The film "The Promise of Childhood" is based on the autobiographical novel of the same name by the famous French writer Roman Gary. It is a touching and profound biopic about the love and expectations of his mother when the author grew up. The author's mother has always believed that her child is unique. At the same time, Roman Gary took this opportunity to declare his love for his mother to the world, and it is precisely because of his mother's love that he was able to survive the World War II, where he was killed and injured, and he was able to kill ji every time, and there was no danger, perhaps because in the darkness, his mother has been accompanying him and protecting him. He lived up to his mother's expectations and became a French ambassador, a writer, a pilot, an air force major, but too late.
Gorky said: All the glory and pride in the world come from the mother.
Roman's success stems entirely from having a wise, hard-working and strong mother. Therefore, it should be said that without Roman Gary's mother, there would be no such accomplished Roman Gary.
Cultivation of interests:
Interest should feed itself, not impoverish yourself for a lifetime.
So, at first, when Roman was very young, he loved to paint and was praised for his talent, but was cruelly blocked by his mother. Because in the mother's opinion, she did not want her son to die young like Van Gogh, not to mention, and to be poor before he died.
In order to make Roman different, his mother has been trying to cultivate Roman's various interests and hobbies and tap his potential. Playing the piano, shooting, etiquette, attending various high-society parties.
Finally, discovering that Roman had a talent for writing, his mother had always encouraged him, and even on the battlefields of Africa, Roman was sick and dying, but his mother told him that no matter what, he had to finish the book. So much so that when he was a pilot, he often wrote until the early hours of the morning. Eventually became a famous writer. General de Gaulle, give him an award!
Now that you have chosen, you must persevere to the end!
2. Personality characteristics:
A soldier cannot be disgraced
When Roman Gary met for the first time, and a ridiculous first love (eating snails and shoes to express her love), her mother was furious and slapped him.
However, the slap is not because of this absurd love, but because the love ends, and when others insult his mother, Roman Gary chooses to run away.
His mother warned him that the best way to fight insults was to defend justice with his fists. Even though his whole body was broken, he was beaten back from lying on a stretcher. Because, the soldier can not be disgraced!
The same thing happened after romans in England and Polish allies dueled with an English poetess, Roman shot each other, was sent to court-martial, and was sent to Africa far from the main battlefield. At that time, the mother's evaluation of Roman was: Child, you are much luckier than Pushkin, who died in a duel.
Roman's mother, while educating him almost brutally, gave him the right to make mistakes, and after he made them, gave him great tolerance.
Have a belief in success
In one battle, the pilot of Roman's same plane was blinded by the enemy's shooting, and when the pilot chose to give up, Roman told him, listen to my instructions, we are going to drop bombs on the enemy's land, and I will take you back home.
Roman succeeded, he became a hero of the battle and became the French ambassador to Mexico.
Be clear about what you want
My mother once said to Roman Gary that there are only three things in the world worth fighting for: one is a woman, the other is honor, and the third is the country. And these are also Roman's promises to his mother.
Women, as mothers say, deserve to pay for. But there are always women who aren't worth it, and Marit is one of them.
Nina knew that Mariet would not be Roman Gary's home, but would only affect his future, so it didn't take long for Mariet to be swept out of the house.
Therefore, the second woman who appeared in Roman Garry's life was only a passer-by in his life.
He had already entered the law school on the rue Saint-Jacques, the hall of the university, and met Britchit on the train, and after a night of fun, the two soon separated.
Bridget found a new boyfriend, and this blow prompted Roman Gary to start looking for an outlet in literary creation.
So he knew that at that moment, he should fight for his dreams.
Eventually, he became a writer.
Roman's success stems from the mother's love itself, because this love is transmitted, and finally becomes the driving force for Roman to move forward, and becomes the guiding light on The road to Roman's success.
Love needs to respond
Nowadays, we overemphasize "what is right" and ignore the necessity of "value exchange", when the mother provides a path for the child in life, the child should also respond to the mother's efforts in turn.
While stationed in Africa, when Roman encounters an old man who is about the same age as his mother, he will rescue the old man and send her back to the village. And Roman's kindness comes from a vivid display of his mother's love for his mother.
Napoleon said: The behavior of a child depends entirely on his mother.
The greatest hero needs a mother who is most unwilling to be ordinary.
Roman was on the battlefield, rubbing shoulders with the god of death again and again, and winning victories on the battlefield again and again. The more than 200 letters from his mother encouraged him and his courage to persevere.
When he returned home, he fulfilled the promise he made to his mother in his childhood. When I knocked on the inn that my mother had run for many years, I learned that my mother had died of illness a few years ago.
At that moment, he lost his soul. Because all the glory and success he has achieved, after losing his mother, it is eclipsed and no longer meaningful.
Suddenly I want to say: While your mother is there, don't just fulfill your promise to your mother. Remember to give your mother a motherly response. Otherwise, one day, the Son desires filial piety, and the Relative is absent. This will eventually make you hate for the rest of your life!