The child's birthday is the most important holiday for parents, which not only shows the love for the child, but also attaches the most powerful expectations.
Not only ordinary families, but also gifts and blessings will be prepared for children on their birthdays, and the children of star families are still not exempt from vulgarity, and even very grand.
A few days ago, coinciding with the 14th birthday of Sen Di, The little boy and Tian Liang appeared on the Sen Di of the parent-child variety show, and now they have grown into the appearance of a young girl.
The birthday blockbuster released made netizens can't help but give a thumbs up. The gentle smile displayed gives people a very well-behaved and quiet feeling.
Fans even offered sincere birthday wishes, after seeing this scene, many netizens also showed a happy smile, and even said: daughters should be raised in this way.
Nowadays, the status of girls is no worse than that of boys, and even many fathers have become typical "daughter slaves", and they are extremely pampered in the process of girls' growth and education.
I hope that my daughter can be independent, but I am afraid that the girl will suffer.
Therefore, it also makes many girls have a bad body, which is not good for their future life.
If you want girls to have stronger competitiveness in the future, you can control your own life, in the education of girls, as parents, you should pay more attention to the following details.
[Girls' education should pay more attention to these details]
1. Attach importance to the prosperity of the spiritual world
In the process of girls' education and training, a rich material life can make them bear less of the hardships of life.
However, compared with the rich life, the rich spiritual world is the most noble.
Only when the inner world is rich enough, can we be free from vulgarity in the material world and become a truly faith and high character person.
Therefore, in the process of cultivating girls, we must pay attention to the shaping of the spiritual world.
For example: read more books, so that girls' horizons are broader, only in this way, in the future life choices, will make a choice that is beneficial to themselves, in order to have stronger self-confidence and competitiveness.
2, others give, not enough to create their own
In the process of girls' cultivation and education, as parents, we must make them understand that although the giving of others can make girls have short-term happiness.
Once this kind of giving disappears, it is likely to fall into a state of gain and loss, and even unable to cope with life.
Therefore, girls should master the skills and abilities that truly belong to them, and look forward to the life that can be created by their own ability.
Such a life and a future life are far happier than accepting gifts from others.
Therefore, in the cultivation and education of girls, we must teach them the ability to create life and lead life, which is the fundamental.
3, the heart is warm, there is a firm belief
In the cultivation and education of girls, as parents, we must let their hearts have warmth, but we must also avoid excessive softness.
The heart is firm enough, in the choice, so that they will not be swayed by others, in order to make choices according to the life expected by the heart, because their hearts have energy.
4. Cultivate good character
Character determines destiny, and there is nothing wrong with it.
Therefore, in the cultivation and education of girls, parents should try their best to make them optimistic and positive, and not give up the character.
For them, this is not only a powerful spur, but also makes their future life more competitive.
Good personality, can make them have a stable interpersonal relationship, will make them less detours in the future, but also can cultivate stable emotional intelligence and reverse intelligence, in the face of difficulties, there will be no self-abandonment, but can face difficulties.
5. Strong self-confidence
In the cultivation of daughters, especially in the shaping of self-confidence, parents must give more powerful attention.
Any factor of inferiority, hanging over girls, will make their lives a layer of haze.
On the contrary, girls who are confident enough in their hearts, whether they are making choices or fighting for their own lives, have their own ideas and plans, and they will not venture forward, nor will they give up on themselves, but can really control life.
【Author's Message】
Gorky once said that only knowledge is power, and only knowledge can make us honestly love people, respect human labor, and sincerely appreciate the beautiful fruits of uninterrupted great labor.
Compared with the responsibility and responsibility of boys, girls' personality and tenderness play a more important factor.
It is precisely because of the difference in personality that they are faced with a variety of different choices in their future lives.
Nowadays, the gradual rise of women's status has made parents pay more attention to independent and confident character in the cultivation of their daughters.
Most parents want girls to take charge of their own lives and not attach them to others.
It is precisely because of this that parents often need to spend more time on the cultivation of girls, and these points mentioned above cannot be ignored and abandoned.
Today's topic sharing: Do you think that in the process of girls' growth, parents give what aspects of education, in order to make girls' future life more robust, welcome to share your parenting experience below.