your family is not good, you are not handsome, once she identifies you, she will go all the way to the black.
But if she doesn't love you, even if you are good to her, you can't save her heart, and all your kindness to her is superfluous in her eyes.
Therefore, if such a woman, if you have no regrets about her, then do not let yourself wait for her to change her mind.
Because even if she turns back, she just gets what she wants, not because she loves you so much.
Ambiguous with the opposite sex, found by you, she doesn't matter
When a woman abandons you, she will put her mind on others.
She doesn't care what you think, even if she crosses the line when she chats with other members of the opposite sex and is discovered by you, she doesn't care to give you a sentence: Don't worry about it, whoever I want to talk to, talk to whomever I want.
Once upon a time, even if someone expressed good feelings to her, she would shyly say that she already had a boyfriend.
At the moment, she began to ignore your feelings, and even began to claim that she wanted to return to singleness. Then at this time, there is no longer you in her heart, and she already wants to give up on you and find a new life.
In love, there is exclusivity, and most of the adult interactions will have a sense of proportion.
If a woman obviously has a boyfriend, will be ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex, and even face your reminders and warnings, regardless of your feelings, without any restraint on herself, then she really does not want to continue with you.
When one day, you will find that she comes home later and later, always works overtime, begins to be keen on dressing up, looks more delicate than before, and even tells you: you can also find someone else.
Then, you have to be prepared to leave at any time.
Some feelings, if they are gone, they are gone, don't feel pity for yourself, and don't feel how remorseful you are about this relationship.
Two people together need to be firm with each other and give each other peace of mind, not that she gives you uneasiness, annoys you, and gives you hot and cold.
True love, being single-minded, cannot accommodate a third person, and if you fall in love with several people at the same time, it is not love, but just a game.
Conclusion:
Good love is a landscape painting, thick and light, even if there will be some "light" places, but the light is just right, is to give the "thick" side, the best foil.
Therefore, if you have been "light" and give you the feeling of continuous indifference and thinness, then you must learn to accept giving up.
Flowers and flowers bloom, it is all a kind of nature.
In life, there are always some people who bring you a lifetime of perseverance, and there are always some people who come to you and give you an emotional lesson, so that you know how to love more and know how to cherish.
Loving someone can be lonely, but don't love more and more lonely.
Sometimes, love also needs to give yourself a little courage to let go, when it is time to let go, and when it is time to leave, it is time to leave.
In everyone's love, they will experience some trauma and experience some bruises in order to know how to manage the next relationship.
Wen, the frank fox
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May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!