"Daughter-in-law Transition" is definitely one of the Korean dramas that make people afraid of marriage.
Adapted from the manga, the first season of Douban scored 8.0 points, and the second season Douban scored 7.5 points.
I have to say that Korean dramas are really good at filming.
A 20-minute short drama in a single episode is very poignant and realistic.
There is no ups and downs of the plot, only the parents are short, and it is still depressed or even suffocating to see.
1, fairy tales are all deceitful
In fairy tales, in the end, it is the prince and the princess who live happily together.
But none of the fairy tales tell what their married life was like.
The heroine stepped into the marriage with great anticipation and found that the married life was completely different from what she imagined.
Even my husband has changed.
In the first season, the heroine's mother-in-law had a birthday, and the night before, the heroine came to her mother-in-law's house with her husband.
Buy everything, set the alarm, get up early the next morning to make breakfast for the mother-in-law, the husband said to do it together, but in the morning the husband is not willing to get up.
The heroine was busy all morning, taken for granted, without even a word of thanks.
Even the sister-in-law had not cooked kelp soup for her mother-in-law, and the new daughter-in-law had to work all morning.
The second season is the mother-in-law's birthday again.
This time, because of her work, the heroine did not go in advance, but bought something and let her husband return home by herself.
The husband also realized his problem and called on his sister to make breakfast for his mother.
It's better to do than not to do.
The two brothers and sisters took turns to knock on the door quietly, asking where this was put and where the other was.
I was so angry that my mother-in-law had to get up and cook her own food.
In the evening, the heroine was counted down by her mother-in-law's sister because she did not cook kelp soup for her mother-in-law.
Just because it is a daughter-in-law, it should be done, and no one does it when there is no daughter-in-law.
In the first season, the family finished eating, and the heroine cleaned up the "mess" alone.
My husband and his family ate fruit and watched TV, some talking and laughing.
By the time the heroine had packed up, the fruit had been eaten, leaving only two pieces of kiwi fruit.
Or the heroine does not like to eat.
The mother-in-law said that the remaining two pieces, the two of them ate one by one, do not waste.
Regardless of whether the heroine loves it or not, it is directly stuffed into the mouth of the heroine.
In the second season, a plate of fruit was specially left for the heroine.
Not because of the conscience to find, but to test whether the heroine is pregnant.
The heroine was still very happy to eat kiwi fruit, but the mother-in-law's words ruined the good mood.
In the first season, the heroine could not adapt to the inability to not only her mother-in-law, but also the husband's incomprehension.
Korean machismo can be said to be the "top of the world" and is deeply rooted.
Everything that the heroine can't get used to is taken for granted by her husband.
During the holiday, you should first go to the man's house, and the female owner should do all the housework.
The husband can't understand the heroine's troubles, and even hopes that the heroine can endure everything, because she doesn't want to be caught in the stiff mother-in-law relationship.
But fortunately, this husband is not like his mother who will not reflect, and he will still coax his wife after reflection.
2. Maverick sister-in-law
The big brother in this drama is probably the most idealistic character.
Do not ask the wife to come to her own house to do anything, during the holidays, go back to each house, there are things in the family to do by themselves.
The mother-in-law was reluctant to work for her son, and could only count the eldest daughter-in-law.
The eldest daughter-in-law is not a stoic person.
There was something she really said directly.
Pregnant, the mother-in-law asked who would bring the child later, originally the eldest daughter-in-law pretended not to listen, until the name was asked of her, only to say that the couple would watch and do it, so that they did not have to worry.
One sentence shook everyone back.
No one dared to ask her any more.
The mother-in-law blamed her for not taking good care of her granddaughter, saying that the child must be taken care of by her own mother.
She replied: Your son is personally cared for by you, why do you often get sick.
The eldest daughter-in-law is this kind of not wronged herself, there is something to say.
Unlike the heroine, everything is held in the heart, embarrassed to say.
In the first season, the eldest daughter-in-law told the heroine that she would not sympathize with the heroine, because this was the heroine's own choice.
In the second season, after the heroine was counted down to make kelp soup for her mother-in-law, the same bathroom. This time, the eldest daughter-in-law affirmed the heroine, and said to the heroine that people should maintain an appropriate distance between people.
The eldest daughter-in-law can be so strong that the eldest son has always been on the side of his wife.
3, can not become the daughter-in-law of the daughter
The heroine's mother-in-law is actually not an evil person.
The mother-in-law is the typical example of a husband and a godson, and her worldview is like this.
Old thoughts make her think she's right and doesn't consider other people's feelings.
The mother-in-law also has a daughter, seeing that her daughter is being harassed, in order to please the mother-in-law, learning to make kimchi, she also has reflection, whether she is also too much for her daughter-in-law.
It's just that her reflection is only three seconds, and she convinces herself that it is not so excessive.
With the experience of the people who came over, he pointed out the daughters-in-law, on the contrary. When the daughter was told, she vigorously defended her daughter.
If there is no mother-in-law to point out the lives of the two young couples, the transition period of the daughter-in-law is so difficult.
The whole drama looks very suffocating, the first season is a newly married daughter-in-law, not used to life after marriage, do not know how to deal with the fatal mother-in-law contradictions.
The second season is the process of pregnancy and motherhood, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is still there, but it is weakened, and it is more of a heroine's self-healing.
Can't understand the heroine, obviously don't like the things she doesn't want, and impose them on herself to do it.
Then the boredom accumulates more and more, a small explosion, and continues the previous pattern.
Although the whole drama is about women's troubles, it does not go deep and does not give an answer.
It's more about making compromises with each other and then life goes on.
Maybe that's life.
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