Many girls have a misunderstanding that it is enough to marry a person who loves themselves, and as for his origin, family, wealth and so on, they can ignore it. In fact, this is a very wrong concept, because love is the most unsafe thing in a marriage.
Because all love will have a fresh period, after the freshness, the test is not only how deep each other's feelings are, but whether each other's personality, life concept, and family background can be run-in. From this level, in fact, sometimes it is reasonable to pay attention to the door-to-door pair.
Before Marrying Xiaofang, Ah Wen never dared to fantasize that he could really go to the end with Xiaofang. Because Ofwen's father died early, the family conditions were relatively poor, and although Xiaofang's family was not very rich, it was also considered a "rich man" compared to Arwen, which made Arwen once inferior.
But fortunately, Ah Wen is very motivated, although the family conditions are not good, but the personality is very good and gentle, especially for Xiaofang. Xiaofang took a fancy to these advantages of Ah Wen, and resolutely came together with Ah Wen despite the opposition of her parents. Although Xiaofang's parents were not satisfied, their daughter had already made up her mind and had to agree.
In order not to let her daughter be too wronged after marriage, Xiaofang's parents not only did not ask For a penny of dowry, but also accompanied them to marry a house as a wedding room. Although it was only a down payment, the monthly payment still needed the couple to repay it themselves, but this had made Ah Wen grateful, and he secretly vowed to double his kindness to Xiao Fang.
That's what Arvin thinks and does. For a long time after marriage, Arwen's love for Xiaofang increased unabated, especially after Xiaofang became pregnant, and Arwen almost spoiled her to heaven.
What only shocked Ah Wen was that Xiaofang accidentally suffered from uterine fibroids during pregnancy, and although the child was born safely, she had no choice but to remove the uterus together. Although he can't have children in the future, Ah Wen is not sorry, even if Xiaofang can't have children, he will definitely guard them for life, not to mention that they already have their own children.
Because Xiaofang gave birth, Ah Wen's mother took her sister who had just graduated from secondary school to live in their new house, mainly to take care of Xiaofang's confinement. Because of the different living habits, Arwen's mother did not like to stay in the city, and when the confinement was over, she was going home. She came this time, in addition to taking care of her daughter-in-law's confinement, but also to find a job for her daughter.
Speaking of this sister, Arwen is also very headache. Because his father died early, his mother did not have much culture, and he studied outside for many years, and did not have much time to educate his sister, so his sister had some spoiled bad problems under the spoils of her mother. And the academic performance is not good, and finally can only go to secondary school, after graduation to find a job is difficult.
It is not that the sister can't find a job, but because the sister has been pampered since she was a child, and she has been looking for a job several times, she is either tired or disgusted with low wages, so in the end, she is not high or low, so she has been idle. This time, I also wantEd To let Ah Wen or Xiao Fang help find a job to see if I could find a more relaxed, high-paying job.
Knowing his mother's thoughts, Arvin shook his head helplessly. But his mother had a request, and she was still her own sister, and Arwen could only help keep an eye on it.
As the days passed, Arwen helped his sister find a few jobs, and her sister went to see her twice, but she only stayed for two days at most and ran, and the other time she only went to work for half an hour, and her sister escaped by urine. Once because I was too tired, and the other was because I didn't like it. At this point, Arwen no longer cares about her, he can find it, he can't find it when your sister-in-law is finished sitting in the confinement, where to go back and forth.
On this day, Xiaofang quietly told Ah Wen that her wedding ring was missing, it was a gold ring that the mother's family had married when she was married, worth tens of thousands of yuan. Usually there are so many people in the family, who took it away is not clear at a glance? Although the mother and Xiaofang do not deal with each other, there will often be some small conflicts, but the mother-in-law will not steal the ring of the daughter-in-law.
Therefore, Arwen effortlessly locked in the target, and took advantage of the fact that his sister did not have time to transfer the target, and in the case of a short time of weakness, he tricked his sister into admitting to stealing the gold ring.
In front of his mother, Ah Wen was so angry that he directly slapped his sister and reprimanded, "Who taught you?" If you don't learn well at a young age, you actually learn to steal things from others? But as long as you fight for some anger, your brother is no longer capable, and he will definitely do his best to let you live a good life, but what about you? Delicious and lazy to do, eyes high and low, what to do after this? ”
The younger sister was frightened by her brother's sudden anger, and the mother was so distressed that she accused Arwen of being too cruel. When Ah Wen saw his mother's behavior of protecting the calf, he didn't bat an eyelid, and even his mother taught a lesson together: "Mom, are you still protecting her?" It is your doting that makes her like this, and if you don't teach any more, you and I will be dragged down by her in the future. ”
Although the mother was very sad that her daughter was beaten, she also knew in her heart that her daughter's bad habit of stealing things was indeed the result of her poor education, so in the end she did not know how to answer.
The next day, the sister who had no face to stay any longer had to follow her mother back to her hometown...
epilogue
After reading this case, I don't know whether to say that Ah Wen is lucky or Xiaofang is more lucky? On the one hand, Arwen is fortunate to marry a wife who is gentle and considerate and has a good personality, which is something that many men dream of. But on the other hand, Xiaofang can marry a man who does not help her family and will support her behind her back, which is also something that women envy.
Therefore, getting married and finding a partner is really a very deep learning. Neither can we simply look at each other's character, nor can we easily conclude because of each other's family background. Only after in-depth understanding, and trying to get along, combined with all aspects of the factors, can we make a final decision.
Otherwise, if you rush to get married because of a momentary impulse and blinded by love, you will often only end up with endless regrets.