1. Zhao Yufang's sweet married life now and her father's sincere apology
In the past, the relationship between Zhao Yufang and her father Zhao Benshan once fell into an embarrassing situation. As a child whose parents divorced, although she is well aware of the pain of separation, she still can't avoid the slightest loss and even confusion about this unspeakable father's father.
However, fate seems to favor Zhao Yufang, who was born with the quality of tolerance and generosity, and did not resent her father because of this, but chose to maintain the precious father-daughter relationship in her own unique way.
When she was a child, she took the initiative to take on the trivial responsibilities of the family, taking time out of her busy schedule to write letters to her father who was far away, conveying peace and family affection.
Zhao Yufang's kindness and thoughtfulness deeply touched Zhao Benshan. As a successful star, he feels more guilty about his daughter.
This huge amount of money is undoubtedly Zhao Benshan's use of money to make up for the lack of fatherly love for his daughter over the years. As a hot comedy superstar, his wealth is remarkable, but in the minds of his children, he has never been able to replace the company of a competent father.
Perhaps it is precisely because of guilt that Zhao Benshan's attention and love for Zhao Yufang's mother and daughter are particularly deep. Even if he later gave birth to other children, it was difficult for him to enjoy such a generous treatment.
After all, Zhao Yufang is the only daughter of him and his ex-wife Ge Shuzhen, and has witnessed the whole process of his transformation from obscurity to fame, and the family bond between the two cannot be separated.
Now, Zhao Yufang has entered the marriage hall and lives a happy life. Her husband is an ordinary person, but he treats her like a treasure, allowing her to experience the warmth and love that she has not seen for a long time.
What's even more fortunate is that they have welcomed a lively and lovely daughter, and the family of three shares the joy of family.
Behind the happy smile, Zhao Yufang, as a virtuous and virtuous wife and mother, repaid her father's support and nurturing grace in her own way. Every time she mentioned that her father gave her a dowry of 3 million, Zhao Yufang was always full of emotion.
Because she understands that it is not only a gift of money, but also a way for her father to make up for years of education and regrets.
Second, Zhao Benshan and his ex-wife Ge Shuzhen had a difficult time
mentioning the origin of Zhao Benshan, it really can't help but make people feel the banter and ridicule of fate. He was born into a destitute family, his parents died young, and he became an orphan from an early age.
If it weren't for a warm-hearted blind second uncle who stepped forward and generously taught him the art of playing the erhu, I am afraid that in that era of extreme scarcity of materials, he would have been crushed by the reality of hunger and cold, and would not be able to survive in the world.
The vast poverty has obviously laid a lifelong desolation for Zhao Benshan, a young child. But fate always seems to be keen on creating dramatic plots, and just when Zhao Benshan is full of confusion about the future, a girl named Ge Shuzhen suddenly breaks into his life and brings him the dawn of life.
This girl from a neighboring village, although Zhao Benshan had nothing, she did not scruple because of his origin, but bravely chose to marry this poor young man, becoming the first and most important savior in his life.
So, they began a married life that was poor but still full of happiness.
Despite the constraints of life, at least there is the warmth of home. With the passage of time, Ge Shuzhen gave birth to a pair of children for Zhao Benshan, a boy and a girl, adding endless warmth to this originally poor family.
However, fate does not seem willing to let them go easily. Their son, Zhao Tiedan, was born with a disability and suffered from a variety of congenital diseases, and was destined to endure endless suffering from illness from the day he was born.
In order to save this special child, Zhao Benshan and his wife have tried their best. In that era of scarce medical resources, the high medical costs were beyond their reach, and Zhao Benshan could only raise money everywhere and try his best to find a treatment for his son.
Ge Shuzhen, on the other hand, silently manages housework at home, raising another daughter, Zhao Yufang, and strives to maintain the normal operation of the family.
The mother and son, one in the hospital and the other at home, lived separately and suffered a lot. As a result, Zhao Benshan also changed the focus of his career from simply playing erhu to cross talk performances, hoping to earn more income in this way and get his family out of financial difficulties.
That year, Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen endured the pain of parting, each worked hard for the family in their own fields, and looked forward to the day when their son recovered.
In those difficult years when he gave all his energy and time for his son, Zhao Benshan emerged in the cross talk industry with tenacious perseverance and won the attention of the industry. Undoubtedly, every step of the way is his own hard work, bringing new hope to the family.
However, the god of fate opened a door to success for Zhao Benshan at a certain moment. That year, he was fortunate to get acquainted with Mr. Jiang Kun, the director of China Central Television.
This respected old artist is not only a master of contemporary cross talk art, but also an important mentor in Zhao Benshan's life.
Mr. Jiang Kun deeply felt that Zhao Benshan's cross talk talent was extraordinary, and appreciated his spirit of unremitting struggle for his livelihood, so he did not hesitate to invite him to join his cross talk team, teach his skills, and pave the way for him to show his talent on the big stage of CCTV.
It is precisely because of the careful guidance of Mr. Jiang Kun and his own diligent efforts that Zhao Benshan has gradually climbed to the peak of his life. Especially when he stood on the top stage that the national audience was waiting for, the stage of the Spring Festival Gala every year, he instantly became a household name.
While becoming famous, Zhao Benshan also enjoyed the luxurious life brought by wealth and glory. However, the price of all this is that he has to travel all year round, separated from his wife Ge Shuzhen.
Unable to spend time together often, the relationship between them gradually faded, and finally they had to choose to break up. Perhaps out of guilt for Ge Shuzhen, Zhao Benshan did not ask for any property when he divorced, but chose to leave the house and left all the family property to his wife and daughter Zhao Yufang.
