The true face of marriage is: the partner is the same for everyone

After getting married, I found that in fact, in the end, I still had to live with myself in marriage. Couples just work together to support each other.

Some people say that love is the graveyard of marriage, and marriage can bury a person's happiness. In fact, I do not agree with such a statement, I think that whether it is love or marriage, in the end, they are living with themselves, and the key to whether they can be fast or not lies in themselves, and whether they are married or not has nothing to do with whether they are married or not.

Marriage produces a lot of idiot men and women, why not when you are not married? In the final analysis, it is because they have found a lot of displeasure after they have entered the marriage with love. When the two people were together, they swore that no matter what the conditions were, they could be accepted.

However, when they really found out together, the economic constraints, the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the incomprehension between partners, and all kinds of trivial incidents made women regret adding the wrong person.

And when a man marries a girl, it is because he likes her beauty, kindness and simplicity. However, when I found out about her willfulness, laziness and complaining and chattering side in the end, I felt that I had married the wrong person.

It is said that ninety percent of people who have received marriage have thought about not living with him/her. If you can choose again, you will definitely not choose her/him again.

And a truly intelligent partner will understand:

1, people are imperfect, learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings, appreciate each other's advantages.

2, no matter who you have lived with, you must first learn to live with yourself.

3, soberly understand yourself, everything first from their own body to find the reason, and then from the perspective of the other party.

Life is a practice, whether single or married, no matter who you are with, it is a practice of the self.

We always feel that whether a person is happy in marriage or not, the key is to see whether the other party is good for you, whether zhen cherishes you, and whether the heart hurts you. This is also what many women say most when choosing a mate.

It's just that many of us don't understand that running a good marriage is far more real than having a good marriage. A large degree of marital happiness depends on whether we will operate or not.

Everyone's marriage has bumps and bumps, and every time we come to this time, we always wonder if the result would be different if we changed it.

In the relationship, people who feel the same as anyone will be happier than those who think that changing one will be different.

Objectively speaking, no matter who we are with, contradictions are certainly inevitable, and bravely facing them is our proper attitude. Those who try to change their destiny through marriage, pursue happiness, and find a home are doomed to be very tired.

Since partners are traveling together, they should face the wind and rain together, rather than jointly setting off the wind and rain, or bringing wind and rain to each other. When we understand this, we are naturally closer to happiness.