Anchor | Jane Ning Text | Su Shan Shu
A meme of "Shenzhen Girl" that has been popular on the Internet.
Saying that "Shenzhen girls" is a little different from other girls, other women are talking about getting objects, scolding men, parents short, entertaining gossip.
What do Shenzhen girls talk about when they get together?
How to make money.
For example, which fund has risen sharply? Where can I buy a house? What projects are more profitable? What side hustle can make more money?
When I forwarded this stem to the circle of friends, many female friends resonated and came to leave a message:
"Where only Shenzhen girls are making money, our girls here are also making crazy money."
Suddenly, I noticed that women were really different.
Basically all the women around me, they are motivated, they are improving, they are making money.
The slogan "Independent Women" has been shouted for so many years, and women have begun to wake up in general.
In the past, Zheng Xiuwen shouted "marry a rich man" in the movie, and now women are becoming rich people on their own.
Because money is the bottom line, money is the sense of security, money is freedom.
Money is the right of choice.
Desperately make money and give yourself a place to stay
Not long ago, I saw a big emotional V@ on the Internet, and Bo Yan's sister posted a video story that poked the resonance of many women.
I had dinner with a friend, who congratulated her on her new home.
Sighed: "The little girl is very powerful, so short time to save enough for the down payment." ”
The girl remembered her love, the man who was about to get married, who didn't go home every night, and let her roll when she was arguing.
The moment she said the word "roll", to tell the truth, she couldn't refute it.
Because, the house is someone's house, and the house book is the name of the person, what does she have.
She was so angry that she packed up her things and returned to her house, where she found that her room had become her nephew's utility room.
Mom said reasonably, "Aren't you going to get married, just come back and spend the night on the couch?" ”
Only then did she realize:
It turns out that when girls grow up, they don't have a "home".
In the in-laws' house, the husband's house does not belong to you, quarrels can make you roll, no matter how good you are, when you are an outsider;
Go back to your mother's house, love your parents very much, after you leave home, but put away your room, and then come back to be a guest.
Why work hard to make money, no matter how hard you have to buy your own suite?
Because when they find that men are unreliable one day, and their mother's family cannot stay, they can only find a place for themselves to live under the vast heavens and the earth.
According to research data, in recent years, the proportion of women buying houses has gradually surpassed that of men, especially after 2018, the proportion of women buying houses has remained above 50%, and it has increased year by year.
In first-tier cities, in addition to Guangzhou, there are more female home buyers in Beijing, Shanghai and Shenzhen than men.
Why are women desperately trying to make money to buy a house?
Because, trying to make money and buy a house for themselves, when they are unfair in their in-laws' house and have nowhere to go, they can have a place to stay, to fill the unspeakable grievances and tears in their hearts.
Trying to make money and buy a house of their own is to have a way out when the ideas of the people around them force her into marriage, which is their reason for resisting the world.
Now women finally understand:
Trying to make money is more important than being a man, and having money yourself is 100 times more important than reaching out to others for money.
Earn money to buy a car and give yourself the freedom you want
Last year, the news that 56-year-old Su Min drove away from marriage blew up the circle of friends.
After Su Min completed her wife and motherhood, she wanted to bravely live for herself once.
She drove a car of tens of thousands of pieces that she earned money to buy, starting from Zhengzhou, passing through Sanmenxia, to Hainan... Completed a woman's escape from marriage.
Looking back at Su Min's marriage, it is simply depressing.
The husband is selfish, mean, and cuts the door, married for decades, a needle and a thread, the husband must calculate with her AA.
And the husband's desire for control is extremely strong, only when he leaves the living room, Su Min has the right to use the TV.
Since marriage, marriage has not nourished her, but has become a cold, hard shell.
Su Min decided to change, she saved a sum of money herself and bought a car.
She wanted to go outside and see the world and live a new life.
I've heard a saying that says:
Married women, you must learn to drive.
When you drive your own car, on the road, you drive the car, and what you get is freedom.
Where you want to go, you don't have to let a man take you where you go, you can take yourself.
Women can earn money to own a car of their own.
Whenever you want to go, you have the ability and confidence to take yourself wherever you go.
Why should we desperately make money
I once saw a question: why should we desperately make money.
I try to make money, not because I love money more. It's because money represents the right to choose, and the sense of control over life.
I heard a girl say the reason she was desperately trying to make money.
It's because you don't want to be with anyone because of money, and you don't want to be inseparable from anyone because of money!
When love and bread are in front of you and you have to make a choice, you have the courage to say:
"You give me love, I'll buy the bread myself."
When friends laughed and laughed when they first got married, their parents did not approve of it.
The boyfriend she insists on marrying, who is 8 years younger than her, and has no house and no savings.
In a smiling word, there is only one heart that loves her.
At that time, Xiao Xiao had already achieved a small success in her career, and others advised her to seriously consider it.
But she said very firmly:
"Rest assured, I have a house and a career. If one day he doesn't love me, just let him go, at least I have a very good love. ”
The reason why Xiaoxiao has such confidence is because she does not need to rely on men financially.
Sister Li once told her marriage story, she and her husband got up early and greedy, started a business together, and then had their current career and lived a rich life.
Others asked her for lessons, she said:
"Women don't give up their careers at any time. Men don't always have a good career, and they sometimes want to rely on women. ”
She said that her husband had also deserted in marriage, and the other party was a young and beautiful woman.
At that time, there was something wrong with her husband's company, and the woman not only swiped his card, but also lost her temper with him, and the husband realized that his wife was still the original match.
Therefore, he took the initiative to break with the woman, handed over the company's equity, and made his wife the chairman.
Heard a quote:
Don't try to test men's humanity, to influence them, at critical moments, to use their own need value to let them overcome human nature and make their own decisions.
People pass middle age, you will find that where there are so many love and love in life, only who can't do without whom, who needs whom more.
The reason why women desperately want to make money is that when they encounter life risks, they not only have a way to retreat, but also can calmly defeat external threats and keep their own happiness.
Make money and cure all mannerisms
Making money is a different life than a woman who doesn't make money.
When you are sad in the spring and autumn, others are full of spirits, looking for good opportunities and projects to make money;
When you are short in the parents, others are non-stop signing up for a cooperative business;
When you ask your husband for money, others do not hesitate to swipe their cards to buy what they want.
Women, don't be pretentious and try to make money.
When you spend those confused and empty time on trying to make money in various ways, you will find that it is not sad, and you are not confused, and 99% of the missing regrets in life can be compensated by money.
I heard a passage:
When you are in love, poor girls can only stay in their rooms to wash their faces with tears, you can go to the Maldives to cry, you can also go to Paris to cry.
After crying, he continued to come back to make money, and the wind and water rose.
Desperately making money does not mean how much we love money, but because having money can make our lives less ugly than some human beings being tempted, and more to see the beauty and purity of some human nature.
From today onwards, start working hard to make money, how to start?
First, integrate resources.
Review and analyze what resources you can bring and replace with income, including but not limited to connections, funds, information, skills, etc., and use these resources to develop income.
Second, intensive farming business.
Enhance your own irreplaceability, that is, enhance your bargaining capital and make yourself valuable.
Third, learn skills.
You can learn a new skill, increase the side hustle, and allocate the diversity of your income.
There is nothing to go to bed early, and there is time to make more money.
Making money can cure sentimentality; making money can sweep away confusion.
Light up at the end of the article [in the watch], may everyone who works hard to make money, away from troubles, live your own shining life.
Author: Su Shanshu | Source: Ten Point Reading (ID: duhaoshu)
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