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01. Preface
Lolita writes: "There are three things that cannot be hidden, cough, poverty and love, and the more you try to hide, the more you want to cover up." ”
Love is like a flame, a little wind can make it burn more vigorously. Falling in love with someone from the bottom of your heart cannot be hidden, and people cannot be restrained.
Even the most reserved and honest people, after falling in love with someone, will become bold, become active, and become romantic.
If two people are always taking the initiative when they are getting along, and if the other party is about to leave, showing a dispensable posture, this relationship is actually unbalanced.
Good love is a two-way street. And the love that broke the root whiskers, from two people falling in love, gradually became a one-way payment.
The manifestation of a woman's lack of interest in a person is "slow".
If a woman deliberately slows down the pace of emotional development, not to say breakup, nor to further develop, then in her heart, she must not be so recognized for this relationship, and even has the intention of breaking up.
02, the rhythm of love, very slow
Women in love, careless, let the rhythm of love develop very slowly, often not enough love performance.
In "Why Sheng ZhenMo", although He Yimei accepted Lu Yuanfeng's pursuit, the two people became lovers, but every date was proposed by Lu Yuanfeng.
She agreed to be with Lu Yuanfeng, more to try to use him. Using his and Zhao Mosheng's colleague relationship, he can find out what she wants to know.
No matter whether Lu Yuanfeng deliberately changed her hairstyle, wanted to attract her attention, or sent a precious necklace to please her, she didn't care.
Every time two people go on a date, Why Mei always wants to leave early and never cares about his feelings. Two people together, why Mei never active, never try to maintain each other's feelings.
A love affair, only Lu Yuanfeng is working hard alone.
In love, when a woman shows a dispensable look to a man and never pays attention to dating, it is a manifestation of unlove.
No matter what the man says or does, he is not interested, and the rhythm of love is controlled very slowly.
Because they don't love, they are unwilling to enhance each other's feelings, unwilling to close the distance between each other, careless everywhere, full of perfunctory and casual.
03, the response is slow, if it is left
There is a kind of non-love, called slow response.
Really love someone, will pay attention to his every move, and is very much looking forward to any news from him.
If a man initiates contacting a woman and the woman often doesn't answer the phone, or speaks very briefly, it means she doesn't want to give the man too much of a response.
Don't look forward to meeting each other, and don't expect any messages from men, two people together, there is no way to truly integrate into each other's world.
The fact that a woman doesn't respond only means she doesn't care.
In her life, she will focus on other things, or other people. You are destined to be a passer-by in his life, not the one she wants to stay in her life forever.
If you don't love, you won't take into account the feelings of men, you won't be afraid of men getting angry, and you won't be afraid of him leaving.
No matter how introverted a woman's personality is, she will also show a look of impatience when she meets someone she loves.
True love will make a person actively try to maintain each other's feelings, and if there is no passion to promote the progress of each other's relationship, then there will be no love in the heart.
04, meet slowly, tepid
When in love, from the number and speed of meetings, you can see whether a person has paid for sincerity.
Sanmao said: "I can't hide my liking for a person, even if I cover my mouth, I will still run out of my eyes." ”
Truly love someone and don't want to endure the pain of missing. Every minute and every second, I want to be with each other. Every separation will flood with thoughts, and you will look forward to the meeting of two people.
She will overcome all kinds of difficulties, even if it is thousands of rivers and mountains that block her, she will come to the man and look at him again.
A woman who truly loves a person will rush to his side in spite of herself, just to relieve the pain of lovesickness.
If two people are together and haven't seen each other for a long time, and the woman hasn't shown the look of rushing to meet, then in her heart, the status of the man will not be too high.
If you don't love someone, you won't care. Seeing or not seeing, her life is not affected in any way.
Women are very emotional animals, if you fall in love with someone, you must not endure too long, no matter how difficult, but also to meet each other, want to snuggle together for a longer time.
True love for a person is the desire to be with him, to share each other's stories, and to create more wonderful things together.
05. Summary
The manifestation of a woman's lack of interest in a person is often "slow".
Junichi Watanabe wrote in Paradise Lost: "Men will change their hearts, and women may also have hearts." Even the love of the love of the love of the sea and the mountain alliance may collapse under the erosion of the years. ”
Whether a woman is sincere, in fact, she can understand by looking at her behavior.
When a woman no longer loves, withdraws her heart, and has no expectations for a relationship, she will slow down the emotional rhythm between two people.
When a woman does not love, the initiative and enthusiasm of a man is a kind of pressure for her, a kind of bondage, without the joy and expectation of true love.
Do not give a timely response, do not participate in the opinions of the two people's feelings construction, and even meet or not, it does not matter, if the woman presents such a state, then the man should be prepared to let go.
On the road of life, if you do not love, women should also confess, speak clearly, and do not waste each other's precious youth.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.