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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Someone said: "If men and women can't continue to love, disconnection is the best way to break up." ”
It is true that adults need decency, and no one wants to be entangled after the relationship has fallen apart, let alone make a big fuss, because everything becomes meaningless because they are not in love.
Therefore, in the process of communication between men and women, if the other party suddenly breaks off contact with you and never returns your message, you should understand that this is a sign of a breakup.
It is impossible for men and women who truly love each other not to reply to the news, let alone break off the connection for a long time. If the person you love suddenly breaks off contact with you, it is actually breaking up with you.
In fact, a member of the opposite sex breaks off contact with you, that is, the unspoken rule of breaking up, and both parties know it.
He didn't say it, and you didn't ask, and a relationship came to an end. At this time, there is no need for both sides to entangle, and leaving with dignity may be the last tenderness.
So, this is the unspoken rule of men and women breaking up: disconnection.
First, when the two sides are no longer in touch, the relationship will be weakened
No matter what kind of relationship, once the two parties are not in touch, it means that the feelings cannot go on.
At this time, the disconnection is to maintain the last decency, and it is also the end of the default relationship, but they do not say it, but they know it.
Therefore, when men and women are in contact, if they find that the other party is not in contact with you, you must be alert, and he may not want to continue to develop.
No matter how good the previous feelings were, there is no need to entangle, because the person who loves you will not ignore you, and only the person who does not love you will be cold and alienated from you.
Since the other party is disconnected from you, it is telling you that he is not going to love you anymore, and he hopes that the relationship will end here.
Well, all you have to do is acquiesce, don't argue about who is right and who is wrong, and don't be humble to please, useless.
In fact, in any relationship, when the other party does not contact you, it is a disguised breakup with you.
Both men and women, as long as you find that the person you love is disconnected from you, you must understand that this is not love.
In the face of people who don't love you, you do anything superfluous, rather than being disgusted by the other party, it is better to be decent, let go of this relationship, leave some dignity, and maybe let the other party look up.
When the other party loves you, they will definitely care about you, always want to know your situation, and will give you unlimited attention.
People who love you will have endless messages, endless words, and they want to be with you.
After not loving, the other party presents you with indifference, indifference to you, complete neglect of you, and will never send you any messages again.
Therefore, when a member of the opposite sex suddenly breaks off contact with you, you should not reluctantly maintain it, it is better to look away, the relationship is weak, and do not entangle.
Second, the other party does not reply to the message, that is, let you take the initiative to leave
Many feelings can't go on, in fact, they start from not replying to the message, but they are not pointed out.
Therefore, when you find that the other party does not reply to your message, it may really not be busy, but deliberately do not reply, hoping that you will take the initiative to leave.
In fact, the person who does not reply to the message does not care about you in his heart, he deliberately chooses to ignore you, that is, he does not want to develop a relationship with you.
At this time, you still stupidly asked, "Why don't you ignore me?" "Why haven't you messaged me for so long?" "Very busy, why don't you reply to the message?" "And other similar questions will only make the other party laugh at your stupidity."
No matter how much you send, no matter how much you care about the other person in your heart, you may not get a response.
Because, the other party never replied to the message, is to give up on you, will not spend a little more time on you.
Friend Xiaotian and boyfriend are in love for more than a year, the boyfriend used to be particularly kind to her, everything is considered for her, as long as she needs, he will definitely come to her side at the first time.
At that time, the boyfriend messaged her all day, sometimes she was at work, waiting for the idle to open the phone, always jumping out of dozens of unread messages, the heart is particularly sweet.
However, after a year of love, her boyfriend gradually stopped sending her messages, and every time she opened the phone, there was no new message, which made her very disappointed.
Especially in the recent period, the boyfriend did not reply to her message at all, and every time he sent him a message, it was a stone sinking into the sea.
Later, she learned from her friends that her boyfriend had been chatting with other girls, the relationship was very ambiguous, and all of a sudden she understood everything, and finally the two quietly broke up.
Therefore, a person of the opposite sex suddenly breaks off contact with you and never returns your message, which is actually a reminder to leave, he will not love anymore. For such a person, there is no need to dwell, there is no point.
Third, the complete disconnection is nothing more than a breakup
If a member of the opposite sex completely breaks off contact with you, it is actually a breakup with you, no matter how much the two sides once loved each other, and now that they are disconnected, the relationship will not be maintained.
For such a person, it may be more dignified to have no need to pester and disturb and disappear into the sight of the other party with dignity.
After all, if men and women do not love, disconnection is the unspoken rule of breaking up.
In this world, the desired love will not last long, and if the other party does not love, there is no need to continue to entangle.
You have seen the other party love you, now do not love, naturally you can feel it, in time to put down this relationship, so as not to consume yourself.
Let go of the wrong love, in order to meet a better love, sometimes see through, but also release.
Therefore, a member of the opposite sex is completely disconnected from you, that is, when two people break up.
The other party did not say, you do not have to ask, maintain this tacit understanding, just leave with dignity.
If you don't love, those loves will become the past, all the efforts will not be meaningful, it is better to manage yourself with your heart and meet better people.
For people who don't cherish you, you should be glad that he is not a good person in your life after all, he is not worthy of your love, it is better to let go.
Good love is never forced, no matter when, retain the dignity in the feelings, in order to get real respect.
After all, relying on humility can not be exchanged for true love, when the other party does not contact you, it is better to turn away with dignity and use the last tenderness to pay tribute to the fading love.
In short, if the connection between men and women is completely broken, that is, they have broken up, and there is no need to chase.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Love, need two people to maintain together, truly love each other men and women, can not be disconnected, but the more love the deeper, no one can be separated from whom.
On the contrary, those who do not reply to the message, those who often break off the connection, basically the relationship will not last long, once encountered, do not entangle.
To sum up, a member of the opposite sex suddenly breaks off contact with you, in fact, it is a breakup, no need to chase.
When the two sides are not in contact, the relationship will fade; if the other party does not reply to the message, it is to let you take the initiative to leave; complete disconnection is nothing more than a breakup.
For people who don't love you, it is better to put it down as soon as possible, let yourself retain a little dignity, to manage yourself, to improve yourself, and to meet better love, so that you have wisdom and pattern.
At any time, love that does not respond does not have to linger. Your affection should be left to those who are willing to respond to you, so that you can have a good love.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.