After escaping from a loveless marriage for more than a year, Su Min changed her caravan in a roof tent, and her daughter said she smiled like a child

"Can you do it alone?" At such an old age, can you run around? ”

When Su Min just walked out of the house, many people asked such a question, and some netizens admired her courage, but kept a wait-and-see state, wanting to see how she drove this road in the end?

From October of the previous year to now, Su Min has traveled by car for more than a year, and there have been big changes, her roof tent has changed to a motorhome, standing in front of the camera for a while choking, saying that she finally has a property that belongs to her name.

01. Running away from a loveless marriage is a last resort

Like many women, Su Min lived the life of a husband and a godson in the first half of her life.

She and her husband did not have much affection, and married on blind dates, just to escape from her original patriarchal family, and if her parents had a little more respect for her, she would not have rushed to marry herself off.

After marriage, she found that her situation was not much better, her husband was full of vigilance against her, asking her to spend how much living expenses she had to pay, she knew that her husband was worried about her subsidizing her mother's family, but she was a person with strong self-esteem, and felt that she was questioned by her husband, and her heart was very uncomfortable.

In order to reduce the contradiction, she decided not to ask her husband for living expenses, but to earn money through her own efforts, she is not highly educated, and needs to take care of her daughter, she can only do some newspaper delivery, packaging, clothing and other work, although it is very hard, but she has her own income.

The husband also no longer gives her living expenses, the two cost AA system, even the living state is not interfering with each other, in the daughter's home with children, she and her husband become brothers sleeping in the bunk bed, the two play with their own mobile phones, sometimes all day without speaking.

Such a marriage has no love and emotion, which makes Su sensitive to suffocation, because she is not recognized in the eyes of her husband, and her husband will hit her from time to time, such as seeing her buy a new dress, saying that she has a poor vision, she goes to a friend party, her husband says in public that she has a mental illness, so that Su Min wants to run away from the family every minute.

For her daughter, she has been stoic, but also actively preparing, she bought a car, in the help of her daughter to bring the child to kindergarten, decided to run away from the family, the day she left home, she told her husband about the plan, the husband has gone to the park to play chess, only the daughter with the child to send her to the intersection, watching the familiar home getting farther and farther away, she has the feeling of a bird out of the cage.

The car stopped in a rest area, she recorded a video to record her heart, but also many netizens pay attention, many people call her "aunt who escaped from the family", she also felt a lot of appropriateness, Su Min told everyone that the journey has no end, as long as they are in good health, they will always drive and run.

02. The house is small, the yard is big, give life a small holiday

Su Min "fled", many people are also questioning, some netizens directly left a message: "If women across the country learn from you, are there any people willing to wash and cook at home?" ”

The question itself is a false proposition.

First of all, it's not like everyone to travel by car. Some people like to go to the park to dance, some people like to take children, a thousand people have a thousand habits, no one will copy other people's lives, such worries are superfluous in themselves.

Second, it is her right to travel on her own.

Before she went out, she had made sufficient preparations, although there was no savings, but she had a pension of 2300 per month, plus she ate vegetables, rarely went to restaurants, the cost of living was not much, the only big expense was fuel, for this, her plan was to run a little more if she had money, rest in the same place when she had no money, and see the local scenery.

She drives during the day, sleeps in a roof tent at night, the tent is not very warm, she needs to sleep in a sleeping bag, in order to avoid the cold, she has been going south in winter, will go to Hainan, Yunnan and other places, Su Min said humorously: "Although my home is very small, but the yard is very large, looking at the scenery." ”

Of course, traveling outside, it is not all scenery, sometimes encounter punctures, she alone to change the tire is very difficult, will beckon friends passing by to help, sometimes will sleep in no one's camp, worried about their own safety, do not dare to close their eyes overnight.

But these troubles are still not worth mentioning compared to the joy of harvesting, Su Min has good driving skills, she has walked all the way, seen a lot of scenery, and also went to many city attractions, and can also taste local food.

After being known by everyone, Su Min also filmed an advertisement, shared the stage with Fu Seoul, showed the charm of a woman, and also published a book to dissect her own experience to everyone, which was also something she did not dare to think about before she set off.

03. Women, to learn to care for themselves

What has Su Min gained over the past year?

Watching the video record taken by Su Min, she found that her mentality was still peaceful, and she never regretted it, saying that she had tried a lot of firsts, such as surfing, such as makeup, such as speaking on stage.

She has not been satisfied with respect for most of her family, and after she came out, she met many like-minded people, everyone cared for each other, and this recognition made her heart warm.

Sometimes she will receive messages, some netizens ask her for a position, and then drive over to travel with her for a few days, everyone cooks together, plays together, although it is the first time to know each other, but there is a feeling of seeing each other.

When driving, everyone also cares about her, sandwiching her car in the middle, wanting to give her a sense of security, as she grows older, Su Min also feels that it is difficult to get on and off the tent, several times when she comes down, her legs are shaking, and she longs to have a motorhome herself.

Self-driving travel for more than a year, in addition to her pension, but also through the book, advertising and shooting videos more income, the money saved is finally enough for her to buy a caravan, when the daughter sent her a caravan, she could not help but cry, said that she was busy for most of her life, the house is the husband's name, the car is the daughter's name, and finally has a property of her own.

Su Min sorted her clothes little by little into the caravan, lamenting that she finally had a wardrobe, and her daughter saw that some of her clothes were torn, and she was not willing to throw them away, which was enough to see that she was also very frugal along the way.

Looking at the 2 grandchildren playing by the caravan, Su Min smiled like a child, she said that she came out and gave her daughter the greatest wealth, that is, to teach her daughter to be self-reliant and self-reliant, and to have the courage to do what she likes.

In life, many women live very stoic, even if the marriage is not happy, for the sake of children do not want to change, but we should not forget their own inner needs, at the right time, give life a little leave, let themselves learn to relax, because if you do not love yourself, who can love you?

In this life, the meaning of busyness is not only to accumulate wealth, but also to enrich yourself, let yourself see a broader world, you will not be suppressed by some trivialities, know that life is like tea, as long as you move with your heart, after suffering is sweet.

This is the meaning of Su Min's self-driving tour, she let us see another state of life, maybe we can't let go of the family now, but we can give ourselves a window to see Su Min's happiness, and our lives have hope.

Give Su Min a thumbs up! May she continue to be happy, are you willing to take a little vacation from life?