Wang Yuelun is impressive this time? Not a good husband, but a good father!

Recently, an interview show by Wang Yuelun became popular. In the interview, he talked about Wang Shiling's education, from the choice of kindergarten to the future enrollment plan, everything is well understood.

Attracted comments from netizens: "This dad is absolutely qualified!" "I'm a little impressed by Wang Yuelun."

I have been a director for 20 years, but I am not out of the circle with my works, but out of the circle with education, and I can also get the unanimous appreciation of picky netizens, which is also unique in the entertainment industry.

However, looking at her daughter Wang Shiling, she immediately understood where her father's confidence was.

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At the age of 3, Wang Shiling participated in the variety show "Where Is Dad Going", as the youngest child among them, he can not only take care of other children, but also be considerate of several fathers, and the image of being well-behaved and sensible is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

In the following ten years, Wang Shiling never left people's vision, she won many awards in art competitions, fell in love with sports, successfully lost weight, and this year entered the top ten Bernaton Girls' School in the UK, often sharing her daily study and life.

Every time she appears on the hot search, she is a voice of praise and envy.

How did 13-year-old Wang Shiling get raised? Dad Wang Yuelun told us how important it is to accompany and guide parents in the years when children grow up.

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Expensive and far away, what is an international school good?

Initially, Wang attended a Montessori International Kindergarten. Not long after, a public kindergarten opened downstairs in the community, with advanced facilities and close to home, and her parents decided to let Shiling transfer to this kindergarten.

However, on Children's Day, the public kindergarten held a celebration, and the children were all basking in the playground, while the leaders and teachers sat in the shade and enjoyed the children's performances.

This made Wang Yuelun feel very uncomfortable, because the improvement of hardware conditions did not make up for the lack of educational concepts. From that day on, he firmly put Shiling on the road of international education.

Image source: Interview with "New Noble Wang"

In addition to differences in educational philosophy, international schools also pay more attention to equality and justice.

In public schools, teachers will know what the child's parents do, what the family conditions are, and it can be said that the child's origin and background will be treated at school.

If the teacher has a good relationship with the child's parents, they may praise the child more in class.

Even the security guards in the parking lot can clearly remember who is in each car and which child's parent is, and if some people drive official cars to pick up their children, the doorman will even stop other vehicles and let the car pass first.

This phenomenon of inequality and discrimination exists in all aspects of public kindergartens.

However, in international schools, the teachers are foreigners and they don't care who the parents of their children are. Some teachers teach in one school for a year or two and then transfer to other schools, so there is no need to have a good relationship with the child's parents.

In this way, Wang Shiling was able to complete junior high school and primary school in a school that respects the development of children's personalities and has a relatively equal environment.

Image source: Interview with "New Noble Wang"

Through conversations with friends and her own research, Wang Yuelun realized that if she wanted her children to enter top schools such as Oxford and Cambridge, she needed to let her children enter the British education system as soon as possible.

So, Wang Yuelun and Li Xiang went to England to visit and investigate, and decided to let Wang Shiling transfer to Bernaton Girls' School.

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The best way to raise a daughter: raise her as a "little princess"

There is a famous scene in the variety show "Where Is Dad Going", other children asked Wang Shiling if he was a big star, and Wang Shiling replied: "I'm not a big star, I'm a little princess." ”

At that time, people took this sentence as a joke, but they did not expect that 10 years later, Wang Shiling really grew into a princess living in an English castle.

It turns out that the best way to raise a daughter is to raise her as a "little princess".

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Cultivate both inside and out, cultivate the elegance of a princess.

Wang Yuelun said that the reason why she chose Bernaton Girls' School is because the school will open some courses for girls, such as speech and behavior, grooming, golf and equestrianism, etc., to train girls in the direction of ladies.

At the same time, Wang Shiling learned piano and painting from an early age, and took the initiative to stick to it, which also laid a solid foundation for her art learning.

Love and self-discipline develop the confidence of a princess.

Wang Shiling has been a confident girl since she was a child, and when other boys said that she was too heavy to hold her, she said without humility: "Why don't you drink more bottles of yogurt." ”

An important reason for this is the sense of security her parents give her. Wang Shiling grew up with the praise of her parents, and her parents' love and protection for her made her not afraid of gossip from the outside world.

At the same time, self-discipline has also made her better. After Wang Shiling decided to lose weight, she was able to put it into action immediately, insisting on jumping exercises and eating fat-reducing meals every day, which led to a good figure under the lens today.

Image source: Interview with "New Noble Wang"

Be studious and cultivate the mind of a princess.

Wang Yuelun recalled that Wang Shiling had never taken a remedial cultural class since she was a child, and she never let her parents worry about her studies. When she was a child, only mathematics was not very good, and when she realized this problem, she would immediately take the initiative to learn and make up for it herself.

For the future, Wang Shiling also has her own ideas, she does not want to enter the entertainment industry like her parents and parents, but is determined to go to the art department of Oxford University and shine in the field she loves.

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Giving with love, not sacrifice, but happiness

A few days ago, 47-year-old Li Xiang suddenly announced his retirement, with the wish to "bring good children and accompany good parents."

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She is not good at English, and she goes abroad to study with her for most of the year. Faced with a completely unfamiliar environment, she went to the supermarket alone to shop, took the subway alone, and when the language was not clear, she used the translation software to check word by word, and then showed it to others.

Li Xiang was shocked and admired by his daughter's dedication, even Wang Yuelun.

Different from Li Xiang's optimistic and self-consistent state, many mothers will have a sense of sacrifice in the process of accompanying students, on the one hand, they feel that they have paid too much for their children, sacrificing their career and life, and on the other hand, they feel that their fathers have paid too little in parenting.

However, such a situation is almost non-existent in Wang Shiling's home, for Li Xiang, Wang Shiling is her best work, and accompanying her daughter is her happiest thing.

At the same time, Wang Yuelun will also assume his due responsibility in the process of educating children.

Although Wang Yuelun and Li Xiang have divorced, they have tried to minimize the impact of divorce on their children. The few times the two get together are almost all to accompany their daughter.

Image source: Interview with "New Noble Wang"

In people's minds, the father is always the one who is further away from the child. It is not uncommon for a careless father to send his child to the kindergarten next door, and the father to walk to the wrong classroom for the first parent-teacher meeting.

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However, Wang Yuelun proved with practical actions that when the child grows up, the father can not only be present, but also play.

Only the mutual cooperation of both parents can give children emotional companionship and rational planning, and use education to give children wings to fly.