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In the face of love, we are always both expectant and afraid.
Looking forward to meeting someone who treats him sincerely and starting a sweet love, but while looking forward to love, we are very afraid.
Afraid of encountering people who are not ladylike, afraid of really paying wrongly, afraid of using all their strength to love someone, but getting full of scars.
Because the heart is full of such fear, even if they meet a man who is heartbroken, many women do not dare to pluck up the courage to love, and finally rub shoulders with happiness.
But in fact, we should all have expectations and yearning for good love, and people who really love you will give you a sense of security.
It's just that before we put our hearts into our hearts, we need to see if they really love themselves.
In fact, getting along with the opposite sex, these three details will tell you whether he really loves you.
01 The person who loves you will tolerate your little temper
A very envious sentence:
"You don't have to be deliberately gentle, you can throw a little tantrum at me, I can give you all my patience, you come over, I will coax you." 」
Indeed, the man who truly loves you will give you patience and gentleness, put you first in everything, and tolerate your little temper.
He is not willing to make you sad and sad, so when arguing with you, he will be the first time to give you soft, even if it is not his fault, he will take into account your feelings, coax you to be happy, and then teach you some truths later.
In fact, a man's attitude when arguing is how much he loves you.
If a man, when arguing, does not care about your feelings and speaks ill of you, then he does not really love you.
Love is a kind of care, a kind of tolerance. If a man, when arguing, still takes care of your feelings and puts you first, then there is no doubt that he really loves you.
02The person who loves you will take the initiative to disclose your relationship
As Zhang Guorong said:
"Feelings that are announced are the most secure."
Indeed, a man who truly loves you will give you the security you need and open up about your relationship.
He will not let you be wronged, will make you stand by his side, affirm the relationship between each other, and declare your sovereignty to everyone.
Love, be clear, don't hide it.
If a man is always hiding and afraid to announce your relationship, when you ask to send a circle of friends, either perfunctory or excuse to refuse, then he must not really love you.
Love is an affirmation, a favor. If a man will take the initiative to disclose your relationship, generously keep you by his side, and introduce you to friends and relatives, then he really loves you.
03 The person who loves you will pay for you
I agree with one sentence:
"Girls must love a man who is willing to give you time, give action, give you warmth, give you love, favor you, put you in the heart, hold you in the palm of your hand." 」
Deeply.
The man who truly loves you will definitely give action for you, give energy, and treat you wholeheartedly. His love for you is not just a verbal commitment, but also a real action effort.
He will accompany you whenever you need it; he will do it as long as you are happy.
As Zhang Xiaoxian said:
"Actually, you're really bad for me, but you're speaking beautifully."
If a man can only draw flatbread, write empty checks, and cajole you with rhetoric, then he doesn't really love you.
Love is a kind of care, a kind of giving. If a man will be very concerned about you, pay for you, spend time with you, spend energy to coax you, then there is no doubt that he really loves you.
Regarding good love, we should have expectations and yearnings, not fears.
When we meet our own true destiny, we will naturally trust ourselves to him.
He will tolerate your little temper, he will take the initiative to open up your relationship, and he will pay for you.
Regarding love, it is important to choose the right person, don't rush, and leave the rest of your life to someone who truly loves you.
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