I have a lot of female friends around me, they are all excellent, usually do things decisively, perseverance and assertiveness. But as soon as you talk about love, you immediately become a love brain in seconds, and a road to black, which is really tasteless and senseless and fearless.
Since then, I only want to be tired of being with my boyfriend, and I don't care about work, and I don't come out to meet my friends. All the chat topics are boyfriends.
In fact, I think the process of enjoying love is a very beautiful thing, but once a woman becomes a love brain, she will keep her friends away.
So, how should women stay awake in love?
First, don't spend all your time and energy thinking about each other's emotions and behaviors.
Some people once in love, they like to look at each other's circle of friends, brush each other's Microblogs and all social things, just to see who he likes for, to see what the other party's emotions are, but these fragments of information is likely to be a one-sided reasoning, which will make you misunderstood and unnecessary emotions.
So, you start to struggle with how the other party is like this, how it is like that again. Actually, this is not ok. If you have any questions, you should communicate with the other party directly and ask the other party directly. And often when you communicate with the other party, you will find that a large part of your previous inferences are not true.
Blindly looking for evidence to guess, it is better to use action to verify. Otherwise, there will be a misunderstanding between the two people, and they will let their emotions fluctuate because of what has never happened. In doing so, it hurts yourself the most.
Second, man's greatest sense of security comes only from himself.
Many women are insecure in love and feel that they are not worthy of each other, so they often suffer from gains and losses. And the underlying logic of this thinking is that you are afraid that you are not good enough and lose the other person.
In a relationship, we must find out what is the proportion of love in your life? When you see love as your whole, it means that you have surrendered all the initiative in your life.
It is not recommended to change the rhythm of your life and work because of a romantic relationship. Because your ability and the money in your pocket will always be your confidence, which will make you have more choices in life and feelings, and never forget to improve yourself.
Throw away the love brain, take out your domineering spirit in the feelings: if you love me, please show your true heart, don't love me, please get out of my world.
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