Nurture neighborly dreams
Netizens ask: Must the child's primary school grades be good?
Re: A good child can not be demanded to get a perfect score in the subject, but must be above the average line. Because, if the child's comprehensive academic performance is below the average line, it is most likely that the child's comprehensive learning attitude is problematic; if it is below the average line for a long time, it is almost impossible to catch up with it in the future.
Life is endowed with a combination of natural substances with the ability to reproduce + growth cycle + a small part of the self-healing function that damages itself. Plants absorb water-soluble microminerals from natural substances combined with photosynthesis to produce life nutrients, animals feed directly or indirectly on plants, microorganisms live in plants or animals... In the natural material world, the comprehensive survival of all living individuals must be passively adapted and actively claimed after birth.
Human beings, the community-based fetal mammals with the highest IQ, the slowest growth and development, and the strongest comprehensive growth plasticity in the natural life system, are also the only animal groups in the natural life system that have the ability to create living materials according to the needs of independent survival, and the domestication of sown plants, the taming of captive animals, and the use of natural non-living substances to process production labor and life aids are all active labor creations of human beings. Of course, only human beings in the natural life system have the ability to actively regulate reproduction, and the growth of human individual life is also the most complex kind of natural life system.
Pregnancy is 10 months, breastfeeding is about 12 months, and the period of parenting is more than 15 years [According to the different judicial definitions of each country, the legal age of adulthood in the world ranges from 15 to 21 years old, and the mainland stipulates that people over 18 years old with normal physical and mental development are fully civil act adults]... The growth of human individual life is like a one-way "marathon" without a unified starting point, itinerary and end point, and everyone will meet different travel companions and growth competitors at different stages of growth.
Kindergartens, primary schools, secondary schools, universities... The classmates that each child encounters in the process of learning and growing up are good partners who grow together and promote each other, and they are also relative competitors in the journey of growth and progress. Because, no matter which school age children have a relative growth height ranking, no matter which age stage to enter a higher school, there is a high-to-low merit-based admission. So, in the journey of learning and growth, what relative position will the child stay in?
Learning attitude determines learning outcomes
Medium to high!
"Xunzi Persuasion"
The soil is made into mountains, and the wind and rain are prosperous; the water is deep, and the dragon is born; the good is cultivated into virtue, and the gods are self-satisfied, and the sacred heart is prepared. Therefore, if you do not accumulate steps, you cannot go thousands of miles; if you do not accumulate small streams, you cannot become a river and a sea. Qi Ji can't take ten steps when he jumps; he can't take ten steps; he can ride ten horses and give up his merits. Perseverance and abandonment, decaying wood does not break; perseverance, gold and stone can be skeletonized. The worm has no claws and teeth, the strength of the muscles and bones, eating the soil, drinking the yellow spring, and using the heart. Crab six kneeling and two claws, non-snake eel's cave has no sustenance, the heart is also impatient.
Accumulate soil into mountains, accumulate water into abysses, accumulate goodness into virtue, and ride ten horses, and the merits are not to be given up. In fact, the child is the largest group of horses in the natural life system, and after the child is born, whether it is practiced to control their own physical behavior and arm their brains, it takes time to accumulate. 1.01^365 = 37.78, 1^365 = 1, 0.99^365 = 0.03... There are a lot of inadvertent 0.01 behind everyone's growth and progress. Therefore, if each child has not been able to keep up with the teaching progress during the basic learning stage, then he will most likely not be able to keep up with the pace of teaching and make up for the relative growth gap with his peers after he enters junior high school.
Competitive sports is an international event often held by modern human society, observing endurance competitive sports including marathons, we can easily find a law, that is, all athletes who can get better results must remain in a relatively advanced group from the beginning. Otherwise, the start and even the first half of the journey will be left behind too much, and it will be difficult to obtain relatively good results no matter how hard you try. Similarly, the same is true of children's learning and growth, although there is no direct relationship between each stage of learning, but the later the learning of knowledge content, the substantive application of the content of the knowledge learned earlier is still a large number. Therefore, in real social life, very few children who have fallen behind too much in primary and secondary schools can achieve "overtaking in the corner" after that.
Only when the water source is good can we nourish more natural life, only by laying a good foundation can we build a good house, and only when the seedlings are good can we produce more grain... Similarly, the earlier a child learns, the more basic it is and the more profoundly it affects life. Therefore, the earliest learning of children is basic knowledge and basic learning methods. Therefore, good children can not be demanded full marks in scientific examinations, but must be above the average line.
The mission of nurturing neighbors: to be a sparring partner and consultant on the road to children's growth.
The vision of nurturing neighbors: let there be no small and difficult old people in the world.
Children's growth is like a century-old tree, which needs to experience wind and rain. For parents, you need to be patient enough to accompany them. Accompanying children requires care, and companionship is more than just care. When many people choose to go home to accompany their children, I choose to come to Beijing to do a career to accompany more children - to cultivate neighbors: to promote social harmony with neighborhood friendliness, to promote social moral education, and to promote the healthy and happy growth of everyone. Explore a set of public welfare and inclusive education undertakings that solve the problem of "one-child syndrome + intergenerational education" in the form of neighborhood mutual assistance, and work with parents to "tailor" children's growth plans to provide children with games, cooperation and shared growth space... That is, the community neighborhood education service ecosystem.