When the baby goes to kindergarten, parents are worried that the baby will not adapt in the kindergarten, or be bullied, and hope that the child can eat well, play well, and get along well with the children in the kindergarten.
However, the first time the baby leaves home and enters the collective life, it is inevitable that he will not adapt and will not know how to solve problems.
This is not, see a bao mom passing by the kindergarten, see how the daughter is in the kindergarten, did not expect to see the real scene, bao mom instantly mood mixed feelings, worried about the daughter.
Bao Mom saw that other children were happily playing with the car, while her daughter hid in the corner alone, sitting on the car in a daze, and then changing her posture in a daze for a while, Bao Mom was very sad to see her daughter so "out of place".
However, what makes Bao Mama even more sad is that in the following scene, a little boy came up and snatched his daughter's car, and the daughter was overwhelmed and did not dare to grab it back, but just watched from a distance.
At this time, the daughter has been following behind the teacher, should be to let the teacher help to come back, but the daughter does not dare to tell the teacher, so silently follow the teacher, where the teacher goes she follows.
No matter which mother sees her child like this, her heart is not a taste.
From this incident, it can be seen that children generally encounter problems in kindergartens:
1, children do not know how to integrate into the group, and children play happily together
2, the child's things have been robbed, do not know how to solve
3. Children do not dare to express their needs to the teacher
When a child goes to kindergarten, it is important to cultivate both aspects of the child's ability
Be sure to let your child learn to express his or her needs
When the child encounters something, don't cry or suffocate in his heart, so that the child will suffer losses. Because there are ideas that do not come out, others who want to help do not know how to help you.
Some children will cry when they encounter problems, attracting the attention of teachers, in fact, teachers do not like such children, have been crying, do not say the reason, the teacher does not know what the reason, can not help the child to solve, and there is not enough patience to coax the child.
Tell the child what is going on, what needs there is, to speak out and clearly express it to the teacher. For example, I want to drink water, I want to go to the toilet, others grab toys and want to come back, and so on.
Just as the little girl's car was robbed at the beginning of the article, she kept following the teacher without talking, and the teacher did not know what she wanted to do, and thought that she was playing with it. Her heel did not attract the attention of the teacher, who was still greeting the other children.
Therefore, parents usually at home, they should train their children's ability to speak when things happen, do not use crying to achieve the purpose of meeting their own needs, and when the child cries, parents should not easily meet him.
The child's ability to adapt to group life
Children leave home and go to kindergarten, is the first step into society, although children are small, but also to learn how to get along with others.
First of all, we must teach children to be polite, abide by the rules, do not rob other people's things, do not push others; however, we must also teach children to learn to protect themselves, others have violated themselves, first say loudly, no, shock people with their voices, and then boldly ask the teacher for help.
The child is also bullying soft and afraid of hard, you are strong, he is weak.
If the child is not polite, always grabs other people's toys, pushes others, and slowly there will be no children to play with him, he will be isolated, which is not conducive to the growth of children.
If the child is bullied and does not dare to resist loudly, the next time others will bully him.
Children who cannot integrate into the group play together in kindergarten will slowly become inferior. Interpersonal communication in kindergartens directly affects children's mood.
Therefore, when parents take their children out to play, such as going to the square or amusement park, let the children learn to understand politeness and have rules, such as queuing up for slides, queuing for swings, etc.
Encourage your child to say hello to other children, make friends, and be able to integrate into the games that everyone plays together.
What problems did your child have with kindergarten? How to solve it?
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