"Gu Shihai stood in the man's point of view, and he could see that Gu Xin did not love Ge Yue."
In the original work, Gu Shihai's words revealed Gu Xin's true feelings for Ge Yue, and Gu Xin chose Ge Yue because her father was the director of the bureau, which was conducive to his career and had no love at all.
Ge Yue was used by Gu Xin at the beginning, but Ge Yue was not so cowardly, her city government was still quite deep, but before the critical moment, she chose to be a simple woman.
First, being toyed with by Gu Xin
Ge Yue's mother said that she would be better than Gu Xin when she closed her eyes to find her son-in-law, and Ge Yue's parents did not agree to this marriage because the gap between the two families was too big.
When getting married, the banquet is more than 10,000 a table, it is the money from the Ge family, the house down payment is 7 million yuan each for the two families, the money for the honeymoon trip is from the Ge family, and Ge Yue's parents subsidize the small two families with 20,000 yuan every month to repay the mortgage.
In this marriage, Gu Xin made a lot of money, through his father-in-law, he achieved a great stride in his living standards, and his career was also bright.
If Ge Yue's father does not have an accident, Gu Xin will always accommodate her for his own future, just like Song Siming. Unfortunately, Ge Yue's father had an accident, and Gu Xin didn't want to pretend anymore.
Gu Xin and Ge Yue knew each other for a few months and talked about marriage, the Gu family felt that it was too sudden, Gu Shilian was smart, and he saw through it at once:
Next to Gu Shilian muttered, "I got married after a few months of knowing, isn't there?" The old man's usual ear back, this moment is unusually delicate, the duck leg is thrown, directly asked Gu Xin: "Really?" Gu Xin blushed and nodded silently, and everyone knew that she was really pregnant.
Ge Yue had never been in love, Gu Xin looked handsome, and with a little means, he got Ge Yue done.
After Gu Xin married Ge Yue, he still did not break contact with his ex-girlfriend, in the TV series, he also hoped that his ex-girlfriend would help him introduce his work, and even offered to start again with her, at this time, Ge Yue was pregnant, Gu Xin was really scummy.
Ge Yue could also feel Gu Xin's feelings for him, and he didn't love himself at all, only superficially coping:
Ge Yue guessed that he and Zhang Manli should not have talked so little. Women who have no ability have to let men "stuffy", like Zhang Manli, men will definitely "complain".
Gu Xin's attitude towards Ge Yue was very cold, and Ge Yue had always understood it, but Ge Yue's feelings for Gu Xin were true.
Even the most docile woman can endure a bland husband-wife relationship, but cannot stand her husband betraying her.
Gu Xin toyed with Ge Yue, causing harm to her psychology, which also led to Ge Yue's later changes.
2. Ge Yue's city government
Ge Yue is not a woman who particularly loves Gu Huo, and there are things she will hide in her heart, just like she found out that Gu Xin was in contact with her ex-girlfriend, and she would not confront Gu Xin in person.
In the original work, 3 things can be seen that Ge Yue is not so weak at all in her bones, and once she encounters major events, she can hold up.
1. Voyeurism
"There is that kind of software sold online, quietly installed on the mobile phone, can synchronize messages, and there are telephone text messages. Sister-in-law, don't look down on me, I was forced to do nothing. ”
After Ge Yue found out that Gu Xin had a problem with Feng Xixi, she secretly monitored Gu Xin's every move, but she did not puncture Gu Xin and Feng Xixi's activities.
Feng Xixi and Gu Xin are for the sake of interests, Feng Xixi wants performance, Gu Xin also wants to gain a firm foothold in the new unit, make achievements, the two people take what they need, Gu Xin will not divorce Ge Yue for Feng Xixi, so Ge Yue chooses not to move.
At Mrs. Gu's funeral, Ge Yue revealed the surveillance of Gu Xin's mobile phone to Feng Xiaoqin, and she knew that Feng Xiaoqin would tell her sister, which was also a disguised knock on Feng Xiqian and Gu Xin.
After Gu Xin knew, she uninstalled the software, and Ge Yue found out the next day, she pretended that nothing had happened, and Gu Xin also thought that she had never done anything.
