As the old saying goes: Don't fool young people into being poor. Young people have just stepped into society, just joined the work, the salary will not be very high, and the hand is naturally not rich. But young people have youth, and youth is priceless. As long as you work hard, as long as you slowly accumulate, the money in your pocket will always gradually increase.
Some middle-aged people, who have a few dollars in their hands, look down on young people. As everyone knows, I also came from a young man, and I was also shy. Now that I have a little savings, I don't know that the southeast, south, and northwest are bullying and suppressing young people everywhere, which is really a very undeserved thing.
People must have ambition, people can not be poor, young people work hard in a down-to-earth manner, I believe that the way of heaven rewards diligence, the future will surely be better and better. Young people should be full of self-confidence, bravely go forward, and strive hard, and the life of struggle will have meaning and value.
Some young men are poor and dare not fall in love, and they do not have the funds to fall in love, which is really helpless. But if a girl with good character really loves you, she won't care if you have money now. She cares more about how you are, whether you are self-motivated, whether your character is good or not, etc.
Because he had no money, he was looked down upon by his mother-in-law, and a few years later, his son-in-law raised his eyebrows
Lin Zhi's family conditions are not good, his father fell ill and died when he was in high school, and Lin Zhi also has a younger brother who is in junior high school. Lin Zhi's mother is an ordinary rural woman, she alone provides for her two sons to study, but also has to pay off the debt owed by her husband when he sees a doctor, and the burden can be imagined.
Therefore, Lin Zhi, who has a good academic performance, secretly dropped out of school without his mother himself, and then followed his fellow villagers to work in other places. Lin Zhi left only a little living expenses for the money earned from part-time work, and sent the rest back to his hometown. Because of Lin Zhi's income, the family's economic situation has improved a lot, and his younger brother can continue to study.
Later, Lin Zhi's diligent efforts and positive self-motivation touched the heart of a girl. The girl is a local, and the family conditions are average, but compared with the Lin Zhi family, it is of course very good. The girl took the initiative to pursue Lin Zhi, and Lin Zhi felt that he was not worthy of her, so he repeatedly refused.
The girl is very persistent, she doesn't care about the conditions of Lin Zhijia's family, she cares about Lin Zhi as a person. The girl chased Lin Zhi for nearly a year, Lin Zhi was deeply moved, and then the two people were together. The girl took Lin Zhi home to see her parents, but was strongly opposed by her mother, because the conditions of Lin Zhi's family were too poor.
In order to break up her daughter and Lin Zhi, the mother used various means, such as locking up her daughter and running to the place where Lin Zhi worked to scold Lin Zhi. After her daughter escaped from home, the mother also called the police, saying that Lin Zhi had abducted her daughter. But no matter how much her mother objected, the girl still insisted on getting a marriage license with Lin Zhi.
After Lin Zhi and his wife got married, his mother-in-law never gave him a good look, always looked down on him, and scolded him for seducing her daughter in order to stay in the city. If Lin Zhi did not look at his wife's face and really did not want to deal with his mother-in-law, although he had no money, he was not a person without self-esteem.
Lin Zhi secretly vowed that he must mix with people, show it to his mother-in-law, and make his wife feel that he is not wrong to choose him. So Lin Zhi quit his original job in the workshop, went to do sales, and went from place to place every day. In order to sell the product, he is constantly learning, studying communication skills and psychology.
Later, Lin Zhi came out of the factory and began to work alone, starting from a small workshop. After more than 5 years of hard work, Lin Zhi, a poor boy who was once a poor boy, finally has a company, and the benefits are still very good. Lin Zhi and his wife have a son, the couple has a good relationship, and the family of three is very happy.
The mother-in-law had always looked down on Lin Zhi before, and now that Lin Zhi was developed, she began to seduce Lin Zhi. Although Lin Zhi is okay with his mother-in-law on the surface, in his heart, he can't forget the shame and hurt that his mother-in-law once had for him, just looking at his wife's face, he didn't mention those things.
