People nowadays are really busy, they are busy socializing, busy making money, busy running their own happy little family. Someone else calmed down, looked back, looked, so where are we? How do you live to live to understand yourself? Of course, in the education of children, our ways and methods are correct, so what kind of success is real success? How do we educate our children to face the topic of success?
There are many problems, but these problems are not contradictory and not entangled when put together. But what to consider is the height of the parents, if a parent is more far-sighted, there is a height, it can balance all this relationship well, for the education of children, such parents are also relatively qualified parents. So, what kind of parents are considered to have heights? What about the visionary? We might as well tell the difference between remembering these four abilities.
The first ability, the ability to keep moving
A child with continuous exercise, their physical fitness is very good, physical fitness and energy are also very exuberant, in the future heavy academic process, such children will be able to maintain a good state, and have other children can not reach the spirit of hard-working.
Therefore, as a parent, we must find a way to cultivate children's sports hobbies to enhance children's physical fitness, which is actually good for children's brain development, especially children in the city, work less, the amount of exercise is not up to standard, which is not dominant for children's future physical growth.
The second ability, the ability to learn happily
Now children's learning is really too passive, they are often forced out by their parents, and they do not realize where the joy of learning is, so those parents who have foresight are usually not parents who urge their children to learn, but can develop their children's learning motivation, so that children can truly learn as a kind of happiness and interest from the inside out. With such an ability as a foundation, the child will maintain lifelong learning, rather than the child learning to throw away the book to a certain extent, and no longer want to devote himself to learning.
The third ability is the ability to solve problems independently
Parents can accompany their children for many years, children are ultimately to face life on their own, so as a visionary parent, we must cultivate children's ability to solve problems independently, encourage children to have their own ideas, and help children learn how to face difficulties.
In short, we as parents must understand a truth, that really makes children feel safe, not at all there is a mother behind them, but they contain energy in their bodies, and this energy is given to children by various skills.
The fourth ability, the ability to make friends
This society is not something you can easily succeed by yourself, after all, the times are different, not to mention that we pay attention to a team Chinese. Throughout the ages, you see those who can do things, they are people who can use people, people who can make friends.
On the road to parenting, we are all novices, how to take better care of children, you can pay attention to me, and discuss with me those things on the road to parenting.