The other day, I saw a photo of Hanfu and froze, this is ... Wang Shiling? Is Wang Shiling so much like her father Wang Yuelun?
It turned out that Wang Shiling, who had recently studied in the UK, was on vacation, and she returned to China with her mother, and Wang Yuelun took her to take a set of "ancient style" photos
The father and daughter also studied together for a while
When Wang Shiling was taking pictures, Wang Yuelun was waiting for her next to her
When this set of videos was exposed, many netizens commented that Wang Shiling's appearance was too similar to a man
Because the controversy was too big, Li Xiang couldn't hold back and responded with five simple words: "Daddy's aesthetics"
Li Xiang's words can also be understood, looking at Wang Shiling's appearance, you will know that only his father's aesthetics will be so unreliable.
I don't know if this shape was chosen by Wang Yuelun, but this overall shape is very incompatible with Wang Shiling's temperament. The makeup artist gave Wang Shiling a perfunctory makeup. The hairstyle is old, the eyebrows are too handsome, and the face shape is not modified, obviously a 10-year-old adolescent beautiful girl, a styling down, all the advantages are covered, is stunned is to amplify all the shortcomings.
To tell the truth, it is not easy to achieve this goal. Of course, this is an untouched photo, and it may also be different after the later retouching of the picture
Perhaps in order to help everyone wash away such a bad impression, Li Xiang quickly posted a few photos he took for Wang Shiling
The daughter in the eyes of the mother and the daughter in the eyes of the father are really different.
Although Wang Yuelun's aesthetics for his daughter are not good, his relationship with his daughter is admirable.
Wang Yuelun and Li Xiang have been divorced for several years, and they were still very ugly when they divorced. Wang Yuelun posted a divorce statement on Weibo in the early morning:
He said that he and Li Xiang had broken up their relationship for many years because of long-term personality incompatibility, and they had broken up peacefully in July; At the same time, he said that the two will raise their daughter together, and the 12-year marriage will be unforgettable for life, and the two will be friends and parents of children in the future.
Finally, he also wished Li Xiang and her sweetheart to grow old together. This is undoubtedly to tell everyone that Li Xiang already has a crush.
At that time, Li Xiang's response was also excellent, he didn't say anything, just dried a plate of green and black dishes, accompanied by a song called "Southern Hemisphere and Hokkaido"
Later, she also posted some photos with other members of the opposite sex, suggesting that her life was wonderful.
At that time, netizens not only did not say anything, but basically stood on Li Xiang's side. The reason is not surprising, mainly because Wang Yuelun was once again photographed intimate with other women.
Prior to this, Wang Yuelun, who was known as "strict wife management", had been photographed hugging other girls many times.
At the beginning, Wang Yuelun was in a situation, and solemnly stated that Li Xiang would also help him clarify
After being exposed by paparazzi again and again, Wang Yuelun's statement turned into an apology
Everyone knows Li Xiang's personality, Wang Yuelun has repeatedly cheated, and it is not surprising that the two of them will come to the step of divorce.
But everyone didn't expect that they would have all kinds of insinuations when they divorced, and later everyone found out from Wang Yuelun's words on Wang Shiling's birthday that they were likely to be quite embarrassed when they divorced.
But what is really surprising is that the two people who tear each other apart during divorce will choose to reconcile for their daughter
Their relationship was restored after Wang Shiling decided to study abroad. In February 22, Wang Yuelun sent a Weibo message asking the media not to expose him again, saying that the most important thing for him in the future is to take care of and accompany his daughter, and he and Li Xiang will give their daughter selfless love and care like relatives
In the first half of 2022, Wang Yuelun was with Li Xiang and Wang Shiling, and at that time, they should have begun to prepare for Wang Shiling to study in the UK.
At the end of August, the two appeared at Pudong Airport with Wang Shiling and headed for the UK
This time we sent our daughter to the UK together, I should also hope that my daughter will leave warm family memories.
After arriving in the UK, the two of them also went shopping together and bought furniture with a relatively intimate attitude
The two of them can choose to reconcile after going through violent emotional fluctuations, keep each other calm for their daughters, do not say bad things about each other, do not expose each other's old bottom, let their daughters feel the warmth of being loved by their parents, this way of dealing is mature, rational, and very helpful for the growth of children.
The child will know that the divorce of mom and dad is a problem in their own relationship and has nothing to do with themselves. The child does not need to get caught up in the conflict between her parents or take sides, she can freely contact her parents and enjoy the love of both parents. Such children do not have to choose between their parents, will not be troubled by parental conflicts, and can minimize the harm caused by parental divorce.
It is precisely because of this that Wang Shiling, who has entered adolescence, can still maintain such a good relationship with Wang Yuelun!
You know, adolescent girls have a stage of "father-weary", and the father who has been stuck to them is easy to become the object of their dislike.
They are unwilling to communicate with their father, and they are heartfelt disgust for their father's various performances, and it is difficult to suppress their disgust for their greasy and sloppy father after middle age, and they do not allow their father to enter their room without permission, and even their own clothes are not mixed with their father's clothes to wash.
It is normal for adolescent girls, because of the development of secondary sexual characteristics, to reinforce their gender awareness. At this time, girls only play with girls, and boys only play with boys. There is a stage when boys and girls do not interact with each other.
Because the father is also male, the relationship between the girl and the father is the same, and she will involuntarily distance herself and show disgust and disgust for her father's various sloppy behaviors.
This situation will not last forever, as girls grow up and complete their female identity, their psychology will slowly mature, they will reopen their boundaries, and begin to accept men again. The relationship with my father will gradually improve, and I will also begin to communicate with my male classmates.
If the relationship between the father and the daughter is good, accept the daughter's rejection of himself, respect the daughter's requirements, and be willing to tolerate the daughter, the girl can get out of the "father-weary" mood faster, restore the relationship with the father, and maintain a good relationship with the father again.
On the contrary, if the relationship between the father and the daughter is not good, the father's attitude towards the daughter has been very poor, after entering adolescence, he does not know how to respect the daughter, is annoyed by the estrangement of the daughter, and often reprimands the daughter, the girl may fall into this "father-like" mood and can no longer maintain a good relationship with the father.
Returning to the relationship between Wang Yuelun and Wang Shiling, you will know that now Wang Shiling can maintain a good relationship with his father, is willing to cooperate with his arrangement, communicate with him intimately, and take this kind of Hanfu photo in the company of his father, which is all the reward of Wang Yuelun's previous efforts.
Judging from the popularity and aesthetics of adolescent girls now, they will most likely not like to take this kind of Hanfu photos. According to Wang Shiling's aesthetics, she is willing to cooperate in taking this kind of photo, just to satisfy her father.
So, the effort always pays off.