Plato said, "When Eros pats you on the shoulder, even a person who does not know what poetry is in his daily life will suddenly become a poet." ”
People who want to know whether a person has a mind in his heart, from some of his daily behaviors, we can see some clues. Many times, the details that are most easily overlooked are the most intuitive manifestations of a person's heart.
People who have experienced love can probably know how it feels to have a crush on someone. With someone you like in your heart, you can't help but pay attention to each other, to understand and care for each other. But under this attention, I am worried that the other party will see through his own thoughts at a glance.
Under this complex psychological activity, as long as we observe more, we will know some of the thoughts in each other's hearts.
When the opposite sex gets along, although we don't always think about whether the other party likes us, in the process of getting along, we must also pay attention to the changes. If you feel some ambiguous atmosphere, you must receive a signal from the other party to give you. Only when we understand these things can we know how to face each other next.
Generally speaking, when we have a crush on a person, we will naturally show a different attitude, and even deliberately appear some behaviors to make the other party feel their own intentions. Even if you haven't thought about this and have love in your heart, you won't be as calm and indifferent as before. With the people you like, you have worries and doubts in your heart.
Therefore, when we get along with the opposite sex, we should all be clear about one thing, that is, a person who truly loves you will imply you in this way. After receiving such a signal, you should understand the other party's intentions, don't understand.
01 When getting along with you, there will not be too many worries, many things will take the initiative to tell you, will not want to hide from you.
When we like a person, we often take the initiative to tell each other our thoughts. Some of their secrets about themselves will also be willing to share with each other, the more they like this person, the more things they want to share, even if they have not told others, we will also be willing to share, so that the other party knows more about themselves, but also in this way to let the other party understand their own intentions.
Moloa said, "Friendship, like love, is pleasant only if you live among friends with whom you can live naturally, without pretense and lies." ”
If you love someone, you will want two people to be happy together, natural, and without any worries. Even if you can't control the other person's behavior, at least let yourself take the initiative to tell the other party.
When a person gives you such a signal, you should understand that he actually loves you sincerely, and will take the initiative to share his heart with you and take the initiative to show everything he has in front of you.
02 Will take the initiative to talk to you about some topics that you are very interested in, and will take the initiative to approach your hobbies.
Shakespeare said: "Love is not a sweet word in the shade of a flower, not a secret word in the peach blossom source, not a light tear, nor a hard compulsion, love is based on common foundation." ”
Love is so for everyone, when we like a person, we will naturally spend a lot of time to pay attention to each other, spend a lot of thought to understand each other, try to understand each other's lives, so that the distance between each other continues to shrink.
In this way, we also know that when the opposite sex gets along, if the other party really likes you, they will definitely be close to your life and understand your hobbies. When chatting, it will also take the initiative to talk about some topics that you are very interested in for you, generally based on your feelings, so as to cater to your hobbies and take the initiative to make you happy.
Shen Stone also said: "Love is not only colorful, but also pleasing to the eye." ”
People who have love in their hearts will also hope that two people together is pleasing to the eye and more colorful.
03 When he knows you have difficulties, he will offer to help you instead of waiting for you to ask for help.
Lu Xun said: "If a person does not have the ability to help the person he loves, it is best not to talk about love or non-love. Of course, help does not equal love, but love cannot exclude help. ”
When we help a person, we don't necessarily like each other; but when we like a person, we will definitely take the initiative to help each other. In the face of love, many times we are involuntarily, and even sometimes it is too late to maintain reason, love has made us involuntarily go to each other's side, concerned about the right life.
It is normal for the opposite sex to occasionally care for each other and help each other. But when a person often takes the initiative to care about you, cares about your life, when you encounter difficulties, will not hesitate to appear around you to help you solve difficulties. This also shows that in his heart, your position is very important.
In such a situation, we have to consider one thing, that is, the other party may already be in love with you, so they will regard your things as very important and will not hesitate to help you.
Schitbachev once said: "Love is an eternal book, and someone has just gone through a few pieces." Some people lingered and spilled hot tears on it. ”
When the opposite sex gets along, if the other party does not love you, maybe he will care about you and will help you, but these are only temporary. A person who truly loves you will definitely use these behaviors to imply you, even if it is not intentional, we should analyze these behaviors, so as to understand the other party's thoughts and handle the relationship well.