Rich vs Poor, who is better? Wang Shiling and Sen Di, after nine years, are obviously different
Primary Six Encyclopedia of Education
Create Date: 2022-03-1319:59
Parent-child creator
concern
at
Older
In the concept, the son is more important than the daughter, so whether it is living or studying, it is all about
Sons are heavy
。 But with the influence of the concept of parenting in the new era, many parents believe that:
Daughter
It is necessary to be rich, the son must be poor, and it is believed that boys should suffer more sins, so that they will be more
Manhood
。
So, is this parenting view correct? In the entertainment industry, many celebrity parents have their own set of treatment for their children
Educational methods
。 A variety show "Where Did Daddy Go" a few years ago also exposed the parenting concept of these star parents to the public. In the program, Wang Shiling and Sen Di, the two girls' family education concept is
Most talked about
With hot discussions. They are of similar age and have similar backgrounds, but the parents teach them in the same way
Streets apart
A comparison of one and nine years
Sen Di is a continent
Diving Prince
Tian Liang's daughter, in the variety show "Where Daddy Goes", Sen Di behaved well-behaved,
sensible
, dignified and generous. After the end of the program recording, the Mori disc rarely appeared in front of the screen, and Tian Liang and his wife also said: The most important thing at the moment is still the same
Learn
As Tian Liang's daughter, Mori Also has a full of athletic talent, and often participates in sports programs in school. In the concept of parenting, Tian Liang and his wife uphold the ""
Poor support
"The idea. Therefore, we can see that Sen Di will help Dad do a lot in the show
Housework
Taking care of younger siblings is also not ambiguous at all.
opposite
Wang Shiling
Li Xiang, the parent of Li Xiang, advocates"
Rich
"Parenting philosophy. Wang Shiling in the show also gives people the feeling of meat beeping, very cute.
After the end of the program recording, Wang Shiling seems to be developing in the direction of the entertainment industry, and Li Xiang often takes her to participate in various programs, so that Wang Shiling's heroic temperament becomes
More mature
。 However, in the matter of "spending money", Li Xiang can be said to have implemented "rich nourishment" to the extreme. Designer clothing, bags,
Luxury
Travel is a luxury car transfer, which also makes Li Xiang's parenting concept suffer from many netizens
Criticism
But in fact, the family education methods of Bu Sen Di and Wang Shiling are not the same, but in fact, these two girls are not worse than the other, they are
Excellent
target. They all sparkle in their respective areas of expertise, and the Mori saucer is small
Athletic women
Wang Shiling is one
a small painter
Second, poor support
1. Do your own thing
Although the child is small, the basic ability to do things is still there, and the real meaning of poor support is that the child cannot be used to produce parents."
A sense of dependence
”。 Let your child pack up their own toys, dress themselves, carry their own school bags, and don't
Take care of everything
。 Parents also need to let their children properly participate in some simple housework, wiping the table, taking out the garbage, etc., which can raise their children
Responsibility
, can also improve the child's independence, self-care ability.
2
3. Know how to be diligent and thrifty
Poor farming is not
Not a penny is given
Children spend, and they don't always complain to their children about how difficult the economic conditions at home are. Rather, it is to teach children to understand from an early age
Be diligent and frugal
To help children realize the "value of money" and let children understand reasonable expenses instead
Extravagance
Third, rich nourishment
Maybe when it comes to rich nourishment, everyone thinks that they spoil children and treat children as "
Little Ancestor
"Same waiting. But the real wealth is to let the child have a wealth of knowledge and knowledge reserves, so that the child's conversation and behavior are more
Fall generously
。 "Rich support" is not to give a lot of money to children, the real wealth is a combination. While meeting the child's material needs, it is also necessary to satisfy the child mentally and mentally.
Fourth, whether rich or poor, parents need to educate their children in this way
1, what age to do things
Just like the Sen Disc, it should have been
School age
Just study well, and overexposing it in front of the public like Wang Shiling will bring some to Wang Shiling himself
Negative effects
。 No matter what the parents' starting point is, after a round of exposure in the media, many things will happen
Stale
, will also make the child more talked about. Therefore, Xiao Liu suggests that parents should let their children do things belonging to this age group at what age.
2. Help children establish a correct concept of consumption
No matter how rich or poor the family is, parents should establish a correct attitude for their children
Consumption concept
。 You can't just have money in your family
Wanton splurge
Spending money is not moderate, but should have its own
Plan wisely
Where you don't need to spend money, you don't have to spend it but choose to save it. Poor families, don't indoctrinate your children too much."
The family was poor
"Concept, but on the basis of teaching children to be frugal, encourage children to study hard and earn more income by relying on their own efforts in the future."
Fifth, the parenting process should avoid behaviors
1. Emotional parenting
Every child will have times when they do something wrong, but some parents compare
Acute child
He always likes to use yelling or beating to educate his children. Such a parenting method will make the child's body and mind hurt, and will also make the child feel strong towards the parents
Fear
。 This will not only affect the parent-child relationship, but also may allow children to learn the way parents behave and love to use things in the future
Violent resolution
2. The methods of education are not uniform
In parenting, the most taboo is that the education front is not unified. If one person is white-faced and one person is red-faced, one person is educating children and one person is
Protect your children
This way of education is very bad. Children will become more dependent on one side.2
There is no fear
Therefore, it is recommended that parents should be in the concept of parenting
Stay unified
principle, so that we can play a better educational effect.
Little Six said
: Whether it is the rich Wang Shiling or the poor Sen Di, they all have their own
Pros and cons
。 But because we are not parties and the situation is different for each family, as outsiders, it is difficult for us to judge the quality of their parenting style. Whether it is rich or poor, parents should maintain it in the process of educating their children
stable
The emotions that give the child more relationships to maintain
unification
of the front. Nor can we follow all of other people's parenting methods, but choose the most suitable method for children according to their own situation and the child's situation.