Once, Zhao Benshan was just a poor and poor young man, but Ge Shuzhen accompanied him without regrets for decades. Although Zhao Benshan has become famous now, he deeply understands that everything he has today is inseparable from Ge Shuzhen's selfless dedication and firm support.
So, with beautiful expectations and dreams for the future, Zhao Benshan began a new chapter in his life. Soon after the divorce, he married a young and beautiful bride and was ready to start a happy life again at the peak of his career.
The divorce of her parents was like a bolt from the blue, which deeply hurt the immature heart of Zhao Yufang, who was only 12 years old, and left endless pain and haze. However, she did not complain about her father Zhao Benshan because of this, but downplayed all these flaws with her excellent quality of forgiving others and accepting all rivers.
Zhao Yufang, as a thoughtful, intelligent and lovely girl, has a clear insight into the pain of parental separation. She understands that at the peak of his career, his father was often so busy in his pursuit of success that he could not give his wife enough company.
Therefore, when the parents finally decided to part ways, Zhao Yufang did not fall into grief, but showed great tolerance and understanding. After the divorce, the young Zhao Yufang was like a little housekeeper and took on all kinds of trivial affairs in the family.
She always took time out of her busy schedule to write affectionate letters to her father who was in a different place, conveying peace and family affection, and doing her best not to let the relationship between father and daughter become strange due to distance.
Zhao Yufang's kindness, tolerance and understanding deeply touched Zhao Benshan, who was thousands of miles away. As a successful star, he knows that his debt to his daughter cannot be measured by money.
Because of this, when Zhao Yufang entered the marriage hall, Zhao Benshan generously donated a generous dowry of up to 3 million yuan, and at the same time transformed the guilt of his daughter for many years into endless blessings and expectations, hoping that she could live a happy life, health and longevity.
These beautiful qualities of Zhao Yufang may come from the edification of her mother Ge Shuzhen's broad mind. It is precisely with the silent support of women like them that Zhao Benshan, a man who has experienced setbacks and difficulties, can move forward bravely on the road of life.
Fifth, Ge Shuzhen has no regrets
Whenever she recalls the years of marriage with Zhao Benshan, Ge Shuzhen can't help but burst into tears. She was the most beloved woman in Zhao Benshan's heart, accompanying the poor and down-and-out young man step by step to glory, and witnessed the whole process of his transformation from an unknown little person to a famous star.
Although Zhao Benshan's career is growing, the emotional bond between the two has become weaker and weaker over time, however, Ge Shuzhen has never had any resentment towards her husband.
On the contrary, when facing the breakdown of her marriage, even though her heart was already painful, she still decided to maintain a kind and tolerant heart, and solemnly blessed the man she once loved deeply.
Yes, Ge Shuzhen, who is well versed in life, understands that as a rising superstar in the entertainment industry, Zhao Benshan's energy can no longer devote himself to his family as fully as in the past.
For her, a rural daughter-in-law from a poor background, it is even more difficult to satisfy Zhao Benshan's desire for a better quality of life, she loves him deeply, so she always regards his personal pursuit and happiness as the top priority.
For this reason, in that divorce that both parties regretted, Ge Shuzhen did not ask for any material benefits, but generously left all her property to Zhao Benshan and his daughter Zhao Yufang's mother and daughter.
Since then, this respectable and lovely woman has embarked on a long and lonely journey in life.
In this way, Zhao Benshan bid farewell to Ge Shuzhen and embarked on a new journey of life. And Ge Shuzhen, with her unwavering perseverance and self-sacrifice, took on the heavy responsibility of raising Zhao Yufang alone.
Every time she sees her daughter growing up healthy and happy, she feels that the past efforts are worth it.
Sixth, Zhao Benshan's ill-fated life
Looking back on Zhao Benshan's life history, it is not difficult to find that he has indeed experienced countless ups and downs of fate and helpless choices. From being born in destitute with nothing, to finally becoming a leading A-list star on the stage, he has written a glorious legendary epic with his tenacity and hard work.
Zhao Benshan, who was born in a poor family, has had the dream of living a better life when he grew up since he was a child. However, he would never have imagined that his life path would be so tortuous and difficult.
In order to support his family, he first learned to play the erhu, and then switched to the field of cross talk to make a living.
Just when Zhao Benshan's career was booming, his son's illness was like a heavy iron fist, ruthlessly shattering this originally happy family. In search of hope for a cure, Zhao Benshan traveled around to raise funds for treatment.
However, in the end, the child with hearing and speech disabilities passed away at the age of 12, leaving Zhao Benshan and his ex-wife Ge Shuzhen with eternal pain and regret.
Soon after they lost their beloved son, his wife Ge Shuzhen became a huge obstacle in Zhao Benshan's life. Faced with career challenges, they had to make the bitter decision to separate from each other, which made the originally intimate relationship gradually fade and exacerbated the breakdown of the marriage.
Despite this, Zhao Benshan has always been full of respect and gratitude to Ge Shuzhen, because she once gave him selfless support. On the occasion of the divorce, he chose to leave the house to show respect and gratitude to her.
So, with endless guilt and regret, Zhao Benshan started a new chapter in his personal career. On the long and tortuous road of pursuit, he finally won brilliant success with his talent and hard work, but at the cost of estrangement from his daughter Zhao Yufang.
Fortunately, her daughter Zhao Yufang is open-minded and empathetic, so that the family relationship between father and daughter has not been completely broken.
Today, Zhao Benshan has made a lot of achievements, and he is also using his own way to fill the regrets of the past, such as preparing a rich dowry of up to 3 million yuan for his daughter. However, all of this was not an easy thing to come by, but was based on the hardships he had endured throughout his life.
Zhao Benshan's life course undoubtedly indicates that he will always be burdened with a heavy and helpless fate.