Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
A little boy kept walking forward, surrounded by laughter and warm light.
But when he turned around, his face was blue and purple.
The eyes that should have been bright and divine were overflowing with grievances, fear, and helplessness.
Dirty clothes wrapped around a skinny body.
With threatening commands and scoldings in his ears, he stopped uneasily and tugged at the hem of his clothes.
He said a lot of people love childhood because it's always full of laughter.
But in his view, childhood represents misfortune, because there he suffers endless scolding and beatings, and his body suffers pain.
So, "it's not necessarily the Garden of Eden, there's fear and helplessness."
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
He just wants to grow up faster.
Maybe when you grow up, everything will be better.
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Indeed, when a child grows up, the amount of domestic violence suffered will decrease and the injuries on the body will heal.
But the shadow in the heart is difficult to dispel.
As psychologist Susan Foward said:
The effect of the harm caused by parents is not only the present, it runs through the years, like a needle deep in the hearts of children.
Hitting a child is a very simple action.
The psychological, emotional and physical damage caused by hitting a child far exceeded our expectations.
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Children who are beaten are physically and mentally injured
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
In the 1960s, Albert Bandura and his collaborators did a "Popo Doll Experiment."
They found 66 children aged 3-6 and divided them into two groups to watch a video.
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
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The child's excellence is not played
Truly lasting and effective education stems from the love and wisdom of parents.
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
Children who are "often beaten" and "never beaten" live two lives 20 years later
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