Compared with the big noise, Ge Yue chose to wait and see what happened, and I think it was still very calm.
"Sister-in-law, there are women outside Gu Xin." Ge Yue said this to Feng Xiaoqin, she did not say that it was Feng Xixi, but to save face for Feng Xiqian and Gu Xin.
She also asked Feng Xiaoqin if Feng Xixi had a boyfriend? Do you want to help her introduce her boyfriend? This was also Ge Yue warning Feng Qian in disguise.
"It's a skill to live your life like a play." Ge Yue asked, "Sister-in-law, does Xi Qian have a boyfriend?" "Introduced to her, not matched." Feng Xiaoqin asked rhetorically, "Do you have the right one at hand?" ”
The game between these two people, each with their own thoughts, some things, picked out, but it seems bottomless.
Ge Yue did not think of divorcing Gu Xin, she left room for Feng Xiqian, in fact, it was to leave room for Gu Xin, if it was opened, Gu Xin had to divorce for the sake of face.
2. Secretly conceiving a second child
When the child was less than one year old, Ge Yue tried Gu Xin and said that her mother wanted them to have another child, Gu Xin was immediately stunned, did not directly refuse, but was not very much looking forward to the second child.
Gu Xin hesitated, "Say it again." Ge Yue caught a glimpse of his expression and stopped mentioning it. In fact, that word is just a word, the vitality has not recovered, which is in the mood to have a second child. It wasn't her mother who said it, it was made up by herself, depending on how he answered.
Gu Xin was particularly cold to his first child, his son was not yet a full moon, he went to Xinjiang on a business trip, Ge Yue chatted with him, he was perfunctory:
Ge Yue wanted to talk about the details of the baby, and he was not very tight, or he was hastily responding, or simply saying that he was too busy, so he hung up. Even a person like Su Wangdi, who protects the short, can't help but sigh: "It's biological, and it's not the drag oil bottle brought by your wife's remarriage." ”
Gu Xin did not have any patience for the child, the excitement of the new father, he did not have any, for Ge Yue and the child's face full of annoyance, annoyance, Ge Yue even wanted a second child.
A month after Gu Xin deleted the software, when the two people were very cold in their feelings, Ge Yue suddenly announced that she was pregnant with her second child:
"Embarrassed for more than a month, the morning before yesterday, she suddenly put a pregnancy test stick in front of him, and the two red lines were clearly visible."
I think this should be Ge Yue's idea, she wants to use this method to keep Gu Xin, because Su Wangdi is very fond of her grandson, with the help of her mother-in-law, plus two children, she can tie up Gu Xin.
3. Sing a small song
Gu Xin was imprisoned because of illegal loans, waiting for sentencing, Ge Yue was already five or six months pregnant, and her approach was really unexpected.
Gu Xin said that the worst result was more than 3 years, and also agreed to divorce Ge Yue, but Ge Yue said: "Then wait for you for three years, come out and then divorce." ”
Ge Yue wanted to help Gu Xin, she found Xiao Lu, who had a crush on her, she was not familiar with Xiao Lu, Xiao Lu liked herself, or Gu Xin said. Xiao Lu's uncle is now the mayor of the town, Ge Yue is already married, and she is pregnant with her second child, at this time, there is no way to ask Xiao Lu.
The scene where Ge Yue and Xiao Lu met, the original book described it like this:
She asked him, "Are you going to beg your uncle?" He looked very surprised, confused. She stepped back, "Or, you can introduce me to him and I'll invite him to dinner, okay?" "Control the tone, remind yourself, take a deep breath, don't be too hasty, be a little spoiled, but don't overdo it."
Ge Yue, who has experienced so many things, is no longer that simple little girl, her face is very thin, and now, her face is no longer important.
Soon, she approached him, and her tone became more and more gentle: "Do you like to listen to Yue opera?" "I have a little nine sisters in my family" or "Mulberry Garden Visits Wife", I will sing to you. ”
This is the last few words in the original book, Ge Yue has changed, everyone has changed.
Ge Yue changed from a little girl who was used by Gu Xin to such a low voice to ask someone to help her husband, because she was mature and more city-like, not the new daughter-in-law who was reprimanded by her mother-in-law and did not dare to say anything.
