"80 years old is still blind date, it is really shameful!"
In 1997, in a small village in Chongqing,
Li Defang
Because of blind dates with old men
Qiu Daming
acquaintance.
The two elderly people were very embarrassed when they went on a blind date, and without saying a few words, they ended the blind date.
Qiu Daming old man is inferior, he only has a month
210 yuan low guarantee
Afraid of dragging others down, I am ready to walk the last journey of my life alone.
But Li Defang had a very good impression of Qiu Daming, every time she saw Qiu Daming, she would have a very familiar feeling, always felt that the two seemed to have known each other for a long time, she did not know where this strange feeling came from, but this force was secretly dragging her towards Qiu Daming.
She often went to Qiu Daming's house as a guest, and the two talked very happily, ate together, rested together, and looked like an old husband and wife.
Within two months, the two decided to get married, and when they got married at the Civil Affairs Bureau, the two people who knew their real names actually cried with joy and embraced each other deeply.
Old Man Li Defang was even more out of breath crying, and she shouted:
"Qiu Daming, it's me!" Me! 60 years! ”
It turned out that the two were already husband and wife 60 years ago, half a century of going around, and actually met each other again, what kind of destiny is this!
Why did the loving couple stay apart for 60 years?
How have they spent all these 60 years? And what kind of fate binds them together again?
The twilight lover turned out to be the newlywed wife of the year
Li Defang, who was nearly 80 years old at the time, was exiled to a small village in Chongqing, and although she was 80 years old, she did not have a home of her own.
In the past 60 years, she has traveled to many places, but she can't find the original husband
Time has worn down her persistence, she has reached the twilight of her life, and she wants to find a wife to complete the last journey of her life.
So she and her own dry daughter in the village said that she wanted to find a wife, a good person, no special requirements.
Soon, Li Lazhi, the daughter of Gan, found a very suitable candidate- Qiu Daming, this Qiu Laohan was also divorced by himself, and when gan daughter inquired about such a person, she felt that it was particularly suitable.
Why did you find Qiu Daming so coincidentally?
Not a coincidence, the matter is man-made,
Li Defang came to Chongqing in her 30s, no why, here is Qiu Daming's parent, the fallen leaves return to the roots, she will be here to wait for him all the time.
After decades of vicissitudes, Qiu Daming, who is more than 60 years old, returned here, in fact, he and Li Defang were across the river, which made the nearby Li Lazhi just find Qiu Daming as soon as he inquired.
On the blind date, she only noticed that he was wearing a straw hat, very old but clean, and she thought it was an old man who loved to be clean.
She had a good impression of him, she had no requirements, and now she was quite satisfied with the person in front of her.
But more than a month later, Qiu Daming had not contacted her, and she was a little frustrated, and finally prepared to go to his house to see.
Qiu Daming, who originally thought that the blind date was over, unexpectedly saw Li Defang at home, and his first reaction was not a surprise, but a little cramped, his family was very poor, and he felt a little embarrassed.
At first glance, his home is indeed simple to the point of simplicity, but if you look closely, the inside of the house is very clean, and there is not even a trace of water on the edge of the jar containing pickles.
Li Defang's good feelings for him were even more layered, and Qiu Daming was no longer embarrassed, he generously invited Li Defang to eat at home, two simple dishes:
Green pepper skin eggs and back pot meat, but eat a different taste. It was their first reunion dinner in 60 years.
Seeing that Qiu Daming did not reject himself, Li Defang also relaxed his heart, and later, she often came to Qiu Daming's home as a guest, saying that she was a guest, in fact, two people working together, working together and resting together, but it gave birth to a sense of ease.
At the end of October 1997, the two elderly people entered the palace of marriage.
When they went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get married, there was a scene at the beginning of this article, and they found that the person next to them was actually their pillow person 60 years ago.
Fast forward to 1936, the year that began their lifelong fate.
Qiu Daming was a soldier in Liu Xiang's army in the Sichuan Army, who was tall and talented.
