In addition to cheating or domestic violence, there are more disgusting things than divorce, although it is not insulting, but it is extremely harmful.
First, abandonment
The longer the marriage between husband and wife, the more they should appreciate each other, if the time of marriage is prolonged, the only curiosity is lost, one party begins to dislike the other, and even both parties dislike each other, no matter what they say or do. The tolerance before marriage or at the beginning of marriage has disappeared, and it is impossible to talk about understanding. Unpleasant things will follow, unpleasant words will rise and fall, although they will endure disgusted eyes or contemptuous looks, but I don't know how long I can endure. Running a marriage has reached the point where it is getting by, walking on the verge of marriage breakdown anytime and anywhere, and the marriage that is about to break down is more painful than the fact that it has been divorced.
Second, calculation
Although it is excusable to calculate with outsiders, it is impossible to say that the calculation between husband and wife cannot be said, but when the calculation is unveiled, the married life will feel more and more boring. Often from intimacy to strangeness, from strangeness to alienation. In fact, the husband and wife calculation on the surface seems to be just a way of life, but in depth it will feel that the interior is not simple, often indicating that the husband and wife are no longer a heart, since there is no longer a heart, there will be a situation of open struggle and secret struggle, and the two sides and each other's intrigue will be staged outside the home and inside the home. The calculation between husband and wife is the rhythm of falling apart, like one boot landing, before the other boot lands, it will be extremely nervous.
Third, indifference
The indifference of husband and wife is one of the fruits of the Cold War, when the husband and wife face all kinds of discord and there is no quarrel in the mind, it shows that the husband and wife have given up the marriage and let the marriage fend for itself. A quarrelsome marriage may be able to get back together, after all, the residual feelings will provide a weak impetus for the quarrel, the quarrel is a run-in, the two sides are either making changes for each other, or both parties are trying to change each other. On the other hand, indifference is ruthlessness, the two sides think that there is nothing to say to each other, nothing to do, more complaints than strange relationships, the closer the contradiction is to the point of irreconcilability, the more they will choose to respond with a silent attitude, after all, there is a saying that mourning is greater than heart death. Indifferent couples are not like dead ashes, but like dead hearts, so that even Mars no longer exists, and the resurgence of the ashes will neither exist in fantasy nor appear in reality.
Conclusion: Husband and wife should have a moderate sense of distress, prevention of micro-gradually is to prevent the crisis of pre-occurrence, accumulation of heavy and difficult to return, as if from the small to no small hidden dangers erupted, only timely anticipation, timely measures can be taken to keep the marriage on the right track.
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