One day, the mother-in-law came to ask Lin Zhi to borrow money, and as soon as she opened her mouth, she would borrow 500,000 yuan, which surprised Lin Zhi. It turned out that the mother-in-law's precious son, who had always been proud of, went to borrow usury after gambling and lost money, wanted to turn over the money, and the result was more and more lost, and now the people who put loan sharks came to force the debt.
Lin Zhi only lent 200,000 yuan to his mother-in-law, which still depends on the face of his wife, and the mother-in-law said that she borrowed, but in fact, there was no repayment. Lin Zhi was not a stingy person, but he couldn't swallow that breath. I think when he first started business, his wife helped him to ask his mother-in-law to borrow 20,000 yuan, and the mother-in-law refused to take a bite.
The mother-in-law not only refused, but also called to scold Lin Zhi. The mother-in-law said that Lin Zhi's fox tail was finally exposed, and asked his wife to come to his mother-in-law's house to ask for money, and they would not lend Lin Zhi a penny. Lin Zhi was very humiliated, so he told his wife not to go back to her mother's house to borrow money no matter how difficult it was in the future.
Now Lin Zhi is only willing to lend 200,000 yuan to his mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law is very angry, so in front of many employees in the company, she scolds Lin Zhi with a broken mouth, and the scolding is very ugly.
Lin Zhi finally couldn't bear it anymore, so he said to his mother-in-law: Mom, you used to look down on me a lot, I'm not even as good as a bunch of in your eyes. We asked you to borrow 20,000, and you refused to lend it to us, and humiliated me, and now I lend you 200,000, which is already good..."
The mother-in-law did not say a word, and the wife remembered that when she went to borrow the 20,000 yuan, she was driven out by her mother, and she stood on Lin Zhi's side. The mother-in-law has always favored sons over daughters, and she originally wanted to earn a large amount of dowry money through her daughter, but her daughter found Lin Zhi, a poor boy, so she never wanted to see her daughter.
Husbands and wives work with one heart and one mind, and the days will always get better and better
A person cannot choose his origin, some native families are rich, some native families are poor, and each family has its own situation. But everyone should be motivated, do their best within their own capabilities, and live with ideals and purpose.
Husband and wife work hard with one heart and one mind, and the days will always get better and better, so it is said that "husband and wife are in the same heart, and their profits are broken.". Lin Zhi and his wife walk together because of love, and the two people are not afraid of poverty and work hard. The wife admired Lin Zhi's character and firmly chose to marry him; Lin Zhi was diligent and enterprising, did not fail his wife, and the husband and wife were of one heart and one mind.
Some people are very snobbish, and when they see that others have no money, they look down on others; when they see that others have money, they try their best to seduce others. Lin Zhi's mother-in-law is such a person, her attitude towards her son-in-law is like this, she also prefers sons to daughters, and wants to use her daughter as a cash cow.
The mother-in-law looked down on the poor son-in-law and felt how amazing her son was, but she ended up punching her in the face. So feng shui takes turns, thirty years of Hedong, thirty years of Hexi, no one should casually ridicule and look down on others. You are in a better situation than others, maybe just a little luckier than others, there is no need to be proud.
People have to rely on their own labor to eat, and only by spending the money they earn can they straighten their waists and live a straight life. Young people do not have money in hand for the time being, it does not matter, as long as they are willing to endure hardships and work hard, their lives will always get better and better.
When the girl is looking for a partner, she should polish her eyes and put the character of the other party first. Marry a man of good character, even if the material conditions are worse, you will be spiritually happy. Happiness is not directly related to money, happiness is completely a subjective feeling, and couples can only feel happiness if they truly love each other.
Author: A creator in the field of emotions, focusing on various issues in the field of emotions, welcome to pay attention. Life has warmth because of love and love, let us grow in love, and spend every day in true feelings.