Love is giving without reservation, not taking it with impunity.
When it comes to maternal love, the world does not hesitate to use the most beautiful words to describe it, because the love that mothers give to their children is selfless, and she raises her children with painstaking efforts, not to ask her children to give her anything in return, she just hopes that her children can live a healthy and happy life.
Sensible children will always repay their mothers with filial piety. The writer Shi Tiesheng once said that one of the driving forces of his writing is to make his mother proud of her success.
But in real life, there are some people who like to nibble on the old, they are not willing to work hard to repay their mother's nurturing grace, but only know how to constantly ask for their mother, making their mother sad and disappointed in him.
The 50-year-old man chews on the old man and does not work, resenting his mother for refusing to sell his house to help him live
Lu Ming, 50, has lived alone in a rental house of less than 10 square meters since he divorced his wife seven years ago, his room is very dirty, the bed is full of debris, and it seems that he cannot sleep alone.
Lu Ming is not without relatives, he also has a sister, and a 74-year-old mother, but why is his mother and sister unwilling to help him when he is so depressed?
Lu Ming said that on his 50th birthday, his mother had sent him a red envelope, and then his contact information was blocked, and his sister also ignored him, suspecting that her sister instigated her mother not to contact him in order to monopolize her mother's property.
What's going on? It turned out that since Lu Ming's father died in 2001, his mother has been supported by his sister, and his father has left a house of property before he died, although he has been collecting rent by Lu Ming all these years, but the owner of the property is his mother, looking at his mother's age, he is worried that his mother will leave this house to his sister.
Lu Ming said that his sister did not let him see his mother, he had not seen his mother for 3 months, he believed that he was the eldest son in the family and should inherit the property, but the mother was instigated by her sister, there was no sense of affection in her mind, she did not know that she had a son and a grandson.
So, does Lu Ming's sister really want to occupy her mother's property alone? Lu Ming did not want to sit still, he found his sister Lu Mei's work unit, and wanted to ask her sister for an explanation.
After Lu Ming saw Lu Mei, the other party showed a very repulsive look, and Lu Ming also spoke ill of his sister, and the two almost quarreled.
Lu Mei even told a surprising fact, she said that after her father's death, it was Lu Ming who drove his mother out of the old house, and then Lu Ming rented out the house, and for many years, Lu Ming, in addition to asking for money from his mother, also took the initiative to visit his mother in the future.
In the face of his sister's accusations, Lu Ming bluntly said that Lu Mei was talking nonsense, saying that he had indeed beaten his mother gently in anger before, but he was still very concerned about his mother.
Lu Mei said that she had never stopped her brother from seeing her mother, but because her mother was afraid of her brother, she had never dared to see him, for fear that he would come and disturb her peaceful life.
So, is what Lu Mei said true?
"My mother is ashamed of me" The 50-year-old son is worried about his sister's competition for real estate and wants to go to court with his old mother
Lu Ming was born into a family of intellectuals, his father was a highly respected engineer, and his mother was also a well-educated person.
When his father was alive, he entrusted someone to find a job for Lu Ming, but because Lu Ming was not doing his job, he eventually lost this job, and soon after that, his wife chose to divorce Lu Ming and take her son alone to marry someone else.
Lu Mei said that after the brother divorced, the mother and relatives at home also tried their best to help him, but the brother did not argue, always could not work peacefully, dreaming of making quick money, the brother borrowed all the money from relatives, and constantly asked for it from the mother, the mother could not meet the brother's demands, the brother would come to the house to make a big fuss, it was because the mother was afraid of the brother, completely disappointed in the brother, she chose to block the brother's contact information.
Lu Ming said that when he divorced his ex-wife, he was clean, and now that his ex-wife is remarried, he is worried that his son will not be safe in the future, and he will want to return to the house to leave for his son.
In this regard, Lu Mei said that after his brother and sister-in-law divorced, he had never fulfilled his responsibility as a father for many years, so why would he want to leave the house to his son? Lu Mei said bluntly that her brother just wanted to sell the house to cash out, and then squander the house money.
It is precisely because his mother and sister prevent Lu Ming from selling the house and refuse to transfer the house to him, which makes him resentful of his sister and mother, he feels that his mother is a "foreign mother", he will not care about himself when he becomes an adult, he feels that according to traditional concepts, his mother should take care of him for a lifetime.
So, what did Lu Ming's mother really think?
After several twists and turns, the mediator met Lu Ming's mother, Zhang Lihua, a 74-year-old with snow-white hair, who did not want to see her son, but only wanted to talk to the mediator alone.
Zhang Lihua said that she is not in good health now, she is sick, for many years has been her daughter and son-in-law in the heart to take care of themselves, she knows that her son's current situation is not easy, but also many times to help her son, but she does not dare to tell her son her residence, she is afraid that his son came to her noisy, disturbing her quiet life.
Zhang Lihua said that she had worked hard to cultivate Lu Ming, but Lu Ming was always very angry, which disappointed her. Talking about the house problem, Zhang Lihua said that the reason why she is reluctant to transfer the house to her son is that she is worried that her son will sell the property, and now the house can be rented, so that her son has an income, if her son will squander the money from the sale, she is worried that her son's life will be more difficult in the future.
Zhang Lihua said that the house must have a son's share, but because her daughter has taken care of herself for many years, she is also willing to give her daughter a share of the property.
After understanding his mother's wishes, Lu Ming was very angry, he said bluntly that there would be a pension after his mother's death, and his mother had already said that he would leave the pension to his sister, and now he had to give the house to his sister, which he could not bear, and he decided to defend his due interests by suing the old mother.
Sentiment Analysis:
People's wealth should be created through their own efforts, rather than by taking from their families to get, nowadays, the behavior of "nibbling on the old" has become a social phenomenon, some young people do not want to make progress, unwilling to work hard, just to be able to live and live under the wings of their parents, which is actually an irresponsible performance of life.
Our parents worked hard to raise us, and we should repay their efforts by working hard, rather than just blindly asking them for it.
Although Lu Ming has reached the year of destiny, he is still unwilling to find a job to earn money to support his family, and only wants to improve his life by selling his mother's property, which constantly asks for his mother, and finally makes his mother reluctant to contact him again.
Family affection is the origin of blood relations, the reason why the mother is so disappointed in Lu Ming now, this is probably because she once had high hopes for Lu Ming, she hoped that her son could fight for anger, even if the son could not achieve major success in his career, as long as the son could do an ordinary job in a down-to-earth manner, she would feel at ease.
I hope that Lu Ming can wake up in time, find a job in a down-to-earth manner, and use his own efforts to resolve the tension between him and his mother, only in this way can the old mother who has reached the age of ancient times feel comforted.
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