When it comes to love film and television works, there are many to list, but there are not many people who can more see through the true nature of love after revisiting, and the one that is revisited the most times is "Why Sheng Zhen Mo".
Many people may start out like me, coming for the looks of the male and female protagonists, but then they will get different interpretations of feelings in constant flipping through.
The main plot of "Why Sheng Zhen Mo" is about the college lovers Zhao Mosheng and He Yichen, who were separated by fate due to family reasons, and the two were separated for seven years and still insisted on the love story in their hearts.
Countless people envy the heroine Yang Mi has such an obsessive rich and handsome domineering president who always loves himself, in which the plot in order to highlight the integrity of this relationship, but also made cameo roles in some supporting roles, they (she) are:
He Yimei, who is responsible for adopting the male protagonist after the death of the male protagonist's parents, loves He Yichen deeply, but ultimately cannot get his heart
Entrepreneurial success, Ying Hui also competed with He Yichen for Zhao Mosheng.
Why should Sheng Jimo mention the enemy first? I'll answer that later.
The specialness of love, first of all, also originates from its own differences
We are all envious of Zhao Mosheng's luck, but do you realize her identity, she is not an ordinary girl, but the mayor Qianjin.
Zhao Mosheng is not an ordinary person.
Even if her father's family eventually went bankrupt, the noble spirit and character that she had cultivated in her bones from an early age would never change.
To put it simply, if you want to match a prince, you must first be a princess.
Don't fantasize that one day a high-quality man will fall in love with his useless self, which is unrealistic and illogical, even if you have a good appearance, you will become the object of men's pastime like Fan Shengmei in "Ode to Joy", the main dish on men's tables.
In the play, everyone asks the heroine what is the secret of pursuing such a straight man of steel, and the girl concludes that she is stalking and punching thick skin.
We've all had college experiences, who can do this with confidence and persistence?
If it is a child of an ordinary family or a poor family, it will not have the same effect, on the one hand, the girl may not be able to make herself low for love, on the other hand, even if she does the same thing, the other party can only feel that it is entanglement.
Zhao Mosheng has been carefully cared for by her father like a little princess since she was a child, she does not lack love, and she is accustomed to walking with sex, so she can more purely follow her heart, pursue the man she loves, and express her emotions.
Every well-married girl has something worth learning from us, don't just focus on that sensational love and ignore the fundamentals.
It is said that the luck of the girl who loves to laugh will not be bad, and Zhao Mosheng loves to laugh and be kind, but the root that really makes her bloom charm is inseparable from her birth.
So if a woman wants to have her own limited edition love, the first thing to do is not to find a quality man, but to make herself excellent before it is possible to be concerned.
He Yichen's experience
In the initial love, He Yichen did not know that the other party was rich, so there was no suspicion of climbing high branches, and it would not be to wear colored glasses to choose a love object, the reason why it could make a straight man who did not smile at Mu Ne move his heart, the key lies in the vitality and warmth of the girl.
When He Yichen witnessed his father commit suicide and jump off the building, and then his mother also died, he was a child who lacked love and warmth since he was a child, plus his mother told him to remember the name of the enemy before he died, it seems that he was carrying too many things at a very young age.
Zhao Mosheng's optimistic sunshine just happened to become a light in his dark world, and her smile may not necessarily be overwhelming, but it can make this man full of hope and belonging to the world.
From this we should learn:
When in a state of adversity, people's instinct is to become low, and when the career success and feelings are smooth, they will naturally rejoice
The ups and downs of life are inevitable, and we cannot predict what kind of mutations and tests will occur in the next moment.
If you blindly give up on yourself and struggle in the abyss of pain, then even if you meet that person again, you may not have a chance to start again. The capital that is not given up, that is still loved, is that you still have brilliance.
Even in the face of setbacks and the danger of complete loss, we still have a choice.
At the same time, this capital is also a key inducement for the people who wish to achieve their wishes. Just like Ying Hui in the plot, how many women's hearts of the diamond king old five, so that such a person to their own heart, naturally will become the greatest competitive pressure, invisibly become the emotional relationship in the bidding promotion.
Whether it is Ying Hui or Mei, the existence of the level of love enemies is also a chip to increase the other party's fear of losing.
If you become depressed because you leave the other person, become a kind of acceptance and pity, such a relationship can neither be equal nor long-lasting.
Some people say that He Yichen's personality is flawed, and he does not have the ability and courage to heal himself in the face of trauma and fear. Others say that he is precious, but he is introverted and not good at expressing himself to bear everything alone.
However, imperfection is always the norm for people, and only by facing up to deficiencies and accepting shortcomings can we do our best to make people's lives and relationships complete.
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Text/Relief Emotional Station
(Author: Xiao Yu, psychological counselor, focusing on the emotional field), good at the restoration of romantic relationships, marital contradictions and differences, and the healing of psychological trauma caused by the original ecological family. The lonely journey of life, listening to your grievances and pressures, helping visitors improve their skills in getting along with the sexes, saving their lovers, managing their feelings, and striving to become happier people.