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01
In a positive family, it is always 1+1>2, 1+1+1>3.
This is the meaning of the existence of the word "family", the ancients said that "it is difficult to support a single tree, and two trees are forested" is this truth, and the cohesion of the family is very strong, because home is our most solid dependence.
When we are tired after a hard day, we have to face unnecessary quarrels and consume each other when we return home, which will only make people more physically and mentally exhausted.
Home should be a place full of love, a place that can heal the heart, recharge the body, and make people happy and happy, which is the meaning of home.
In a positive family, tolerance, trust, encouragement, praise, fun, and positivity will always be the main theme, living in such an environment, the child's heart will be full of sunshine.
Some people say that a child who lives in the light, even if he is surrounded by darkness one day, will not be afraid of the darkness, because the light in his heart will continue to provide him with energy and give him the ability to compete with it.
In a positive family, they can cultivate children with strong hearts, and they will have a broad vision and a broad pattern, because only a strong heart can support them to stand higher and see farther.
02
In a positive family, it is inseparable from the good emotions of parents and mothers, and children who grow up in a warm and harmonious family will be full of happiness.
Modern society is fiercely competitive, the pressure is very high, many people will have some bad emotions in their hearts, but they cannot bring bad emotions at work to their homes, nor should they lose their temper with people close to them, and communicate well when there are contradictions, rather than relying on quarrels and accusations to solve problems.
Adults should have the basic self-control ability of adults, know how to comfort themselves in a timely manner, and get rid of excessive anxiety, depression and other bad emotions.
If both father and mother bring negative emotions to the home, it is easy to cause quarrels and create contradictions, and children live in a tense, cold war atmosphere, feel helpless, lonely and afraid, and lose all sense of security.
Negative emotions are like viruses, they will spread and infect each other, and over time, the child's heart will be full of negative energy, and it will become dull, depressed, decadent, and even sick.
Negative energy is actually very scary, it will slowly erode our body and mind bit by bit, making us depressed, cowardly, and dark.
Adults who have a negative emotional backlog for too long will get sick, let alone children.
Children's world view, values, outlook on life are not yet mature, it is easy to be affected by the family atmosphere, a negative energy of the family, will only distort the child's three views, which is very unfavorable for their future development.
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