In the current environment, we advocate free love, and young people have become commonplace because of their warming feelings, so cohabitation has become commonplace, unlike before, it will be criticized and discussed.
So in this case, the "winning rate" will naturally increase, there may be some young couples, there is no intention of marriage and childbirth, but accidental pregnancy, in the face of this situation, then the only way is to "go to the hospital"!
Although the child was knocked out, but the remaining problems, but did not disappear, for some of the older generation of experienced people, as long as you look at it, you will find clues, want to hide may not be able to hide.
Case: In the preparation of the wedding, the man repented of the marriage, and the words of the mother-in-law at the dinner table were embarrassing
Xiaojun did not graduate from high school, he went to the factory to work, because the factory contact with limited people, so it is difficult to find the desired girlfriend, during the New Year, was urged by the family to marry, but also arranged a blind date, there is really no way, Xiaojun obeyed the arrangement, every day out early and late home, all kinds of women.
Not long after, I really realized a relatively good girl Xiu Xiu, the two people from the initial strange, slowly became acquainted, so they talked about love, because considering the age problem, Xiao Jun and Xiu Xiu talked for a long time, they brought home, both parents also met, discussed the marriage, and went to prepare separately.
It is said that this was a happy event, but it did not come to mind, I have seen the mother of Xiaojun who was expectant daughter-in-law several times, but she has some drums in her heart, because she always feels that Xiuxiu seems to have been pregnant before, because it is not certain enough, Xiaojun's mother once took relatives, specifically saw Xiuxiu, and with the help of relatives, determined this matter.
When it was determined that Xiu Xiu had been pregnant, Xiao Jun's mother unilaterally asked to withdraw from marriage, and the woman's parents did not understand, how could she withdraw from marriage? So when the two families sat together to discuss, Xiaojun's mother asked bluntly: "Xiu xiu, have you ever been pregnant with a child?"?
As soon as these words came out, Xiuxiu's parents' faces changed suddenly, and Xiuxiu's face turned red, tears fell, and she left the dinner table silently!
In fact, many girls may feel that pregnancy and fetalization will not leave any mark, nor will they be discovered when they get married, but in fact, the older generation has a lot of experience, they can detect your difference through their own fire eyes and golden eyes, by looking at some parts of your body.
Why can a woman who has been beaten be seen through at a glance? The older generation's fire eyes and golden eyes look at 3 aspects
1. Skin
After a woman becomes pregnant, due to the influence of body hormones, the skin will be more vulnerable to damage and become dull, and some pregnant women will have skin acne that is more obvious.
In addition, stretch marks are a situation that many pregnant mothers will appear, and stretch marks are difficult to remove, and even accompany women for a lifetime, so you can see one or two from the skin.
2. Whether the body is healthy
Female fetal beating will cause great damage to the body, and this damage may accompany women for a long time, especially some younger girls, because they are afraid of being known by their parents, there is not much money in their hands, and they usually choose some "small places" to beat the fetus, so the problem will be even greater.
Under normal circumstances, girls who have been beaten, if they do not sit well, their physical condition will become worse, their menstrual holidays will be unstable, their resistance will be reduced, etc., which is also easy to distinguish.
3. Psychological level
For girls who have been beaten, they have more or less some guilt in their hearts, and they also have a lot of cover-ups and concealments for their disgraceful past, especially after marriage, when it comes to having children, they are often very resistant and nervous in their hearts, and this psychological change is also easy to be recognized by the older generation.
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In fact, for women, the fetus may have a lifetime of harm, not only will make women psychological level, bear a lot of pressure, physical trauma, but also make women powerless, and may even evolve into a lifelong infertility "tragedy".
So here, I also hope that every girl can protect herself very well, do not wait for the harm to come, only to know how much wrong they have made, because in the world, there is no regret medicine to eat.