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As we all know, with the development of the times and the change of ideological concepts, many young people today have a very different way of raising children than the older generation.
In the past, as the treasure in the palm of parents, many parents were responsive to their children's needs, putting their children first everywhere, and the parent-child relationship was above the marriage relationship.
However, with the gradual upgrading of post-90s and post-95s to parents, the treatment of children has also declined, especially when encountering some unreliable young parents, many scenes are crying and laughing.
Not long ago, the experience of a small couple after 95 in Zhengzhou made many netizens call it unreliable.
How unreliable are young parents? The little couple travel forgot to bring the baby, and the errand brother came to the door to "pick up" to amuse netizens
Nowadays, with the development of logistics, everything can be expressed.
But have you ever heard of a parent who lets the errand boy deliver the child?
In Zhengzhou, a young couple after 95 planned to take advantage of the holidays to take their son out on a trip, but because they were in too much hurry before departure, the two did not find that they had left their son at home until they arrived at the station...
At this time, if you fold back home to pick up the child, you will not be able to catch the train, so the young couple is in a hurry, and let an errand boy go to his home to "express" his son by placing an order on the Internet.
Although it sounds strange, fortunately, the courier brother successfully arrived at the address of the little couple, and the child opened the door to the stranger without defense.
The courier brother explained to the child the purpose of his coming and let the child meet his parents through the mobile phone.
After some communication, the brother smoothly took the child to the station and successfully joined his parents.
Afterwards, the child's mother explained that usually her son lived in his grandmother's house, and this time he was too hurried to go out, so he ignored that there was still a person at home.
After the video was exposed, the experience of the post-95 couple has aroused the attention and complaints of many netizens.
Some people bluntly say that the current young parents are too unreliable, losing their children is wrong, and after finding out, letting strangers express their children is wrong and adding mistakes, as parents, they have not paid attention to the safety of their children at all.
Going out to play can leave the child at home, how big is the heart of the parents! This is the legend that Mom and Dad are true love, and sons are accidental! ”
"The first time I heard that my parents expressed my child, this father and mother must have drunk too much and forgot the milk of the cub cub..."
"Laughing to death, this must be the most special piece that the little brother has ever taken!"
This is also too dangerous, in case the errand boy is not credible, the child is not defensive, and then the child loses the adult and even cries!"
When it comes to courier children, this is not the only case in life.
Also in Zhengzhou, Henan, a courier once received a strange order, the orderer asked the courier to send his three-month-old child from home to the destination.
After receiving the order, the courier brother put the child on his own delivery van, but because the temperature was too high in the summer, the child was sullenly crying in the car, and in desperation, the courier brother had to get out of the car to take the child out and coax.
After this scene was filmed by netizens, the child's parents were also complained by everyone, and some people said that parents can be careless when taking their children, but this kind of behavior of using children as items to express has seriously threatened the personal safety of children.
There are also people who bluntly say that the courier brother is also bold, even dare to accept such an order, once the child has any situation in transit, the parents may not be spared, and the two sides will also fall into a difficult dispute.
Parents who have no sense of responsibility really don't deserve to have children
It is undeniable that compared with the older generation, the way young people take children today is more casual, they do not spoil their children too much, do not get used to children at will, and even some parents will focus on themselves in everything and no longer spend all their energy on their children.
If within the scope of safety, such a way of parenting is not a problem, but it will promote family harmony and husband and wife feelings, but casual and no sense of responsibility are two different things, parents can not ensure the safety of their children under the premise of casual raising, will only bring unpredictable risks to children.
Raising children is not an easy task, but since parents have decided to bring their children into the world, they need to work hard for it, and there can be no excuse to escape responsibility.
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