That summer,
He was stationed with his troops in Xuanhan County, Sichuan
In the crowd, he saw Li Defang, and after only one look at her, Qiu Daming liked this smart and beautiful Li Defang.
This glimpse of fate had expected to end there, but the red rope of the old moon held them.
At that time, Li Defang's parents were looking after her husband for her
Yu Kaichang, the company commander, often dealt with the villagers and was very familiar with them, so when he learned that Li Defang's parents were recruiting a son-in-law, he introduced Qiu Daming.
Qiu Daming looked young and handsome, and after seeing his appearance, the Li family's parents approved of the two children together with both hands, so they arranged a blind date between the two young people.
On the day of the blind date, Qiu Daming, who was originally a little resistant, was instantly excited after seeing Li Defang himself, and it turned out to be the girl he saw that day.
Li Defang tied a twisted braid that day, the end of her hair was tied with a red bow, cute and with a hint of playfulness, she looked at Qiu Daming with some embarrassment, and after saying a few words, she ran away with a red face, but she also liked Qiu Daming in her heart, and the two fell in love at first sight in this blind date.
In 1937,
The two who had been in love for more than half a year were officially married.
The parents of the Li family attach great importance to this wedding, they specially invited the chief of security, the chief of the armor and the neighbors, and the wedding was very lively.
After the marriage, the two lived very sweetly, the wife made meals at home every day waiting for the husband to return, Li Defang experienced the taste of protection, and Qiu Daming felt the responsibility.
Love in the war was very rare, and it was not long before the War of Resistance Against Japan broke out in full swing.
In 1937, the Battle of Songhu began, and the Central Army, Sichuan Army, Xiang Army, and Gui Army all participated in the battle.
One night, after Qiu Daming returned, before he could talk to his wife, the messenger soldiers rushed over with 100,000 people and told Qiu Daming to go out and assemble to fight.
The military orders on the battlefield were like mountains, Qiu Daming immediately set off, his wife looked at this scene, her heart was also tugged, she rushed out nervously,
"Come back early, I'll wait for you!"
"Got it, you're going back!"
This is 60 years, and they have only been married for 4 months.
For those who love each other, the words spoken are promises, Li Defang said "I wait for you", and then she really waited for more than half a century.
60 years of searching and waiting
The Battle of Songhu involved a lot of Chinese troops, and the battle with the Japanese army was extremely fierce, and before that, the Japanese army was unashamed of the plan
After the destruction of China in three months, the Battle of Songhu completely broke the wishful thinking of the Japanese army!
In early October, Qiu Daming's 20th Army, led by the famous Sichuan general Yang Sen, set out quickly, starry night and night, and arrived in Shanghai at the earliest, followed by a fierce battle.
Although the weapons and equipment of the Japanese army were far superior to ours, the 20th Army fought a bloody battle with the Japanese army for 7 days and 7 nights, with the indiscriminate bombardment of aircraft on its head and the rain of guns and bullets of the Japanese army in front of it, and both sides suffered heavy casualties.
Qiu Daming and the warriors all wrote suicide notes to their families, but when the wolf smoke was everywhere, the letters were all stoned into the sea.
After that, Qiu Daming accompanied the troops to the south and the north, and several times passed the god of death, and in 1942, the shrapnel hit his shoulder, and he could not take the gun to the battlefield after that.
After retiring from the army, he came to Chengdu and became a water police officer.
No longer had to fight with the troops, he quickly inquired about Li Defang's whereabouts, he found some people, gave them money, and let them do their best to inquire about the news.
But these people only cared about their own food, drink and fun, and after spending all the money, they lied to Qiu Daming, saying that Li Defang's family was attacked by Japanese aircraft and died in the war.
Qiu Daming really believed it, and he was devastated and set up a tablet for Li Defang's family.
Four years later, he was transferred to Shanghai County as a captain, at which point his comrades began to persuade him to remarry and have children, and he reluctantly agreed.
