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Two people together, when a man truly loves a woman, he doesn't say everything to the woman.
Sometimes, men also have some concealment from women, and these white lies also illustrate men's true love for women.
When a man is working hard and hard, he will also encounter a lot of grievances and difficulties in the workplace, and he will also experience a lot, heartache and not being understood.
But men are reluctant to show their vulnerability in front of women.
In front of women, men always want to show their strongest side, the strongest side of themselves, so he will not tell women about his hardships, and he will not tell women about his difficulties.
A man who truly loves you, who hides it from you, who works hard at work, is the best way he really loves you.
The more a man loves a woman, the more he wants to hide his hard work at work, and the more he wants to hide his lack of understanding at work.
He hopes that he can hold up, your piece of the sky, shield your life from the wind and rain, he can eat a lot of hardships for you, only hope that you are happy and happy, only hope that you can die and accompany him.
This is a manifestation of a man who loves you, and it is also a manifestation of a man who is willing to give you enough security, and his concealment of you is a kind of affection for your love, and another kind of concern for you.
When you know that a man, while hiding his work from you, you don't need to debunk his disguise, just help him maintain it, and his male self-esteem is fine.
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When a man is outside, when he is wronged and difficult, he is not willing to vent it, nor is he willing to bring unsatisfactory emotions at work to women.
Man in the emotional low tide period, will only suffer silently, he can not open his mouth to women, nor can he open his mouth to anyone, he does not want to be looked down upon by anyone, and he does not want to be despised by anyone.
When a man habitually hides from women when he is depressed, it actually shows a man's true love for women.
He is used to it, a person silently solves problems, he is used to it, a person silently bears the ups and downs of emotions, he is also used to it, everything is carried by himself.
He doesn't need a woman to carry it for himself, he is more accustomed to being in front of you, reporting good news rather than worry, and facing you with a light and breezy attitude.
If a man always vents his emotions on you, he brings you unsatisfactory at work, he habitually treats you coldly and violently, he is pleasant to others, but he is so harsh on you, it shows that he is an extremely selfish person in his feelings.
Because he will only think about his own feelings, he will only think of himself in everything, not about others.
A man who will never hide his emotions from you, and even give you his worst emotions and worst tempers to bear, women must stay away as soon as possible.
Men can confess their emotions to women, but they can't vent their temper on women, after all, only the most incompetent men will do this.
When a man wants to stay in the underground garage after work; when a man wants to go to the bathroom after work for a little longer, women can give men such freedom and space, let men sort out their emotions, and let men lick their wounds.
Women can pretend not to know, can not have to comfort, but in language, please do not be aggressive with men.
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Men in life, will also have their own anxiety and dissatisfaction, when the man begins to hide from you, his emotional anxiety, it shows that he is loving you.
Because negative emotions can be contagious, bad energy can be transmitted, men hope that you are in his, the scope of protection, you can live happily, happy, but also comfortable, do what you like.
If a man can calm his own negative emotions and decompose his emotions on his own, then he can give women a stable sense of security in their feelings.
If a man can do it, emotionally stable in front of you, always positive and optimistic, low tide emotions can be self-digested, willing to give you strength and comfort, such a man, is worth your life.
Because he not only, can digest his emotions, but also provides you with a stable emotional value, he will not hurt you in these aspects or cause you any stress.
This is an extremely rare and precious quality for a man to love a woman.
The most terrible kind of man is to count the failures and incompetence of his life on the head of women, feel that they can't make money be harmed by women, and feel that the misfortunes in their lives are brought by women.
He never reflected, everyone's life is self-inflicted, everything in his life is attracted by himself, his world has always been only himself, no one else.
A man who is accustomed to self-reflection, no matter how he is now, he will definitely get better and better in the future, because he has room for improvement and he also has the ability to self-awareness.
Such a man, even if he is temporarily a failure, even if he does not have much money for the time being, his life can still be expected.
A man's concealment of these aspects of a woman shows that he is truly in love with you: he conceals the pressure of his work, he hides the depression of his emotions, he hides the anxiety of his life.
You have to believe that the more a man cares about you, the more he will hold the best in front of you; the more a man who cares about you, the more he will appear indestructible in front of you.
Because he loves you, his greatest happiness is to watch you live a carefree life and give you the best happiness in the world.
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