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There are many couples who choose to break up when they come to the step of marriage, because marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, when a couple is ready to get married, the parents of both sides will sit together to discuss this matter, and when they get married, they involve the dowry dowry These money issues, if they do not talk about it, it is bound to lead to two people shooting and scattering.
Bride price and dowry is the custom of marriage, there is no how much to say, the man to the woman bride price is respect for the woman, the woman's home to give the dowry is also a blessing from the woman's parents to the newcomer, but there are many people are not willing to give the woman a bride price, thinking that if the woman's belly is big, the woman and her parents will be anxious, when the time a penny of the bride price does not have to be given, you can marry the woman into the door.
Such an idea is really difficult to accept, this is completely contemptuous of the woman, there are many girls in the face of the man's behavior is dissatisfied, will choose to break up with him and end the relationship.
Today's story comes from the sharing of fan Jiang Ting.
Boyfriend delays marriage.
Jiang Ting and boyfriend Li Wenfeng are college classmates, at that time Jiang Ting was the school flower of the university, Li Wenfeng took a lot of effort to catch up with Jiang Ting, and the relationship between the two people has always been very good.
After graduating from college, they both found good jobs, rented a house together to save money, and they both identified each other and worked hard to plan for the future of the two of them.
After a while, Jiang Ting found out that she was pregnant, and she was very panicked at the time, because now that the job has just stabilized, how can this be good? Jiang Ting told Li Wenfeng about this matter, and Li Wenfeng was also panicked, and after calming down, the two decided to get married immediately.
Li Wenfeng took Jiang Ting home to meet her parents, and privately told her mother that Jiang Ting was pregnant, and the two people wanted to hold a wedding as soon as possible, but Li Wenfeng's mother was not willing to give the bride price at all, and now that Jiang Ting was pregnant, she was even less anxious, she said to her son: "It will be easy to drag her belly up, and in a few months it will be her who is anxious, and then you will not have to spend a penny to marry her into the door." ”
Listening to his mother's words, Li Wenfeng also agreed, his family is general, now he has just worked, there is no money in his hand, if he can not give the bride price of course, under the urging of Jiang Ting, the two people set a wedding date, but Li Wenfeng has not sent the bride price here, and has not begun to prepare for the wedding.
Jiang Ting was very anxious, her parents were a little angry, in order not to let her parents worry, she urged Li Wenfeng to give the bride price as soon as possible, and then let the parents of both sides meet to discuss the details of the wedding together.
Li Wenfeng only said that he knew, and after a period of time, Li Wenfeng did not mention anything about marriage, Jiang Ting was more and more uneasy, his stomach was getting bigger and bigger, if he was not married at that time, the shame was himself and his parents, Jiang Ting urged Li Wenfeng to let him give the bride price as soon as possible, and then prepare to get married, Li Wenfeng said to Jiang Ting that the two people can get a certificate first, the bride price and the wedding are said after these, Jiang Ting is a little unhappy after listening, even if he agrees, his parents will not agree, I have let my parents break my heart, and I must not do anything that makes my parents sad anymore.
Seeing that Jiang Ting was unwilling to compromise, Li Wenfeng said to Jiang Ting again: "You also know that my family is in a general situation, I just worked recently, I have no money in my hand, I can't give you a bride price, if you love me, you shouldn't force me." Listening to Li Wenfeng's words, Jiang Ting was a little shocked, this was the first time she felt that she did not know Li Wenfeng at all, Jiang Ting did not ask Li Wenfeng for too much dowry, she knew that it was not easy for her parents to work hard to raise themselves so big, it was a custom to ask for a bride price, or it should be followed, Jiang Ting resolutely did not agree to marry Li Wenfeng without a bride price.