After marrying the person they introduced, he had a son and a daughter.
The days went on in peace.
On the other side, Li Defang was even more fierce, others told her that Qiu Daming had died in battle, she did not believe it, and firmly said that she would wait for him, relatives thought that maybe she would introduce an object to her, she would not think so much about her life, who knows, just after talking to her, she directly shouted at them:
"I must wait for him!"
The relatives introduced several objects, she was one of the missing, is to wait for Qiu Daming.
After the founding of the People's Republic of China, Qiu Daming was taken to prison to serve his sentence, and in a prison in Xinjiang, he stayed for 21 years until he was released in 1975.
After going out, he found that everything had long been wrong, the original wife had remarried twice, their daughter died of illness, the son did not want to contact him because he was in prison, and he had a happy family and now became a lonely man.
He returned to his hometown of Sichuan,
What he didn't know at this time was that in Sichuan, his original wife had been waiting for him for decades.
After returning to his hometown, Qiu Daming, who is in his 60s, lives in a shack and usually does some chores to make ends meet.
Li Defang also made a living by doing chores, sewing clothes, nannies, etc., as long as he could do it.
Decades passed, disappointment turned into despair, she believed more and more the news of Qiu Daming's death on the battlefield, her heart was very unhappy, decades of hurried years in the end is a void.
Utterly desperate, she changed her name, Liu Zehua, and lived with a Fuling cook who built a shed on the street and sold porridge.
The marriage between them can be said to be a partner to live a life, the two do not have any common language, often quarrel, Li Defang is tired of this life, she chose to go out of the house and ended the marriage.
After that, she managed to get by by selling gadgets in a fellow home.
In fact, at this time, Li Defang and Qiu Daming were in Chongqing,
And they are not far apart, only 6 kilometers
They may even have been to the same market, and they may have passed by many times, but they just didn't find each other and still miss each other in their hearts.
Li Defang wanted to find an old partner to complete the last journey of her life, she entrusted her daughter to help her introduce it, so she introduced qiu Daming, followed by the two blind dates, and walked together.
Holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son
After getting married, the two old people were very emotional about this fate in the dark, and Li Defang said excitedly: "Maybe it is our fate that has this fate!" ”
Qiu Daming quipped, "Maybe my thoughts touched Elder Yue, and he sent you back to me." ”
Li Defang listened to his words and laughed happily, these 60 years, no matter how much suffering she has suffered, she does not care, what she cares most about is whether she can wait for the person in her heart.
Now that her wish has come true, she is very satisfied in her heart, and it turns out that Qiu Daming also misses her, which is enough, not to waste most of her life's waiting.
The days together, they cherish very much, because they know that they may not be able to walk together for a long time, after all, they are already in their 80s.
Qiu Daming felt guilty about Li Defang in his heart, she had suffered too much over the years, and he must make up for her well.
He took care of all the housework at home, and when he went out, he must hold hands with his wife, so that she could always be within his own line of sight, and he regretted the last separation, and now he would not let go.
The economy of the two families is very poor, but there are many places to spend money, they all have one kind of illness or another, and every time, Qiu Daming will leave the opportunity to treat Li Defang.
He said bitterly: "She is not in good health, she must have suffered too much in these years, I am not afraid of death, I am afraid that she will leave me, so I will do everything I can to help him." ”
Since 2005, Li Defang's physical condition has become worse and worse, her hand has been fractured, her body is paralyzed, and then her leg has also fallen off, completely paralyzed in bed, you can imagine how sad she would be in her old age if she still insisted on being alone.
Qiu Da will guard her day and night tomorrow, drinking water and feeding, and doing everything himself.
At the end of October 2009, when Li Defang reached the end of her death, she took Qiu Daming's hand, placed it on her forehead, and fell asleep quietly.
Before, she specifically told her daughter to take good care of Qiu Daming, and what wishes she had to try to satisfy him, so that she could go with confidence.
After 20 days, Qiu Daming also left, and it should be to chase after the person in his heart.