Nurture neighborly dreams
Netizens asked: the first year of junior high school, the second grade of the grade is top-notch, the second semester of the second semester of the junior high school suddenly declined, to the third grade is basically the bottom of the class, this winter vacation has also been playing, now what to do?
Reply: Learning is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat. Because going to school is like a one-way "marathon" without a unified end, it is assumed that everyone starts together and runs at the same speed and in the same direction. Then, everyone's relative position will never change, "full run" can only ensure that you are not left behind; if you do not run at full strength, even the previous relative position may not be saved; if you want to surpass others, you must run at twice the speed of the present! Of course, people with insufficient perseverance and stamina are likely to be forced to withdraw from the schedule early.
Life is endowed with a combination of natural substances with the ability to reproduce + growth cycle + a small part of the self-healing function that damages itself. Plants absorb water-soluble microminerals from natural substances combined with photosynthesis to produce life nutrients, animals feed directly or indirectly on plants, microorganisms live in plants or animals... In the natural material world, the comprehensive survival of all living individuals must be passively adapted and actively claimed after birth.
Human beings, the community-based fetal mammals with the highest IQ, the slowest growth and development, and the strongest comprehensive growth plasticity in the natural life system, are also the only animal groups in the natural life system that have the ability to create living materials according to the needs of independent survival, and the domestication of sown plants, the taming of captive animals, and the use of natural non-living substances to process production labor and life aids are all active labor creations of human beings. However, the way of survival of civilized society formed by human exploration does not have physiological and genetic characteristics, and every human child must imitate and learn the existing civilizational way of survival in human society from scratch after birth.
There is a relativity in growth and progress
The Jin Dynasty writer and philosopher Fu Xuan pointed out in the "Prince Shao Fu Zhen": "Near Zhu is red, near ink is black; sound and harmony are clear, and the shape is straight." "Human ancestors born in primitive forests learned to pick plant fruits + hunt other animals + defend against predators, and the vast majority of children born in the agricultural and pastoral period learned to domesticate and sow plants + tame captive animals + process and produce labor and life aids [very few children of the aristocratic class learn to govern the country or march in formation], children born in China learn to speak Chinese + write square characters + use chopsticks to eat stir-fried vegetables, children born in England learn to speak English + write ABC + eat bread with knives and forks, Children born in India learn to speak Hindi + write + eat pilaf...
The world's mainstream languages: Chinese + English + French + German + Spanish + Russian + Arabic and dozens of others, music: piano + drums + violin + guzheng + flute + erhu + guitar + singing, dance: classical dance + ballet + folk dance + modern dance + tap dance + jazz + street dance, etc., fine arts: ink painting + oil painting + brush stroke + sculpture, information and communication technology: chip design + integrated circuit manufacturing + software programming, sports: Chinese chess + chess + Go + swimming + Rock climbing + boxing + martial arts + table tennis + badminton + swimming + jump rope + ice and snow sports and hundreds of other small sports... In short, the longer the evolution of human social civilization, the more wisdom knowledge is left for the younger generations to "learn and reserve".
"Xunzi Persuasion"
The soil is made into mountains, and the wind and rain are prosperous; the water is deep, and the dragon is born; the good is cultivated into virtue, and the gods are self-satisfied, and the sacred heart is prepared. Therefore, if you do not accumulate steps, you cannot go thousands of miles; if you do not accumulate small streams, you cannot become a river and a sea. Qi Ji can't take ten steps when he jumps; he can't take ten steps; he can ride ten horses and give up his merits. Perseverance and abandonment, decaying wood does not break; perseverance, gold and stone can be skeletonized. The worm has no claws and teeth, the strength of the muscles and bones, eating the soil, drinking the yellow spring, and using the heart. Crab six kneeling and two claws, non-snake eel's cave has no sustenance, the heart is also impatient.
Accumulate soil into mountains, accumulate water into abysses, accumulate goodness into virtue, and ride ten horses, and the merits are not to be given up. In fact, the child is the largest group of horses in the natural life system, and after the child is born, whether it is practiced to control their own physical behavior and arm their brains, it takes time to accumulate. 1.01^365 = 37.78, 1^365 = 1, 0.99^365 = 0.03... Behind each growth and progress there is a large number of inadvertent 0.01.
The grass under the big trees is thin, the big fish eat the small fish, the wolf pack + the lion group determines the relative leader through fighting... The higher the combined survival IQ of the natural life group, the more fierce the competition for survival between the lives of the same individual. Of course, everyone is forced to join the growth competition from the day of birth, children who cry can have more milk, parents & teachers prefer smart + obedient children, schools welcome children with good character and excellent learning, and society allocates more consumption wealth to people with stronger production and labor ability, and so on.
Sailing against the current means to sail against the direction of the current, and the metaphor is to retreat if you don't make an effort. From the perspective of life growth, all life has fallen into the "circle" of growth since the moment of birth. Because all the substances that can provide nourishment for natural life have immediate finiteness [the existence of the same substance, the same time in the same place is limited, such as water, sunlight], there must be a limit to the comprehensive nourishment ability of fixed areas and specific time periods for the same natural life. Therefore, all natural life groups have relative advantages and disadvantages in growth.
Alice's Wanderings
Alice and the Queen of Peach set out hand in hand, but soon after, Alice found that they were at the exact same starting point as before.
Alice asked in surprise: Why is this happening? I feel like we've been staying under this tree and haven't moved!
The Queen of Hearts answered arrogantly: Bullshit!
Alice said: "But, in our country, if you run at enough speed for a while, you will definitely arrive at a different place.
The Queen of The Peach retorted, "Now, here, you listen!" At your current speed you can only stay where you are. If you're going to reach another place, you'll have to run at twice as fast as you are now!
Going to school is like a one-way "marathon" without a unified end, assuming that everyone starts together and runs at the same speed and in the same direction. Then, everyone's relative position will never change, "full run" can only ensure that you are not left behind; if you do not run at full strength, even the previous relative position may not be saved; if you want to surpass others, you must run at twice the speed of the present! Of course, people with insufficient perseverance and stamina are likely to be forced to withdraw from the schedule early.
The mission of nurturing neighbors: to be a sparring partner and consultant on the road to children's growth.
The vision of nurturing neighbors: let there be no small and difficult old people in the world.
Children's growth is like a century-old tree, which needs to experience wind and rain, need selfless companionship from the family, and need sincere teaching from the school and society. Nurturing neighbors: Explore the use of neighborhood friendliness to promote social harmony, promote social moral education and indoctrination, and promote the healthy and happy growth of everyone, with a view to "tailoring" children's growth plans with parents and building an educational service ecosystem where neighbors help each other in the community.