Looking at Jiang Ting not to let go, Li Wenfeng decided to delay for a while, then Jiang Ting and her parents will be anxious, will definitely ask him to marry, but he thinks too much, the two people did not happy that day and dispersed, after returning home Jiang Ting told her parents that Li Wenfeng was not willing to give the bride price to deliberately delay the marriage date, the parents were very distressed about their daughter, persuaded her to break up with Li Wenfeng, and then find a reliable man to marry, Jiang Ting also agreed.
Heavy dowry to marry as scheduled
Under the introduction of her parents, Jiang Ting met a very reliable man, the man fell in love with Jiang Ting at first sight, did not mind that she had children in her belly, said that she was willing to marry her, and her parents also hoped that their daughter could find a good home, so she prepared a house, a car and a sum of money as a dowry for her daughter.
Seeing that the wedding date was approaching, and Jiang Ting did not call him, Li Wenfeng was a little impatient, so he took the initiative to call Jiang Ting and said: "Your belly is also big, don't ask for a bride price, let's get married as soon as possible." After listening to Li Wenfeng's words, Jiang Ting said: "My business has nothing to do with you, I will get married as scheduled, the groom is not you." After saying that, Jiang Ting hung up the phone.
Li Wenfeng felt that Jiang Ting was just saying these words to scare him, she still had children in her belly, who would marry her? On the day of the marriage date set by the two people, Jiang Ting got married as scheduled, and her parents paid a lot of money to accompany her, she felt that she was really blind at that time to be with someone like Li Wenfeng, who was killed so tragically by him, fortunately, she met a considerate and reliable husband, and Jiang Ting was also willing to live a good life with her husband.
Learning the news of Jiang Ting's marriage from his college classmates, Li Wenfeng was shocked, ran to Jiang Ting's home to find her, just saw the wedding car drive in front of him, the person sitting inside was Jiang Ting, Li Wenfeng couldn't believe that Jiang Ting actually married someone else, he followed the car to the hotel where Jiang Ting was married, and confronted Jiang Ting in front of Jiang Ting's husband: "You actually married someone else with my child, does he know?" Jiang Ting didn't say anything, her husband said to Li Wenfeng: "I know, you are the scumbag who killed her, I don't mind, I am willing to marry her, I will also treat her well." ”
After listening to Jiang Ting's husband's words, Li Wenfeng was stunned in the same place, he walked out of the hotel alone in a trance, on the road heard others say that Jiang Ting's parents married a suite, a car and a large amount of money, his heart was really remorseful, before he only wanted to listen to his mother's words, delayed the wedding date and did not give Jiang Ting a bride price, did not expect that now Jiang Ting married someone else, he had nothing.
After returning home, Li Wenfeng told his mother about this matter, and his mother also couldn't believe it, she thought that after delaying the wedding date, Jiang Ting's belly was big, she would ask them to get married as soon as possible, and then the bride price did not have to be given, and she could save a sum of money, but she did not expect That Jiang Ting would marry someone else, her parents also paid a lot of money to accompany the marriage, and their mother and son were really remorseful in their hearts, but everything was late.
After marriage, the husband is very good to Jiang Ting, let her not worry about the child in the belly, since the two people are married, this child is their child, Jiang Ting is very grateful for her husband's tolerance, the two people plan to live a good life, forget the unpleasant things before.
The woman's parents have worked hard to raise their daughters, paid a lot in the daughter's body, and when married, the man should also give the woman a bride price, and the woman's parents will also give a dowry. The man did not want to give the bride price, and thought of marrying the woman without spending a penny, which was a bit whimsical.
Girls should learn to protect themselves, do not let themselves be led by the man and his family, you are also the baby of your parents, there is no need to be aggrieved in order to understand the boyfriend, because such behavior will not exchange the man's gratitude for you, but also let him think that you are a good bully, after marriage will become more and more bullying you, your married life will not be happy.
Girls can't agree to marry someone else without a bride price, if your boyfriend really loves you, he will be willing to spend money for you, if he is not willing to spend money on you, then you have to think about whether you should marry him? Marriage is not a child's play, we must carefully consider it, do not regret it after marriage.
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