When children are young, they have more or less special habits and hobbies of one kind or another. Perhaps in the eyes of parents, these habits and hobbies are very problematic and will affect the healthy development of the baby, so parents often regard them as bad habits and bad diseases. So that the baby is found to have such problems and habits, it will be stopped immediately.
However, it should be known that the bad habits and problems of the child in the eyes of parents will not all affect the healthy development of the baby, and some of them are the healthy development of the baby and the performance of intelligence. If the guidance is good, the baby will be more likely to have a job in the future, if you always force the child to correct, it is not conducive to the healthy growth of the child. You know what?
Why is it that in many cases, some children who have many problems when they are young may grow up to be more successful than obedient babies?
In fact, this is because the "problem child" in the eyes of parents may only be the prejudice and misunderstanding of parents. In fact, these problems and habits represent that children have talent and potential in some way!
Next, I will share with you the bad habits that are often misunderstood by parents in 4 babies, let's take a look! You take a look.
Babies have the habit of eating hands and feet
I believe that mothers will find a phenomenon, that is, infants and young babies like to eat hands very much, not only like to eat hands, but also like to eat feet. It is as if your little feet and little hands are the best food in the world, full of infinite magic and temptation.
In the face of such a situation, the first thing many mothers think of is to stop it immediately, thinking that this is a very bad habit and it is easy to put dirty things into the stomach. It may also be because after developing this habit, I am worried that my children will not be able to change when they grow up, so they will be ridiculed.
However, what parents don't know is that the reason why the baby has the habit of eating hands and feet is actually a manifestation of the baby's brain development, because the baby's exploration and cognition of the world first starts from his own body organs.
For us adults, putting hands and feet in our mouths is a breeze, but for babies it may not be very well controlled and controlled.
And in the beginning, the baby did not realize that his hands and feet were part of his body. It is also through the habit of eating fingers that the baby gradually understands his hands and feet, and slowly realizes that the hands and feet are part of his body, so as to better pave the way for the baby to carry out big exercises in the future. In the process of eating hands and feet, the baby exercises the ability to use the brain, which is conducive to the development of the baby's brain intelligence.
When the baby is fully able to grasp the hands and feet, control the hands and feet, and has realized that the hands and feet are part of his body, the baby will no longer be obsessed with eating hands or feet, and parents can rest assured. As your baby grows older, such habits will slowly disappear.
If parents are just worried that the baby will eat hands and feet, will eat bacteria into the stomach, resulting in the baby's illness, then it is completely possible to do a good job of hygiene work for the baby, wash your hands and feet frequently, and then you can rest assured that the baby can eat hands and feet, so that the baby can better feel his body and explore the world.
Babies have the habit of throwing things around casually
After having a baby at home, the family may become a mess, even if the mother is diligent in cleaning up the housework, she can't stand the baby's random littering. It may have taken a morning to clean up the house, but it won't be long before the baby will be destroyed and the toys will be thrown everywhere, which makes the mother headache.
In fact, when you are a child, your baby likes to throw things around, which is not that the baby is not well-behaved and likes to lose his temper. In the baby's view, this is just a kind of game for himself, his own cognition of things, and a way of exercising his own control of his hands and feet. Throwing things away at will is very helpful for the baby's fine movements and the exercise of eye-hand coordination.
In order to promote the better development of the baby, we should understand the benefits of the baby throwing things to the baby, so as to give the baby some very tactile things, let the baby play freely, the baby's brain development and body coordination are very helpful.
Of course, as the baby grows up, after two or three years old, can understand the words, there is still such a habit, at this time, we need to slowly guide the child, change such a habit, let the child learn to clean up the toys, which is also necessary for the child's growth!
Babies have a habit of tearing paper
I believe that many babies have the habit of playing with paper, especially the paper, the baby likes to pull out the paper one by one, making the floor or full of beds, the baby is happy to play such a game. But for parents, it may be very unsettling, and they will be very depressed and angry when they encounter such a situation, and may also reprimand the baby.
But know that the baby likes to tear paper towels, which is very helpful for the baby's brain development. The baby tears the tissue, which not only promotes the development of the brain, but also exercises the baby's fine movements and hand-eye coordination.
When the baby is still young, want to promote the development of the baby's brain, in fact, by exercising the baby's hands-on ability, you can promote the baby's brain development very well, the baby tears the tissue, this game is a good choice.
In fact, mothers can prepare a paper towel specially for the baby to tear, let the baby play freely, and then put the paper back again, directly let the baby repeatedly entertain.
Babies love the habit of asking questions
I believe that many babies have the habit of asking questions, and feel that babies are a "hundred thousand whys". Babies like to ask all kinds of questions, and the imagination is overwhelming. There may be some simple questions that parents can answer, or will patiently answer. But with the passage of time, parents will gradually lose patience, and the child's questions are getting more and more tricky, and parents may not be able to answer, and they will be a little annoyed and angry, which will perfunctory children, or rudely interrupt the habit of asking questions.
But what parents don't know is that children like to ask questions, it is the child's smart performance, which proves that children have a strong desire to learn, the baby is full of curiosity about the world, through their own observation and exploration, constantly understand the world, through the way of asking questions, but also want to better know and understand our world.
For the child's problem, if the parents are always perfunctory, or rough treatment of the child, then it will affect the child and delay the child's growth.