Nowadays, in this relatively open-minded society, people also have a certain initiative and choice in their own feelings, and in the choice of partners, they will find a suitable one according to their own requirements.
At the moment of free love, both men and women yearn for and look forward to having a sweet love. But often the sky does not go according to people's wishes, and this kind of encounterable but unattainable feeling is not something that can be possessed if you want it.
Love is a luxury, but ordinary people do not necessarily lack the wisdom of love. In intimate relationships, whether we and the other half come to the end or not, our perception of love will change to a greater or lesser extent.
No one should tolerate and forgive you for everything, if two people can do these three things, the relationship will be more stable.
01
Don't take it for granted
I'm sure there's no woman who doesn't want to find a man who gives extra for herself, treats herself particularly well, and loves herself more.
It's just that we all need to figure out first what the truth about a man being nice to you really is.
A man's dedication to a woman, in addition to expressing personal love, is also a means of investment, and you are the ultimate reward for his investment.
People want their head value to be rewarded as expected, just as buying something will be worth the money. If only one partner is putting in the effort, the relationship is unhealthy.
Love is like a scale, when you give a lot and she gives very little. Your tray is naturally full, but his tray is empty. Then he will naturally be above you. What you should do should not be to continue to add weights to your balance. Instead, take a little off, or have the other person add some weights to her tray.
Too selfish, only care about their own feelings, but do not consider the ideas of their partners, so improper management, is to ruin the relationship with their own hands.
02
Do not get pregnant easily
Now young people's concept of love is not as formal as it used to be, and two people together are only a temporary interest or only for that little bit of selfish desire.
When you can't be sure if your other half can give you a good future, don't easily get pregnant without any preparation, because this not only adds to the future of two people, but also a kind of harm to female friends.
Giving birth to a child is really not born to finish, a lifetime of concern and responsibility, do not affect a lifetime because of a mistake that can be corrected.
Two people do not have the ability to give a child a complete love, and what qualifications do they have to bring him to this world.
If you are born without raising, why should you be home?
As a parent, the greatest evil is not to be responsible for your own children. Don't let the crystallization of love become the sudden "bad news" of two people.
03
Don't consume each other
Not sure if you've ever met someone like that? He appears next to you and has a very close relationship with you, but when you are with him, what you feel is not happiness, but deep disappointment. That's slowly consuming you!
Consuming each other will only make each other more tired, just so-called: the person who wants to leave can't stay, the person who pretends to sleep can't wake up, and the person who doesn't like you can't be moved.
Feelings are mutual choice, and this time, another time, if they are together, due to various factors, they feel that each other is not suitable, and when they do not love each other, please let go in time.
In a relationship, it is necessary for two people to work hard and maintain together, if there is no heart for this relationship, then this relationship is actually very difficult to go on.
Write at the end
Everything needs to be managed, and nothing is taken for granted.
A happy marriage is especially true, not only need love, but more importantly, manage with heart, let time witness love.
May there be no years to look back on, and with deep affection.
When we can still be with the person we love, cherish it and don't squander that precious feeling with the sake of it.