Tian Liang's family has really been in turmoil recently...
First, Tian Liang was involved in the "Zhang Jike owes money incident", and he was found to be the creditor who borrowed 10 million yuan from Zhang Jike.
While everyone sighed that "stars can borrow 10 million casually", Ye Yiqian's early remarks unexpectedly appeared on the hot search.
At a glance, it is actually Ye Yiqian who is "patriarchal"? Engaging in "female competition" with daughters?
As a mother, she not only accused her daughter of being scheming with the statement of "same-sex repulsion".
At the same time, the words are biased in favor of the son, but the desire to spit on Sendi is very strong.
To be honest, Gigi was shocked to see these remarks.
As a child who everyone has watched grow up since childhood, Sen Di is not only well-behaved and sensible, but also has first-class talent for sports and art.
There is a woman like this, even if the mother is not proud, how can she still belittle everywhere ...
So, netizens exploded one after another, shouting:
"Ye Yiqian, that's how you raised your daughter?!"
First of all, Ye Yiqian complained that Sen Disc was a "scheming girl".
In the show, she said that she tried to make a bowl of water as flat as possible for her son and daughter, but she was dissatisfied with Sen Disc.
In her opinion, Sen Di wants to compete with her brother for favor everywhere, and even is not kind or friendly to her brother.
Even she saw the emotion of "hating her brother" in Sen Di's eyes.
And with such a filter, Ye Yiqian is even more brain-supplementing Sen Disc "will beat his younger brother" and "play tricks to ask Tian Liang for favor".
But to say that a little girl and her mother are playing tricks for favor is too outrageous, right?
So netizens dug deeper and discovered Ye Yiqian's other patriarchal operations.
For example, the name Tian Yucheng (the name of Sendi) was changed according to his son.
Sen Di's original name was Tian Xinyi, but Ye Yiqian found that she collided with too many people.
So after his son was born, he turned the name of his younger brother Tian Chenyu upside down and became the name of his daughter.
And, as soon as she hears her son say the words "if you disobey, your mother will come", she will immediately rush out and indiscriminately accuse her daughter first.
Under her big complaints, she created a feeling that Sen Disc was quite scheming and bullying his brother stupidly and sweetly.
But is Sen Disc really as "bad" as she says?
Looking back at the early variety shows, 4-year-old Sen Di took care of his younger brother carefully, making milk powder and changing diapers.
Her brother was sick and did not want to drink medicine, and she also thought of various ways to make her brother drink medicine quickly.
But after having a younger brother, her mother was even more fierce to her, and in the long run, she also thought that her mother did not love herself.
Then when it comes to patriarchal preference, the most interesting thing is actually Tian Liang's attitude.
What he saw was a very different perspective.
Ye Yiqian thinks that he is a favorite, but he notices that because his younger brother is a boy and young, he always receives more care and love from his elders.
On the other hand, Sen Di is often asked to give in and take care of her younger brother because she is an older sister.
Moreover, he had personally seen his brother "frame" his sister, which caused him to feel even more distressed about Sendi.
All indications are that Ye Yiqian prefers his son and Tian Liang dotes on his daughter, forming a delicate family relationship.
After Ye Yiqian was scolded, she also had to come out under pressure to apologize.
But as for how many netizens believe her words, it is another matter.
Before this, in fact, the education method of Tian Liang's family has always been highly praised.
The woman inherited her father's business, and Sen Disc is developing in the direction of professional tennis players, participating in world-class competitions and winning the first match.
In terms of art, her violin performance is at the level of CCTV performance.
To be able to grow up like this at the age of 14, it takes not only money, but also time and mental effort.
It can be seen that Tian Liang's family actually attaches great importance to the education of Sendi, but ignores the importance of family atmosphere to children.
Especially from the national perspective of "Where Is Dad Going", parents' words and deeds will directly affect the public's perception of children.
Whenever a celebrity family is on the hot search, their parent-child family relationship and education concept will always be frequently mentioned by everyone.
For example, Li Xiangwang Shiling and Lu Yibeier, who are "rich and raised daughters", have completely different public opinion trends.
Although Li Xiang and Wang Shiling's high-profile worship of gold is always angry by everyone, I have to say that this money is very effective.
Whether Wang Shiling wants to learn to draw, skate or swim, Li Xiang will find the best and top talents to help her.
The resources at your fingertips and the rich family base are the strength for Wang Shiling's rapid growth.
As for the emotional needs, although her parents divorced, they were reunited for her to go to England to study.
Looking at Belle Lu Yi's family, it is also rich, but it is much more low-key.
At that time, Belle was criticized by netizens for being willful and selfish because she only bought sandals for herself.
After the show, Lu Yi also deliberately reduced Belle's exposure, just posting his family's daily life on social platforms.
Over the years, Belle's topic is not high, there is no long gun and short cannon to chase the private life, and she has grown into a gentle and temperamental little girl.
Occasionally posted videos of singing and dancing, and many people held goodwill eyes.
So sometimes, letting the second generation of stars grow up quietly is not a better way to deal with it.
On the boys' side, most of them are free-range education.
Among them, Wu Zhenyu's son Feynman was the most exposed.
Not only often frightened with his old father on the Internet, but also dropped some Wu Zhenyu's embarrassment from time to time.
Such a parent-child relationship of love and killing each other makes many people feel too jumpy.
But returning to the situation of the father and son themselves, we will find that Wu Zhenyu actually handled it very well.
Wu Zhenyu is 61 years old and Feynman is 14 years old.
He is worried that he will not be able to accompany Feynman through difficult times in the future, but also hopes that he can be strong and not bullied inside.
So it can be seen with the naked eye that in the second generation of stars who are rolling up and dying, Feynman has changed from an introverted and shy little boy to a funny and lively funny man.
Isn't a good education about tapping into the unique possibilities of each child?
On the other hand, Hu Jun's son Kang Kang also received a lot of praise when he grew up.
When he was a child, he was a warm man, and when he grew up, he became a warm male bully.
The view of housewives is not taken for granted, and it is very detailed and mature.
Kang Kang's sensitivity and maturity are closely related to Hu Jun's educational methods.
Once Hu Jun firmly believed that "poor children, rich daughters", always practiced manly mudslide education for Kangkang.
Later, he realized his partiality and began to accompany Kang Kang, willing to listen to his heart.
He always praises Kang Kang, takes him to cultivate hobbies and interests, and does not suppress his nature.
Now Kang Kang Sanguan is gentle and gentle, and has the charm of maturity and tough guys.
Therefore, children who grow up in love know more about love and are more determined and powerful.
In fact, looking back at the several groups of star families in "Where Did Daddy Go", it is obvious that each family has its own way of education.
Some families use a lot of resources to pave the way for their children, and even put their children in the spotlight and accept the "scrutiny" from the public.
Some families deeply protect their children, take care of their precious childhood, and give them a sense of security from the family.
Some, accidentally overstocked, exceeded their parents' original expectations.
It is said that families have difficult scriptures, parents are not perfect, and children are not born sensible.
In any case, parents and children need to accompany and grow together, giving each other strength.
This is the most precious thing on the road to children's growth.
Finally, I wish all children can grow up happily~
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Responsible Editor / Niu Hu Lu Sang
Edit / duck duck