Third, change
Ge Yue was born in such a family, she had no worries about food and clothing, she did not look at the price when buying things, and her work was good, because of her father's reasons, no one in the unit should dare to bully her.
Such a growth environment makes Ge Yue very simple, without a little heart, and can even be said to be very cowardly.
"After all, the first meeting, and the informal appointment, the girl's thin skin pushed away, but also normal." Who knew that Xiao Ge considered half a day, the circles of his eyes and forehead were red, a look of embarrassment, and his mouth actually said 'good'. Gu Shihong knew that this girl was so honest that she couldn't even say the word 'no'. ”
Su Wangdi wanted to take a large family to see her son's new house, because the security guards of the community would not let them in, Ge Yue went, and the Gu family only verbally invited it, and she agreed.
In such a situation, Ge Yue could say that there was still something to be busy, and the next time she went to visit, she actually agreed with a red face.
Ge Yue is also often bullied by her mother-in-law, buying a mattress is also counted by her mother-in-law, and also satirizing Ge Yue's mother who can't cook, wants to rest for a few days after pregnancy, and is said by Su Wangdi that she is too pretentious, and Ge Yue is afraid of Su Wangdi.
If she is a little bit of a heart and eyes, her personality is forced, and she will not be cooked by Gu Xinsheng rice, Su Wangdi does not dare to bully her like that, the previous Ge Yue, is indeed very simple.
Ge Yue's change is because of the child, and for the sake of the child, she also has to make changes.
"She wants to change herself. That cowardly Ge Yue, she wanted to dump her. She would soon be a mom of two and would visit the prison every few weeks. The days are still long, and I can't see my head at a glance. ”
In addition to the realities she will have to face in the future, which prompt her to change, there is a very important reason why she has seen similar things.
She remembered that in the past, her mother was often wary of women outside her father, and sat down once or twice, but it should be far more than that. Her father was more shrewd than her mother. She was the same, Gu Xin was much more shrewd than she was. ”
When she found out that Gu Xin had someone outside, she didn't panic, although she hadn't experienced it, from her parents, she should have been used to seeing such things for a long time, so she wouldn't be so impulsive.
In the final analysis, Ge Yue's change is still because of Gu Xin, Gu Xin is not good for her, and she wants to keep this marriage, and can only force herself to become calm and "cunning".
Fourth, Ge Yue loves Gu Xin
The story of Ge Yue and Gu Xin is that the "phoenix man" married a "rich family with thousands of gold", and he did not expect that Ge Yue's family was down.
Gu Xin had never loved Ge Yue from the beginning to the end, he was not looking at Ge Yue, it was Ge Yue's father, and he could climb such a father-in-law, he struggled for at least ten years.
Ge Yue was really touched by him, she really loved Gu Xin.
If she didn't love Gu Xin, she wouldn't want to use the child to keep him, when Gu Xin faced the disaster of imprisonment, she still chose to accompany, holding up her pregnant belly to find someone who had liked her before, not even a suitor, it was really open-minded.
After Gu Xin was released from prison, he would definitely be grateful to Ge Yue for not abandoning her, and would be good to her, but because the two people had experienced so much, their feelings had long changed.
Ge Yue will no longer tolerate Gu Xin unconditionally as before, Gu Xin will not fall in love with Ge Yue, and the two people will become more harmonious because they are both mature.
Will not give up their bottom line for love, will not divorce to find an ex-girlfriend because they do not love, will compromise because of reality.
"Phoenix man" Gu Xin, let Ge Yue learn to grow, such growth, the price is too great, the woman's maturity after being hurt, is helpless.
I'd rather be a woman who never has a heart, because that proves that you're well protected, at least loved.
Ge Yue went from a simple girl who couldn't say "no" to singing a little song to a strange man for her husband, which was a compromise with reality and a maturity forced by marriage.
I admire Ge Yue, she is a very sober and rational woman, the heart is also strong enough, but the protection of her parents is too good, after the change of Ge Yue, just like after breaking the cocoon into a butterfly, she has her own wings, and she also knows how to live the second half of her life.
Author: Muzi